How to catch an international student?

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I'm studying at a public university in California with a lot of international students. Unfortunately many of them are indian, but there are also a lot of cute east asian girls.

The few times I (6' MTN) interacted with them they've reacted well but they seem to group up and separate from the americans like oil in water. This makes them awkward to approach in class, not to mention that there aren't many in the classes I'm taking to begin with. I never come across them when I'm out - they seem to inhabit an alien social sphere and spend their time on completely different activities, but I have no clue what.

Seeking advice on what these girls are up to, how to meet them, and insight into the mind and mating rituals of the chinese international.

@predeterminism
 
bruh you’re white and 6 ft, you shouldn’t have to do much for a chinese international student

if going the physical pathway of approach, you’ll have to isolate her from the in group

how you go about that is up to you

maybe ask to study together or something? or say you’re trying to learn chinese and ask for help

up to you
 
yeah, once I'm talking to them one on one they make things easy.

but I have no clue where to find them.

the few in my classes aren't cute and while there are supposedly several thousand of 'em here I never run across them in my circles.
 
I'm studying at a public university in California with a lot of international students. Unfortunately many of them are indian, but there are also a lot of cute east asian girls.

The few times I (6' MTN) interacted with them they've reacted well but they seem to group up and separate from the americans like oil in water. This makes them awkward to approach in class, not to mention that there aren't many in the classes I'm taking to begin with. I never come across them when I'm out - they seem to inhabit an alien social sphere and spend their time on completely different activities, but I have no clue what.

Seeking advice on what these girls are up to, how to meet them, and insight into the mind and mating rituals of the chinese international.

@predeterminism
Don’t bother, i have similar stats to you and from my experience International students were the most narcy girls i’ve ever met..
 
Don’t bother, i have similar stats to you and from my experience International students were the most narcy girls i’ve ever met..
i approached a chinese girl studying in manchester back in 2022 and we exchanged instagrams but she never followed me😭😭😭
 
My university also had a bunch of asian international students but I never really tried to take advantage of it before doing my abroad program, here is what I know:

They go clubbing in their asian groups: I rarely ever went clubbing in canada because its normally hell for a non nt incel, but the one successful night out I had there was a big group of jap/korean language school students there, this jap ltb semi approached me so I hunted her down in my drunk/phenibut rage and ended up making out with her which was my first kiss. My roommates girlfriend took a video of it and sent it to my hyper nt roommates and they made fun of me for having yellow fever for the rest of the year. Good experience though.

They like white ppl: I randomly met a jap girl that studied at my university on hellotalk and she told me a bunch of her tales, her friend would take creepshots of guys she thought were handsome, she showed me the pics it was a bunch of white mtn high schoolers jfl. A few of the girls also got in a big fight with eachother over this white mtn that they all matched with on bumble who was dating them all at the same time.

Use bumble: I made the mistake of only trying tinder before giving up on OLD in canada but there was no asians on there at all, but apparantly they use bumble so try that out, maybe try hinge too cuz its obviously more hqnp than tinder so more likely to find asians.

Go to asian clubs at your uni or nearby language school: The same girl from hellotalk told me her and her friends went to the japanese club at my uni to try and find english native speakers but said there was only asian people, so you can probably do well there as a white guy thats not a neckbeard otaku . She also told me about one time two white guys came to the language school and started asking for a bunch of girls instagrams, she said the girls were all really happy and gave them their instagrams so seems legit.

So yeah I feel like a lot of Asian girls studying abroad, especially studying english want a white guy. The girls also tend to be shy and kind of autistic so definitely try to shoot your shot.

Uni is probably the best time to meet girls so my advice is to take advantage of it and dont be afraid to be kinda cringe or fail sometimes cuz yolo.
 
My university also had a bunch of asian international students but I never really tried to take advantage of it before doing my abroad program, here is what I know:

They go clubbing in their asian groups: I rarely ever went clubbing in canada because its normally hell for a non nt incel, but the one successful night out I had there was a big group of jap/korean language school students there, this jap ltb semi approached me so I hunted her down in my drunk/phenibut rage and ended up making out with her which was my first kiss. My roommates girlfriend took a video of it and sent it to my hyper nt roommates and they made fun of me for having yellow fever for the rest of the year. Good experience though.

They like white ppl: I randomly met a jap girl that studied at my university on hellotalk and she told me a bunch of her tales, her friend would take creepshots of guys she thought were handsome, she showed me the pics it was a bunch of white mtn high schoolers jfl. A few of the girls also got in a big fight with eachother over this white mtn that they all matched with on bumble who was dating them all at the same time.

Use bumble: I made the mistake of only trying tinder before giving up on OLD in canada but there was no asians on there at all, but apparantly they use bumble so try that out, maybe try hinge too cuz its obviously more hqnp than tinder so more likely to find asians.

