Extreme Lookism is a massive cope for non NT

[BeardedUnicorn]

Realistically most NT normie looking dudes are getting laid through social conventions. The massive underrating of male appearance and extreme obssesion with looksmaxxing is massive cope, I think trying to blend in as a normie is a much bigger task if not out right impossible. I think the main issue is lack of NT for alot of us. Which is fine tbh, maybe its a cope but being a normie scum in this shit society is the equivilant of slave cattle. You can make a case for sub5s but I will put my money that the vast majority of PSL, rehab room commenters, bp shorts viewers, .org, etc are normie tier. I would wager that only 5-10% of the male population is truly fubar based off their looks alone or having major deformities. I dont know how to solve this issue myself, I can blend in well enough but given time normies sniff me out. I dont mind trying to improve my social skills but trying to normify myself that I can not do.

 

[Pained4ever]

Realistically most NT normie looking dudes are getting laid through social conventions. The massive underrating of male appearance and extreme obssesion with looksmaxxing is massive cope, I think trying to blend in as a normie is a much bigger task if not out right impossible. I think the main issue is lack of NT for alot of us. Which is fine tbh, maybe its a cope but being a normie scum in this shit society is the equivilant of slave cattle. You can make a case for sub5s but I will put my money that the vast majority of PSL, rehab room commenters, bp shorts viewers, .org, etc are normie tier. I would wager that only 5-10% of the male population is truly fubar based off their looks alone or having major deformities. I dont know how to solve this issue myself, I can blend in well enough but given time normies sniff me out. I dont mind trying to improve my social skills but trying to normify myself that I can not do.

I think most would agree with you. It's also true that for sub htn men, it's a pain in the ass and the juice isn't worth the squeeze. But yes non-nt is a death sentence. I'm 3/10 and non nt so i have essentially zero options so seeing average fakecel filth on incel forums is always kinda annoying

 

[BeardedUnicorn]

I think most would agree with you. It's also true that for sub htn men, it's a pain in the ass and the juice isn't worth the squeeze. But yes non-nt is a death sentence. I'm 3/10 and non nt so i have essentially zero options so seeing average fakecel filth on incel forums is always kinda annoying

yeah 1000%, I think guys like us realize the juice isnt worth the squeeze. low iqs will say its cope

 

[Pained4ever]

yeah 1000%, I think guys like us realize the juice isnt worth the squeeze. low iqs will say its cope

Something that's under-discussed is relationship maintenance, not just acquisition. I'm too non-nt for that shit, and light years behind my peers as it is. Why would I even bother? But mtn oofy-doofy retards break their backs and give up so much opportunity for ugly used up roast beef women that think about chad during their bi-weekly missionary. Fuck all that.

 

[BeardedUnicorn]

Something that's under-discussed is relationship maintenance, not just acquisition. I'm too non-nt for that shit, and light years behind my peers as it is. Why would I even bother? But mtn oofy-doofy retards break their backs and give up so much opportunity for ugly used up roast beef women that think about chad during their bi-weekly missionary. Fuck all that.

most in the bp wont acknowledge this

 

[Pained4ever]

most in the bp wont acknowledge this

they'll acknowledge but not internalize. They're all bluepilled in reality. Virtually nobody is fully blackpilled

 

[14passport]

i have to agree, if you are truly ugly, very short, autism...
it's very hard even if you looksmaxx

at that point your best bet is to geomax to a country such as thailand and philippines, and get a decent longterm gf

 

[BiggChungus]

dunno bro. I think if you look at it realistically I think anyone below 50% is completely fucked these days without money or without a decent head on their shoulders. I dont think you can imagine how stupid the average person is. the average person has trouble applying fractions to real life situations. imagine someone like this trying to crawl themselves out of whatever hole they are in, in addition to them being below average. the world is more complicated than it has ever been and even in the past most people had trouble figuring out how to hold down a decent job and pay a mortgage when they were basically handed out for free.

 

[niggerjewrapist5879]

You're probably right but the normie dating life isn't ideal
who wants to go on dates, simp, and tryhard
Need to order girls like doordash

 

[KingWigga]

Half the dudes struggling would be ok if they weren’t obese - problem is the chicks are obese too - not much to motivate you here lol