Geomax Going Back Home: What I Learned After 10 Months Geomaxxing in Japan

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My study abroad + job just finished, so I’m leaving Japan in a few days after living in Tokyo for 10 months.
During my time here, I progressed more and learned more about myself than my entire life before this. 10/10 only regret is not travelling sooner.

Dating
  • Experienced consistently getting girls for the first time (casual and gf).
  • Learned how to have sex properly.
  • Learned traits I’ll look for, and traits I’ll avoid in girls for the future.
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Work
  • Worked my first 9-5 office job. It was a good company with nice people.
  • But the work was stressful and draining (partly because I’m retarded) and 40-50 hours a week (with commute) is too much.
  • Learned I’m not cut out to wageslave, so I’m fully committed to making money independently now.
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Experiences
  • Had many fun adventures and made memories I’ll keep forever.
  • Exploring Japan with girls, going to music events, and getting spoiled by my gf were the best.
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Areas for Improvement
  • Dating Apps: Was still invis on bumble, hellotalk came in clutch, but not ideal to be confined to one app so I need to looksmax and get better pics.
  • Housing: Lived in a dorm style house, room was tiny, had public showers that were always dirty, bringing a girl back was a task because of rules and neighbors, constant cortisol spikes from random shit. Learned good housing situation is a must for me.
  • Money: Hopefully never getting a j*b again.
  • Language: Need to put more effort into learning the language of the country I’m in
  • Game: Need to improve social skills and learn how to approach.
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Plans Moving Forward
  • Start a business and moneymax to at least $2k/month.
  • Boost dating potential by looksmaxxing, social media presence, better pics, and learning approach/game while tackling autism.
  • Graduate uni so I have a degree to fall back on if needed for teaching or something.
  • Perma Geomax, starting with SEA, with future plans for China or returning to Japan.
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Final Takeaways
  • Lock in so you can geomax asap.
  • WAGMI bros.
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Great summary.

Regarding future plans the business is gonna be the hardest one. I had that plan as well because i‘m not made for wageslaving either. But i still haven‘t made it. For now i‘m compensating with a part time remote job. It’s much more tolerable than being chained to the office full time. but it’s not a real solution.

I‘ve started coming to the conclusion that freelancing would be the more realistic plan than some product business if you don’t have any useful connections to other business people or investors. Of course youtube gurus are gonna tell you otherwise.
 
what's your height and looks level?
5'10 ltn-mtn
Great summary.

Regarding future plans the business is gonna be the hardest one.
Thank you, and yes I know it will be tough so I'm gonna put my all into it.

My current tier list is something like:
-Product business
-Freelancing
-Remote job
-Teacher
-Neet living with parents
-Office job
 
My study abroad + job just finished, so I’m leaving Japan in a few days after living in Tokyo for 10 months.
During my time here, I progressed more and learned more about myself than my entire life before this. 10/10 only regret is not travelling sooner.

Dating
  • Experienced consistently getting girls for the first time (casual and gf).
  • Learned how to have sex properly.
  • Learned traits I’ll look for, and traits I’ll avoid in girls for the future.
IMG-4920.jpg

Work
  • Worked my first 9-5 office job. It was a good company with nice people.
  • But the work was stressful and draining (partly because I’m retarded) and 40-50 hours a week (with commute) is too much.
  • Learned I’m not cut out to wageslave, so I’m fully committed to making money independently now.
images.jpg

Experiences
  • Had many fun adventures and made memories I’ll keep forever.
  • Exploring Japan with girls, going to music events, and getting spoiled by my gf were the best.
IMG-4922.jpg
IMG-4919.jpg
IMG-4916.jpg