Go to asian clubs at your uni or nearby language school: The same girl from hellotalk told me her and her friends went to the japanese club at my uni to try and find english native speakers but said there was only asian people, so you can probably do well there as a white guy thats not a neckbeard otaku . She also told me about one time two white guys came to the language school and started asking for a bunch of girls instagrams, she said the girls were all really happy and gave them their instagrams so seems legit.

So yeah I feel like a lot of Asian girls studying abroad, especially studying english want a white guy. The girls also tend to be shy and kind of autistic so definitely try to shoot your shot.

Uni is probably the best time to meet girls so my advice is to take advantage of it and dont be afraid to be kinda cringe or fail sometimes cuz yolo.
They are the most hypergamous foids going, i’m suprised OP is interested
 
They are the most hypergamous foids going, i’m suprised OP is interested
Most Gen Z californian girls are retarded wokebots, and most are ugly.

at least at this accursed 25% white school.

getting the interest of a good girl takes effort.

frankly I would rather find a low(er) maintenance intl. and do something else with my time.
 
I took a chinese MTB on a a date and she was fawned over me, bumped into me constantly, touched my hair

Despite me handling the thing terribly & accidentally insulting her a half dozen times

Getting her english name 'wrong' repeatedly (chinese people aren't taught diminutives?), refusing to bring her a coat when she was "cold"

That's what I want in a relationship.
 
I took a chinese MTB on a a date and she was fawned over me, bumped into me constantly, touched my hair

Despite me handling the thing terribly & accidentally insulting her a half dozen times

Getting her english name 'wrong' repeatedly (chinese people aren't taught diminutives?), refusing to bring her a coat when she was "cold"

That's what I want in a relationship.
Did you meet her naturally ?
 
She was sitting next to me in class, I talked to her.

It was strange because she showed 0 interest the week before, didn't even look at me. But as soon as I initiated she was all over me.

That said -

When I took her to my room, she was still receptive. But when I kissed her she said that I "got the wrong idea" and that she "only wanted to cuddle". So maybe she wasn't as into me as she seemed? Puzzle of a woman.
 
Don’t bother, i have similar stats to you and from my experience International students were the most narcy girls i’ve ever met..
Yes true but not because east asians are high smv. Just because if their parents can afford the extreme usa uni fees despite there borderline third world country it means they're part of the elite extremely wealthy class in China so ofc they gonna be gassed up. Basically talking to a millionaire girl
 
My university also had a bunch of asian international students but I never really tried to take advantage of it before doing my abroad program, here is what I know:

They go clubbing in their asian groups: I rarely ever went clubbing in canada because its normally hell for a non nt incel, but the one successful night out I had there was a big group of jap/korean language school students there, this jap ltb semi approached me so I hunted her down in my drunk/phenibut rage and ended up making out with her which was my first kiss. My roommates girlfriend took a video of it and sent it to my hyper nt roommates and they made fun of me for having yellow fever for the rest of the year. Good experience though.

They like white ppl: I randomly met a jap girl that studied at my university on hellotalk and she told me a bunch of her tales, her friend would take creepshots of guys she thought were handsome, she showed me the pics it was a bunch of white mtn high schoolers jfl. A few of the girls also got in a big fight with eachother over this white mtn that they all matched with on bumble who was dating them all at the same time.

Use bumble: I made the mistake of only trying tinder before giving up on OLD in canada but there was no asians on there at all, but apparantly they use bumble so try that out, maybe try hinge too cuz its obviously more hqnp than tinder so more likely to find asians.

Go to asian clubs at your uni or nearby language school: The same girl from hellotalk told me her and her friends went to the japanese club at my uni to try and find english native speakers but said there was only asian people, so you can probably do well there as a white guy thats not a neckbeard otaku . She also told me about one time two white guys came to the language school and started asking for a bunch of girls instagrams, she said the girls were all really happy and gave them their instagrams so seems legit.

So yeah I feel like a lot of Asian girls studying abroad, especially studying english want a white guy. The girls also tend to be shy and kind of autistic so definitely try to shoot your shot.

