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- Jan 4, 2024
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My study abroad + job just finished, so I’m leaving Japan in a few days after living in Tokyo for 10 months.
During my time here, I progressed more and learned more about myself than my entire life before this. 10/10 only regret is not travelling sooner.
Dating
Work
Experiences
Areas for Improvement
Plans Moving Forward
Final Takeaways
During my time here, I progressed more and learned more about myself than my entire life before this. 10/10 only regret is not travelling sooner.
Dating
- Experienced consistently getting girls for the first time (casual and gf).
- Learned how to have sex properly.
- Learned traits I’ll look for, and traits I’ll avoid in girls for the future.

Work
- Worked my first 9-5 office job. It was a good company with nice people.
- But the work was stressful and draining (partly because I’m retarded) and 40-50 hours a week (with commute) is too much.
- Learned I’m not cut out to wageslave, so I’m fully committed to making money independently now.

Experiences
- Had many fun adventures and made memories I’ll keep forever.
- Exploring Japan with girls, going to music events, and getting spoiled by my gf were the best.



Areas for Improvement
- Dating Apps: Was still invis on bumble, hellotalk came in clutch, but not ideal to be confined to one app so I need to looksmax and get better pics.
- Housing: Lived in a dorm style house, room was tiny, had public showers that were always dirty, bringing a girl back was a task because of rules and neighbors, constant cortisol spikes from random shit. Learned good housing situation is a must for me.
- Money: Hopefully never getting a j*b again.
- Language: Need to put more effort into learning the language of the country I’m in
- Game: Need to improve social skills and learn how to approach.

Plans Moving Forward
- Start a business and moneymax to at least $2k/month.
- Boost dating potential by looksmaxxing, social media presence, better pics, and learning approach/game while tackling autism.
- Graduate uni so I have a degree to fall back on if needed for teaching or something.
- Perma Geomax, starting with SEA, with future plans for China or returning to Japan.

Final Takeaways
- Lock in so you can geomax asap.
- WAGMI bros.