Areas for Improvement
  • Dating Apps: Was still invis on bumble, hellotalk came in clutch, but not ideal to be confined to one app so I need to looksmax and get better pics.
  • Housing: Lived in a dorm style house, room was tiny, had public showers that were always dirty, bringing a girl back was a task because of rules and neighbors, constant cortisol spikes from random shit. Learned good housing situation is a must for me.
  • Money: Hopefully never getting a j*b again.
  • Language: Need to put more effort into learning the language of the country I’m in
  • Game: Need to improve social skills and learn how to approach.
72a9cba406b51b39220ac534d2cf9f83.jpg

Plans Moving Forward
  • Start a business and moneymax to at least $2k/month.
  • Boost dating potential by looksmaxxing, social media presence, better pics, and learning approach/game while tackling autism.
  • Graduate uni so I have a degree to fall back on if needed for teaching or something.
  • Perma Geomax, starting with SEA, with future plans for China or returning to Japan.
oh-well-play-the-cards-that-im-given.jpg

Final Takeaways
  • Lock in so you can geomax asap.
  • WAGMI bros.
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IMG-4918.jpg
I don't know if China's what it used to be. I'd be living in Vietnam in the future if I were you. And as far as the living situation goes are you sure it's just not about privacy? No roommates is a must for me but as long as I have that I've got no problem with no hot water or 3rd world conditions.
 
I don't know if China's what it used to be. I'd be living in Vietnam in the future if I were you. And as far as the living situation goes are you sure it's just not about privacy? No roommates is a must for me but as long as I have that I've got no problem with no hot water or 3rd world conditions.
What’s wrong with China nowadays?
They still pay the best for teaching on average in all of Asia and the mainland is still mostly unsaturated with foreigners…
 
And as far as the living situation goes are you sure it's just not about privacy? No roommates is a must for me but as long as I have that I've got no problem with no hot water or 3rd world conditions.
he probably just meant a shared flat and not a real dorm.

But yes, private bedroom is a must. Unless you share it with a bisexual nympho girl 😜
 
Explain further…
From 2015 till around 2021 China had huge expat bubbles in every city. Before 2014 it was only more rugged, adventurous travel oriented types of expats that you'd find in China. Starting in 2016 though their was an influx of Westerners and with it came exactly the type of people you wanted to get away from in the West. I remember there was this stupid girl in Kunming that would catch street dogs, clean them up and vaccinate them, then find someone in USA or Canada to adopt before spending a whole bunch of money on documents and flying them to Toronto or whatever. Foreigner associed clubs and bars would have a lot of these types of people. They'd be your co workers.
 
From 2015 till around 2021 China had huge expat bubbles in every city. Before 2014 it was only more rugged, adventurous travel oriented types of expats that you'd find in China. Starting in 2016 though their was an influx of Westerners and with it came exactly the type of people you wanted to get away from in the West.
Have they returned post-covid? I'm still not sure what you mean by people you'd want to get away from though. What's wrong with vaccinating dogs? I know someone who knows someone living in Vietnam with an actual business doing something like that
 
Have they returned post-covid? I'm still not sure what you mean by people you'd want to get away from though. What's wrong with vaccinating dogs? I know someone who knows someone living in Vietnam with an actual business doing something like that
Wasting money on rescuing street dogs in China and sending them to North America. She's an idiot that doesn't have her head screwed on straight. Can you imagine what a conversation with this type of person at a bar typically looks like?

And I'm talking about woke people. A lot of tone policing and the gender roles between males and females resembling what it looks like in the West.

I'd say that before 2015 girls like that never really could be found in China. There were always a lot of Russians but before 2015, among Western expats in China, the only girls or women that came were adventurous. It was still a man's world among the expat population as well as the Chinese
 
Have they returned post-covid? I'm still not sure what you mean by people you'd want to get away from though. What's wrong with vaccinating dogs? I know someone who knows someone living in Vietnam with an actual business doing something like that
Some returned post covid but they aren't there now. In 2022 the industry was pretty much banned. Even before that though, since around 2018, it had been getting much tougher to open bank accounts and pay electronically. Since I'd first come in 2011 you could open a bank account as a foreigner on a tourist visa living in a hotel but in 2018 I had to jump through hoops to convince a bank in Shanghai to let me open an account. I had a tourist visa and was living in an apartment having just returned to China after 3 and a half months in USA and the seven previous months in SE Asia.

