How to slay lesbians?

[Orientalist]

For some reason I think it’s more common for girls in Asia to be lesbian/bi compared to the west. I think women everywhere by default are on a spectrum of bisexuality but that’s another conversation.

The majority of girls that I’ve been interested in reciprocately or otherwise have usually told me they’re at least bisexual and they do shit like have (several) “gay besties”. I think it makes sense when you think about the common complaints in Asia towards local men and the patriarchal norm and the reasons why many girls are open to dating foreigners. Why date some deranged cube-faced NPC who eats raw garlic and chainsmokes cigarettes when you can just scissor a chinese princess

That being said what’s the strategy for what kind of game you have to run without just getting beta friendzoned? Obviously they’re interested in a certain feminine look (2hollis, kpop, etc.) but what about game?

 

[geneblackman]

Why date some deranged cube-faced NPC who eats raw garlic and chainsmokes cigarettes when you can just scissor a chinese princess

im dead

as for game, i know the type you're referring to. i think they actually want what white women say they want. they unironically seem to want someone who has soft features and is actually emotionally nurturing. i imagine the long game is critical. the key here is still AWALT so having high T traits like above average height is also going to be huge. what's going to prevent getting beta-zoned is looks. always was and always will be

anyway this is just speculation and theory on my end. have you been to chengdu

 

[jimmyjoebob]

I kinda think game is cope unless you’re severely autistic, but apart from the obvious of being attractive, these types of girls care a lot about fashion and how you dress. Also as geneblackman said, a more soft considerate personality doesn’t hurt, but it honestly depends on the girl. However, unlike the west, a more introverted/shy personality is actually endearing to many Asian girls.

I was in Taiwan for a bit and the girls are stereotyped as being lesbian but it really just comes from a higher gay tolerance than the rest of Asia. You pretty much hit the nail on the head with your description of bisexuality as a spectrum. If you are a tall attractive white foreigner that aligns with the local beauty standard (pale skin, slim build, neotenous facial features, etc) lesbian/bi girls will be attracted to you. Funny enough, my Chinese language professor in Taiwan was lesbian but frequently called me cute and was very flirtatious. If she wasn’t in her 40s, I might’ve tapped but I digress. The reason why it seems more common amongst Asian girls is that they idealize a more feminine beauty standard in both men and women compared to the west. It’s less of a male female binary.

The reason why I stopped believing in game beyond just basic social behavior is that I slept with multiple girls who genuinely could not speak any English so we were forced to converse in my limited Chinese which I probably spoke at the same level as a preschooler. It was great for improving my Chinese, but it kinda dispelled any notion that game mattered. I guess beyond language, there is some other things like body language and confidence which transcend language, but I think that is universal in attraction.

 

[Orientalist]

The reason why I stopped believing in game beyond just basic social behavior is that I slept with multiple girls who genuinely could not speak any English so we were forced to converse in my limited Chinese which I probably spoke at the same level as a preschooler. It was great for improving my Chinese, but it kinda dispelled any notion that game mattered. I guess beyond language, there is some other things like body language and confidence which transcend language, but I think that is universal in attraction.

Many "game" experts like Zherka would still agree with you there - 90% of the words you say don't matter, it's the energy and body language you bring

 

[AlexBrown84]

Many "game" experts like Zherka would still agree with you there - 90% of the words you say don't matter, it's the energy and body language you bring

just be playful is law

 

[14passport]

I kinda think game is cope unless you’re severely autistic, but apart from the obvious of being attractive, these types of girls care a lot about fashion and how you dress. Also as geneblackman said, a more soft considerate personality doesn’t hurt, but it honestly depends on the girl. However, unlike the west, a more introverted/shy personality is actually endearing to many Asian girls.

I was in Taiwan for a bit and the girls are stereotyped as being lesbian but it really just comes from a higher gay tolerance than the rest of Asia. You pretty much hit the nail on the head with your description of bisexuality as a spectrum. If you are a tall attractive white foreigner that aligns with the local beauty standard (pale skin, slim build, neotenous facial features, etc) lesbian/bi girls will be attracted to you. Funny enough, my Chinese language professor in Taiwan was lesbian but frequently called me cute and was very flirtatious. If she wasn’t in her 40s, I might’ve tapped but I digress. The reason why it seems more common amongst Asian girls is that they idealize a more feminine beauty standard in both men and women compared to the west. It’s less of a male female binary.

The reason why I stopped believing in game beyond just basic social behavior is that I slept with multiple girls who genuinely could not speak any English so we were forced to converse in my limited Chinese which I probably spoke at the same level as a preschooler. It was great for improving my Chinese, but it kinda dispelled any notion that game mattered. I guess beyond language, there is some other things like body language and confidence which transcend language, but I think that is universal in attraction.

Game absolutely matters but it doesnt mean having game will let you fuck anyone you want, thats dumb

its more of a spectrum that translates into an attractiveness boost if you play it well

a chad will always get more pussy than an obese guy with great game

but i have met plenty of normies that had game and constantly got women above their league, or their sex on 1st date with their looksmatch was very high in terms of success