I don’t see hypergamy around me. (3 Viewers)

[masonfrancis]

I don’t really see hypergamy playing out in my own life the way people online talk about it.

Tbh It honestly feels like a bit of a cope to say that the average woman is constantly chasing some “Chad.” When I look around at people I actually know—whether that’s from school, college, or different social circles—the pattern looks pretty normal.

Most of the attractive girls I know are with guys who are around their level in looks, or sometimes even slightly less attractive. It doesn’t seem like everyone is aiming for the same top-tier guys; it’s more balanced and grounded in real-life compatibility than those sweeping internet claims make it sound.

 

[masonfrancis]

Where are you guys seeing it?

Are you?

Or are you just basing this of TikTok.

 

[Alexander]

I don’t see it cuz im a transient being

 

[FoidGrabber]

I think the older you get the more brutal it becomes. "Just seeing" people together isn't enough. We don't see behind closed doors, refer to my marriage thread. I guess im basing it off the internet too...

 

[AlexanderAcolyte]

a womans mind is very dark and corrupt

 

[geneblackman]

hypergamy as it's described online is cringe and mainly based on dating app data (which is true). if some dude came up to me and even said the word hypergamy im not going to associate with him as he would crash my vibes. an average looking guy irl with social skills and charisma can get a looksmatch gf

both sides are right. guys are right when they say that women can brutal with divorce and cheating while women are right that a lot of guys are awkward, unhygienic and not interesting

it's also pretty difficult for the average guy to stand out online since he's competing with hundreds so sub7s need to get off ig and apps and stick to social circle

 

[Autisticpleighboi]

Somewhat true but remember that those are couples that mostly formed from college/HS social circles

If you missed that ship, then BP def applies since after college, bars/clubs/dating apps is the only way to meet attractive young single women.

Unless you get lucky and happen to meet one at job who is also interested in you but those chances are low. Plus we already know most third spaces and hobby groups are a complete meme with garbage ratios and roasties

 

[Autisticpleighboi]

so sub7s need to get off ig and apps and stick to social circle

yea but this is like saying “Resumecels need to get off LinkedIn and start networking bro” , too vague and luck based

What are the chances that after college you’re going to break into circles with all these young single MTBs and HTBs?

And even if you do manage to get into these circles what are the chances you’ll be able to weasel your way out of the friendzone into their panties as a sub7? What are chances that they set you up with their attractive friends as a sub7?

You have better chances of winning the lottery than building a frat tier social circle post college as sub7 with no clout or money. Not trying to be super negative but there’s a reason we’re on a geomax forum

 

[geneblackman]

yea but this is like saying “Resumecels need to get off LinkedIn and start networking bro” , too vague and luck based

What are the chances that after college you’re going to break into circles with all these young single MTBs and HTBs?

And even if you do manage to get into these circles what are the chances you’ll be able to weasel your way out of the friendzone into their panties as a sub7? What are chances that they set you up with their attractive friends as a sub7?

You have better chances of winning the lottery than building a frat tier social circle post college as sub7 with no clout or money. Not trying to be super negative but there’s a reason we’re on a geomax forum

it's obviously a totally different game after college which is why 25 is oldcel unc status. although dating apps are over, the internet is still the best way to meet women and one of the only remaining ways to get a 21 year old as a 30 year old because you can cast such a wide net

you have to be realistic too. getting an age match or slightly younger and also a looksmatch isn't a horrible deal

 

[myeyes]

Maybe UK is different but in Australia you walk outside and see many skinny or even fit dudes with chubsters or fatties every day everywhere

 

[14passport]

I don’t really see hypergamy playing out in my own life the way people online talk about it.

Tbh It honestly feels like a bit of a cope to say that the average woman is constantly chasing some “Chad.” When I look around at people I actually know—whether that’s from school, college, or different social circles—the pattern looks pretty normal.

Most of the attractive girls I know are with guys who are around their level in looks, or sometimes even slightly less attractive. It doesn’t seem like everyone is aiming for the same top-tier guys; it’s more balanced and grounded in real-life compatibility than those sweeping internet claims make it sound.

same thing in my social circles, men and women dating around their looks and status level
and you just need to go out and walk for 5 minutes to observe most people are with their looksmatch, or close to it

but I will say it is also true that some fields are dominated by hypergamy, dating apps and clubs are the biggest, where many women want to hookup and they chase chad
why wouldn't they, if you are a 6 and all of a sudden you can hookup with 8s, wouldn't you do it?

if you are somewhat normal and not completely ugly you can get MTB for a normal relationship
where it becomes impossible is if you want to slay in the west

 

[MrStealYoPinay]

I saw a mid SEA girl with a 6ft5 built fashionmaxxed htn rich white guy the other day

Meanwhile her looksmatch is some pag pag eating 5ft2 flip flops seller