I never opened another bank account after that. Even after getting married to a Chinese and accidentally getting 2 year residency in China because of a lucky clerical mistake. It was just to difficult to open an account as a foreigner in China after that.

Wait, actually I did open a joint account through ICBC with my wife one time, solely for the purpose of showing proof of really marriage to the US embassy for a greencard. We had to make an appointment and they had the whole bank closed down just for us, and a special manager come just to teach the staff how to do it. People don't really do joint accounts in China. Anyways, we never used that account. Just pumped and dumped it for the paperwork to show the consulate in GZ. After getting married I just used my wife's bank accounts and cards. All the money I made teaching illegally was put into her accounts and withdrawn.

Then I remember in early 2019 most of the foreigners I knew got a notice from their banks that they had 30 days to withdraw all their money because their accounts were going to be shut down. Back then 60% of us were working on tourist or fake student visas. The odd time I would end up working for a company with really good connections and they could send me to HK with fake paperwork and come back with a legit work visa but the company had to be really good, otherwise I'd be in trouble if I wanted to change jobs. I'd be tied to that company.

Covid took a toll on teachers like that in China because it happened right at the beginning of Chinese New year. A lot of teachers were out of China vacationing in places like Thailand and Bali and were told by their schools to just stay on vacation because they wouldn't be able to open again for another month or two. Then before most of them came back China suddenly closed the borders to foreigners. The school I had been working at during that time had 9 foreign teachers. All of them were locked out of the country except for me and one other guy from Egypt. Him and I were the only foreigners at that school who were married to Chinese, and we had been enjoying Chinese New Year in the villages with our wife's family. We came back to school in April I think. The pay was increased because we were the only two foreigners but crack downs began to pick up in China. Our school had a pretty good relationship with local authorities but in July of that year the both of us got arrested and spent fourteen hours in a jail. I guess there was a new police Chief or something with a new initiative and all our school's guanxi didn't matter. We both thought we were gonna get deported but fortunately our boss was able to come to an agreement with the police and we were let go. A few months later I applied for another 2 year Q visa just fine but my Egyptian friend was denied a visa in May 2021 after returning to Egypt to visit family. His wife was 5 months pregnant at the time and he even tried to get a humanitarian visa to be able to come back to China before the kid was born but he was informed he had been blacklisted. He ended up meeting his son for the first time in 2023 after he was already a year old. I think he's been back to China since. Anyways, I might have been blacklisted. Now I guess I can only apply in person for a Chinese visa for the rest of my life.

China really squashed the world that existed there in 2022 when Mr. Xi blanket banned supplementary education in China. Only legit foreigners could work in China anymore. Unless you went completely online, tutored a handful of pretty wealthy people, or incurred extreme risk at an underground school you were going home.

The expat life in China that was before is completely gone with the wind now. You gotta be tied to one School. I lived in 13 different cities in my time in China. It was a blast. Now it's not gonna be so much fun. You could get lucky and stuck in a nice place but something's missing.
 
Some returned post covid but they aren't there now. In 2022 the industry was pretty much banned. Even before that though, since around 2018, it had been getting much tougher to open bank accounts and pay electronically. Since I'd first come in 2011 you could open a bank account as a foreigner on a tourist visa living in a hotel but in 2018 I had to jump through hoops to convince a bank in Shanghai to let me open an account. I had a tourist visa and was living in an apartment having just returned to China after 3 and a half months in USA and the seven previous months in SE Asia.

I never opened another bank account after that. Even after getting married to a Chinese and accidentally getting 2 year residency in China because of a lucky clerical mistake. It was just to difficult to open an account as a foreigner in China after that.

