Like seriously, I'm trying to start convos with Japanese girls to get their socials but all they're giving me is dead end answers and never showing any interest/asking me questions. Does this happen to any Chads here or am I just too much of a truecel for Japan?
well like my facebook hack, you gotta figure out the culture. Im slowly starting to understand the indonesian fb culture, but it has taken 4 months.
coming from my last distination. Dominican republic. Sexuality is normal and is expected. Here in indonesia. Not so much. So you gotta wrap your head around that. So things you would not think twice about "like a girls fb photo with her tongue a little out of the corner of her mouth" for us. We think okay, she's being silly
in indonesia. she's being a slut LOL. It means she's DTF.
any girl that is showing stomach. she's a whore. YOU WILL NEVER find a girl with a swim suit photo on fb here. EVER. if you do. she almost 100% works as a prostitute. Period. So you see, you have to understand the culture.
most of the "good girls" here, will try to tell you they are virgins uhummmm at 23??!!. Until you get to know them, then they will "tell you a secret".........ya and you think to yourself, how many guys did you tell this "im not a virgin secret" to. Probably everyone you banged.
its' a different culture.
even a group of school girls doing tick tok dances is considered "slutty".
so the hardest part for me was seeing their "signs of "im a whore". minus the very obvious ones.
cause good girl, you no pay, but pay for dates. hard to spot right now in FB. (unless you hit up the girls that dress like muslims) I haven't experimented with that yet.
Or she's in her i am trying the whore thing out. . it can go either way. I am slowly learning how to spot those tell signs in their fb photos.
and finally total whore, you only pay. that was really the easiest one to figure out in FB. by the photos which in DR would be tame in comparison
I did manage to fuck a whore going on a date. (no pay) but when i asked her to go on a weekend trip (i would have paid the entire thing) she was like "how much you gonna pay me". Because obviously if she goes with me for the weekend, she's not making her money at one of those fuck clubs. And she has her bills. And i should have just paid her, instead of going on a date, cause i ended up spending more on the date, than just paying to fuck her.
So the hard fact is, these girls don't live in a fantasy land here. its' about dollars and cents.
but to be honest. Most places that don't have welfare, the girls must either have a good family to support them, so that they can play date me fuck me. And if they don't have that.
its about the dollar.
just what i have observed so far here