Stellar_Travels
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- Mar 10, 2024
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Honestly it seems everybody meet through university, work or being part of the same social circle. I already graduated from university and I don't have an office job anymore, I make more in a month trading than in a full year working for somebody else in a office job. There is no point for me seeking a job. But at the same time, how the heck am I meeting women without being around them? Dating apps are just for male models these days in the West unless you want to bang the scraps and ugly women which I don't.
I want high quality women but without being around them is impossible. It's pointless to go to clubs in Western Europe....they're full of men and the few women in there want to be left alone or are in mixed groups and they aren't open to get approached. Going to a gym is also pointless as men are constantly swarming around girls
And building a social circle is hard when you don't work because you meet and you're exposed to way less people on the daily basis...without seeing the same people often it's hard to form a friendship. And as a guy in your early 30s your social circle that you had when you were younger start to shrink considerably as many people get married, move out, start a family, ecc.
It seems there is no way out, another factor is that most women or at least the best women are taken by the time they're in their late 20s (actually mid 20s) so the pool or available women shrink even further.
When I was in my early 20s it was much easier for me to meet girls as I was studying in university and was constantly exposed to so many girls, it was very easy to befriend them. But right now it's fucking tough. I can either work from my home or go to a cafè or co-working space but it changes nothing. Most people I see in co-working spaces are men LOL and the few women are ugly.
What the fuck should a man do? Going to Asia isn't an option for me because I want a white woman...Asia for me is just for casual sex which I had plenty in the past in that part of the world. Going to Eastern Europe like Prague, Budapest, Warsaw ecc won't fix anything as these girls are completely Westernized by now....maybe in Warsaw you can still get something but not from dating apps. Moscow is clearly the best option although it's not without cons and again, I'll be there alone which isn't great. At least here in Italy I still have some friends that I go out with....in Moscow I'd have to go out alone and it's tough to socialize that way, it's not fun.
What else is there to do?
I want high quality women but without being around them is impossible. It's pointless to go to clubs in Western Europe....they're full of men and the few women in there want to be left alone or are in mixed groups and they aren't open to get approached. Going to a gym is also pointless as men are constantly swarming around girls
And building a social circle is hard when you don't work because you meet and you're exposed to way less people on the daily basis...without seeing the same people often it's hard to form a friendship. And as a guy in your early 30s your social circle that you had when you were younger start to shrink considerably as many people get married, move out, start a family, ecc.
It seems there is no way out, another factor is that most women or at least the best women are taken by the time they're in their late 20s (actually mid 20s) so the pool or available women shrink even further.
When I was in my early 20s it was much easier for me to meet girls as I was studying in university and was constantly exposed to so many girls, it was very easy to befriend them. But right now it's fucking tough. I can either work from my home or go to a cafè or co-working space but it changes nothing. Most people I see in co-working spaces are men LOL and the few women are ugly.
What the fuck should a man do? Going to Asia isn't an option for me because I want a white woman...Asia for me is just for casual sex which I had plenty in the past in that part of the world. Going to Eastern Europe like Prague, Budapest, Warsaw ecc won't fix anything as these girls are completely Westernized by now....maybe in Warsaw you can still get something but not from dating apps. Moscow is clearly the best option although it's not without cons and again, I'll be there alone which isn't great. At least here in Italy I still have some friends that I go out with....in Moscow I'd have to go out alone and it's tough to socialize that way, it's not fun.
What else is there to do?