Wait, actually I did open a joint account through ICBC with my wife one time, solely for the purpose of showing proof of really marriage to the US embassy for a greencard. We had to make an appointment and they had the whole bank closed down just for us, and a special manager come just to teach the staff how to do it. People don't really do joint accounts in China. Anyways, we never used that account. Just pumped and dumped it for the paperwork to show the consulate in GZ. After getting married I just used my wife's bank accounts and cards. All the money I made teaching illegally was put into her accounts and withdrawn.

Then I remember in early 2019 most of the foreigners I knew got a notice from their banks that they had 30 days to withdraw all their money because their accounts were going to be shut down. Back then 60% of us were working on tourist or fake student visas. The odd time I would end up working for a company with really good connections and they could send me to HK with fake paperwork and come back with a legit work visa but the company had to be really good, otherwise I'd be in trouble if I wanted to change jobs. I'd be tied to that company.

Covid took a toll on teachers like that in China because it happened right at the beginning of Chinese New year. A lot of teachers were out of China vacationing in places like Thailand and Bali and were told by their schools to just stay on vacation because they wouldn't be able to open again for another month or two. Then before most of them came back China suddenly closed the borders to foreigners. The school I had been working at during that time had 9 foreign teachers. All of them were locked out of the country except for me and one other guy from Egypt. Him and I were the only foreigners at that school who were married to Chinese, and we had been enjoying Chinese New Year in the villages with our wife's family. We came back to school in April I think. The pay was increased because we were the only two foreigners but crack downs began to pick up in China. Our school had a pretty good relationship with local authorities but in July of that year the both of us got arrested and spent fourteen hours in a jail. I guess there was a new police Chief or something with a new initiative and all our school's guanxi didn't matter. We both thought we were gonna get deported but fortunately our boss was able to come to an agreement with the police and we were let go. A few months later I applied for another 2 year Q visa just fine but my Egyptian friend was denied a visa in May 2021 after returning to Egypt to visit family. His wife was 5 months pregnant at the time and he even tried to get a humanitarian visa to be able to come back to China before the kid was born but he was informed he had been blacklisted. He ended up meeting his son for the first time in 2023 after he was already a year old. I think he's been back to China since. Anyways, I might have been blacklisted. Now I guess I can only apply in person for a Chinese visa for the rest of my life.

China really squashed the world that existed there in 2022 when Mr. Xi blanket banned supplementary education in China. Only legit foreigners could work in China anymore. Unless you went completely online, tutored a handful of pretty wealthy people, or incurred extreme risk at an underground school you were going home.

The expat life in China that was before is completely gone with the wind now. You gotta be tied to one School. I lived in 13 different cities in my time in China. It was a blast. Now it's not gonna be so much fun. You could get lucky and stuck in a nice place but something's missing.
I'm sorry you went through such a tumultuous experience, but to me this sounds like China should be better than ever for foreigners who are able to slip into residency.
 
I'm sorry you went through such a tumultuous experience, but to me this sounds like China should be better than ever for foreigners who are able to slip into residency.
Chinese attitudes towards foreigners wasn't generally good when I was last there
 
I'm sorry you went through such a tumultuous experience, but to me this sounds like China should be better than ever for foreigners who are able to slip into residency.
I'm sure it was quite the adventure back before things went super digital and Google translate was mediocre. But as someone who's never been there during those times, you shouldn't be feeling like anything is missing. Quite the opposite
I suppose nothing else today will really replace those times; developing nations like Vietnam or Cambodia aren't as vast or culturally interesting
 
I'm sorry you went through such a tumultuous experience, but to me this sounds like China should be better than ever for foreigners who are able to slip into residency.
Only boring ass international school type foreigners in China now. Lame ass people people. Nobody fun to have a drink with. Upright losers that see themselves as really noble.
 