Uni is probably the best time to meet girls so my advice is to take advantage of it and dont be afraid to be kinda cringe or fail sometimes cuz yolo.
Yea ngl getting a white bf is the entire reason they study abroad
 
When I took her to my room, she was still receptive. But when I kissed her she said that I "got the wrong idea" and that she "only wanted to cuddle". So maybe she wasn't as into me as she seemed? Puzzle of a woman.
they always say that to justify to their conscious that they’re not whores

but they still going
 
they always say that to justify to their conscious that they’re not whores

but they still going
she insisted on washing hands b4 we went into the bedroom and made a show of laying down on my bed, so she clearly had more in mind than cuddling

but she threw out scary words like "consent" and California law is cucked
not worth the risk for a mid girl w/ a dishonest heart

when I can just leverage JBW and get something better
 
anyway, I'll go to a language exchange group in a few days to scout it out for cute internationals.

whether or not I do, I'll also ask around and figure out where the intl. girls hang out.

infiltrate a layer deeper into their cryptic circles.
 
anyway, I'll go to a language exchange group in a few days to scout it out for cute internationals.

whether or not I do, I'll also ask around and figure out where the intl. girls hang out.

infiltrate a layer deeper into their cryptic circles.
Where’s your profile picture from?
 
Where’s your profile picture from?
GPT 4-o image generation

had to fiddle with the prompts a bit to get it to actually make the pictures, I think it was upset about the racial aspect lol

here are the first two pictures, each tailored each based on the previous + a new prompt
 

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GPT 4-o image generation

had to fiddle with the prompts a bit to get it to actually make the pictures, I think it was upset about the racial aspect lol

here are the first two pictures, each tailored each based on the previous + a new prompt
Very interesting; this AI stuff is getting dangerously good at like everything lol
 
Whenever I wanted to date an international Asian student in a major European city (usually Chinese), I would just open Bumble and filter language to Chinese. I believe you can select only one additional language as a free user, idk about paid, but that must work even better probably. I also tried filtering Japanese and Korean a few times all with great success. Now enjoy your full asian Bumble stack. If you for some reason only want the intl students, just check their profile and bio. It gives it away 90% of the time. Another big plus from this is that the international students, no matter where they are from, are there for a good time and not a long time. Which means they are whores. Which is something I like. Good luck
 
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Whenever I wanted to date an international Asian student in a major European city (usually Chinese), I would just open Bumble and filter language to Chinese. I believe you can select only one additional language as a free user, idk about paid, but that must work even better probably. I also tried filtering Japanese and Korean a few times all with great success. Now enjoy your full asian Bumble stack. If you for some reason only want the intl students, just check their profile and bio. It gives it away 90% of the time. Another big plus from this is that the international students, no matter where they are from, are there for a good time and not a long time. Which means they are whores. Which is something I like. Good luck
Sounds fun! I'll give it a try, seems like a really easy way to get some action.


But my ultimate goal is LTR or FWB with a sophisticated girl who's genuinely fun to be around and talk to.
IME, it's hard to find a girl like that through a dating app.
 
Sounds fun! I'll give it a try, seems like a really easy way to get some action.


But my ultimate goal is LTR or FWB with a sophisticated girl who's genuinely fun to be around and talk to.
IME, it's hard to find a girl like that through a dating app.
If you are MTN you are gonna struggle my friend.
 
IME, it's hard to find a girl like that through a dating app.
Yeah tbh. Hinge has a race filter (used to not even be optional which was insanely based) and can be decent for HQNPs, however sometimes "HQNP" on Hinge is more like having a big ego, not even wanting a relationship, or femcels. Ironically, there are also pretty innocent girls on Tinder just because it's the only app they know lol so don't discount them completely
 
Don't think it's as bad as that lol. I'm willing to compromise a lot on looks to get a girl with a decent personality, and I easily mog 80% of the american students here (most of whom are ethnics).
I hope you do well, just my last experience crushed my desire to do it.

My advice is don’t go for older women
 
I hope you do well, just my last experience crushed my desire to do it.

My advice is don’t go for older women
older women aren't shitty; untaken older women are.

if you want a good one, you've got to steal her


edit: not condoning doing so, BTW.

but this is the reality of things. most good women get locked down young.
 
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Sounds fun! I'll give it a try, seems like a really easy way to get some action.


But my ultimate goal is LTR or FWB with a sophisticated girl who's genuinely fun to be around and talk to.
IME, it's hard to find a girl like that through a dating app.
your ultimate goal is still achievable imo. Those foreign students don’t know anyone. They have to use dating app to date, even when they are not sluts and sophisticated. It’s just that in my experience, I noticed many of them were quite adventurous haha. To put it mildly. But that could be bias as well, since I wasn’t looking for anything serious. I do think there are decent intl student girls out there, you just have to keep in mind that a large part of them won’t be.
 
Yeah tbh. Hinge has a race filter (used to not even be optional which was insanely based) and can be decent for HQNPs, however sometimes "HQNP" on Hinge is more like having a big ego, not even wanting a relationship, or femcels. Ironically, there are also pretty innocent girls on Tinder just because it's the only app they know lol so don't discount them completely
Quality of girls on Hinge is very good though. Way better than any other dating app
 

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