News flirting is so cringe i cant do it

[geneblackman]

it's so fucking humiliating and off-putting. girls lose interest in me and/or think im gay because im incapable of doing it. i did it once by accident to a latina while i was drunk and it worked well

can i get some tips from the pros

 

[nomad]

do you think a lot when trying to flirt/game her?

 

[currylarper]

i don't think ive ever actually flirted with a foid

 

[geneblackman]

do you think a lot when trying to flirt/game her?

i just unironically don't think about it at all. i don't know when to start. the only time i go along with it is when she does it first

i understand that if she's keeping up a conversation with me for awhile then she's probably down for it but it just always feels stupid to do then she suddenly stops talking to me. asians can go on for awhile and be more subtle but for latinas they'll just suddenly drop me after like 2-3 days

 

[myeyes]

Why is it humiliating? For me I like to flirt with them as early as possible, because if they’re a time waster or not attracted to you then flirting will repel them, which is what I want, I want women who aren’t attracted to me to GO AWAY

Women who like you will like that you flirted with them even you do it badly

 

[wannaimprove]

for me sometimes it works great but it's difficult to actually break in through the first wall of resistance because i look intimidating

 

[geneblackman]

Why is it humiliating?

it feels like im giving in to them and being controlled

 

[Sneep]

Yep, I've never done it either. Fuck all that stupid social shit. When I speak to girls and women, I am straightforward and I tell them what I intend to say. So there are no games involved. I remember telling a girl straight up that she is cute and asking for her number, right off the bat. Just walked up to her.
That's how I do things. I don't think that's flirting. That is called, asking for what you want.

Flirting? Fuck all that noise.

 

[myeyes]

it feels like im giving in to them and being controlled

For me it’s the opposite tbh. Maybe because I’ve done day game and sometimes if you flirt and they don’t like it, you still feel in control because there is nothing they can do about it even if they’re uncomfortable

 

[abbb127273]

Just touch their hands and feet and do eye contact that’s all you need for flirting

 

[Pained4ever]

it's so fucking humiliating and off-putting. girls lose interest in me and/or think im gay because im incapable of doing it. i did it once by accident to a latina while i was drunk and it worked well

can i get some tips from the pros

same tbh i just talk like a retard and autistically ask if they wanna leave and hope they say yes. ill be drunk saying slurs and shit bc im socially and generally retarded