Geomax Does cold approach work on East Asians? (2 Viewers)

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Getting frustrated because it looked promising talking to chinese girls at first. Interactions go well they seem at least friendly and often interested, tilting their head playing with their hair turning their body towards me when sitting down (I notice whores in the west don't show overt interest but it goes somewhere anyway) and I get their wechat but either they don't accept request or are dry on text.
I feel like results may change a lot in a nightlife area
 
From what I've heard (contrary to most peoples intuition) there is a culture of cold approach in Asia and you actually must be very direct even opening with asking for wechat because there's no culture of small talk in East Asia so indirect talk just seems awkward or sneaky
Also not sure if you can hookup at no acquaintance from this approach or have to play long game
 
they're all on rednote, line, wechat, tiktok, instagram, hellotalk or tandem so go there. cold approach is dead worldwide
 
they're all on rednote, line, wechat, tiktok, instagram, hellotalk or tandem so go there. cold approach is dead worldwide
I heard this about hellotalk rednote (rest just seem like messaging apps idk how youd get girls from there) but IRL chinese people say they don't have followers and nobody uses it for dating/communication. I did meet one chinese guy who met his gf on tiktok.
Does it mean I'm incel if I get only legitimate language talk on hellotalk and nobody follows me back on rednote (using the follow girls message when they follow back)? idk how these work
 
I heard this about hellotalk rednote (rest just seem like messaging apps idk how youd get girls from there) but IRL chinese people say they don't have followers and nobody uses it for dating/communication. I did meet one chinese guy who met his gf on tiktok.
the entire internet is a global dating app. if you're looking for a LTR, most decent asian women will wanna have a friendship first then progress from there.

on wechat and line there public groups you can join. i don't know about kakaotalk
Does it mean I'm incel if I get only legitimate language talk on hellotalk
it's definitely not a good sign...
they should be open to personal conversations within a week or two of casual chatting. if you haven't had a chinese girl flirt with you or got a japanese girl to open up then there's a problem somewhere
 
the entire internet is a global dating app. if you're looking for a LTR, most decent asian women will wanna have a friendship first then progress from there.

on wechat and line there public groups you can join. i don't know about kakaotalk

it's definitely not a good sign...
they should be open to personal conversations within a week or two of casual chatting. if you haven't had a chinese girl flirt with you or got a japanese girl to open up then there's a problem somewhere
On Hellotalk I have conversations for one or two days before ghosting, or if I try to progress I get shut down
I have gotten few girls on wechat from it and just for language learning. So I never even got the idea that this was a dating app
I dont know if you need to do anything special or anyone whod be attractive to east asian girls can just open hellotalk and know that theyd be able to hook up. I know compliments dont even mean anything for meeting the girl but i dont even remember if I got that
 
On Hellotalk I have conversations for one or two days before ghosting, or if I try to progress I get shut down
even gl guys will get ghosted frequently. that's just the game.

however, 1-2 days that's too quick to escalate. you need more time. what country are you messaging?
So I never even got the idea that this was a dating app
it's not a dating app, but it is. you know?
I dont know if you need to do anything special or anyone whod be attractive to east asian girls can just open hellotalk and know that theyd be able to hook up.
just time. learn the language for a little bit with them if you have to, then start asking them questions about themselves. have a decent face
I know compliments dont even mean anything for meeting the girl but i dont even remember if I got that
you need to fix your profile pic
 
even gl guys will get ghosted frequently. that's just the game.

however, 1-2 days that's too quick to escalate. you need more time. what country are you messaging?

it's not a dating app, but it is. you know?

just time. learn the language for a little bit with them if you have to, then start asking them questions about themselves. have a decent face

you need to fix your profile pic
I used it for months no vip learning chinese i didnt really get any girls
my profile picture was a mediocre selfie and later i posted 2 pictures
many of those girls used pfp's of celebrities
i kind of got ignored on group voicecall rooms but was too nervous to talk anyway. people there were way too NT for me. voicecalled some girls individually
I dont know how obvious girls make it but... i got the idea that it was not used as a dating app. they dont even live in the same country
 
To your answer cold approaching asians works, take it from me i’m 17 and fucked quite alot of chinks this year (not number dropping)


just of red note and cold approach


Just depends if you look good and NT
That is surprising, where do you approach and what is the difference between races and what is your line
what is your looks rating and NT
 
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I used it for months no vip learning chinese i didnt really get any girls
my profile picture was a mediocre selfie and later i posted 2 pictures
I dont know how obvious girls make it but... i got the idea that it was not used as a dating app. they dont even live in the same country
what race are you? it's almost giga over if you can't get any sort of flirting from not even one chinese girl

you have to be doing something wrong
 
Getting frustrated because it looked promising talking to chinese girls at first. Interactions go well they seem at least friendly and often interested, tilting their head playing with their hair turning their body towards me when sitting down (I notice whores in the west don't show overt interest but it goes somewhere anyway) and I get their wechat but either they don't accept request or are dry on text.
I feel like results may change a lot in a nightlife area
I mean it kinda works and kinda doesn't in the sense that rarely asian girls reject you harshly in public, but they just do it after when you try to set up a date or make conversation in chat. Instead when you are able to take the contact of a white girl it's more plausible she is at least mildly interested since usually they have no problem to tell you to fuck off in the first place when you cold approach.

At the end of the day it's always all about face/height and perceived status/money/Nt, be white or asian or black or whatever you want girls, the days of easy good looking pussy for the mid man are ove, asian and black girls have still less requirements but the gate is closing fast

God save us all
 

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