Only boring ass international school type foreigners in China now. Lame ass people people. Nobody fun to have a drink with. Upright losers that see themselves as really noble.
That sux, I get a vibe from the expat communities I've joined that it is a pretty uptight environment. Forget even talking about dating let alone geomaxxing. They will label you a sexpat and carry on with their rock climbing or badminton or whatever bland hobbies they pursue. I wonder if you know what I mean... they feel like redditors

There are a few OGs among us. Hold out hope
 
That sux, I get a vibe from the expat communities I've joined that it is a pretty uptight environment. Forget even talking about dating let alone geomaxxing. They will label you a sexpat and carry on with their rock climbing or badminton or whatever bland hobbies they pursue. I wonder if you know what I mean... they feel like redditors

There are a few OGs among us. Hold out hope
I know exactly what you mean. Rock climbing and gym. I miss the days of heroin addicts, shameless sexpats, and drug smugglers on a cooling off period. Those are the kinds of expats I miss hanging around in China.
 
it's always funny to see old sexpats in China complain because they cant fake into a high paying job anymore or because women have noticed they are losers
 
Only boring ass international school type foreigners in China now. Lame ass people people. Nobody fun to have a drink with. Upright losers that see themselves as really noble.
Yep i got this vibe from listening in on a blonde canadian girl and some white guys conversation at a cafe in Shanghai while they talked about teacher work
 
That sux, I get a vibe from the expat communities I've joined that it is a pretty uptight environment. Forget even talking about dating let alone geomaxxing. They will label you a sexpat and carry on with their rock climbing or badminton or whatever bland hobbies they pursue. I wonder if you know what I mean... they feel like redditors

There are a few OGs among us. Hold out hope
Are you talking about the expats you knew in Japan?
 
Caveats being 1) I only know the expats in China through virtual platforms like my school's group and 2) I didn't really hang out with teachers in Japan, mostly businessmen and students
 
My study abroad + job just finished, so I’m leaving Japan in a few days after living in Tokyo for 10 months.
During my time here, I progressed more and learned more about myself than my entire life before this. 10/10 only regret is not travelling sooner.

Dating
  • Experienced consistently getting girls for the first time (casual and gf).
  • Learned how to have sex properly.
  • Learned traits I’ll look for, and traits I’ll avoid in girls for the future.
IMG-4920.jpg

Work
  • Worked my first 9-5 office job. It was a good company with nice people.
  • But the work was stressful and draining (partly because I’m retarded) and 40-50 hours a week (with commute) is too much.
  • Learned I’m not cut out to wageslave, so I’m fully committed to making money independently now.
images.jpg

Experiences
  • Had many fun adventures and made memories I’ll keep forever.
  • Exploring Japan with girls, going to music events, and getting spoiled by my gf were the best.
IMG-4922.jpg
IMG-4919.jpg
IMG-4916.jpg

Areas for Improvement
  • Dating Apps: Was still invis on bumble, hellotalk came in clutch, but not ideal to be confined to one app so I need to looksmax and get better pics.
  • Housing: Lived in a dorm style house, room was tiny, had public showers that were always dirty, bringing a girl back was a task because of rules and neighbors, constant cortisol spikes from random shit. Learned good housing situation is a must for me.
  • Money: Hopefully never getting a j*b again.
  • Language: Need to put more effort into learning the language of the country I’m in
  • Game: Need to improve social skills and learn how to approach.
72a9cba406b51b39220ac534d2cf9f83.jpg

Plans Moving Forward
  • Start a business and moneymax to at least $2k/month.
  • Boost dating potential by looksmaxxing, social media presence, better pics, and learning approach/game while tackling autism.
  • Graduate uni so I have a degree to fall back on if needed for teaching or something.
  • Perma Geomax, starting with SEA, with future plans for China or returning to Japan.
oh-well-play-the-cards-that-im-given.jpg

Final Takeaways
  • Lock in so you can geomax asap.
  • WAGMI bros.
504807159-18284403511269640-5983691879376783123-n.jpg
IMG-4918.jpg
Which school did you go to for your Japanese learning course?
 

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