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All woman compete on who can be the most deranged tattooed party whore living an "alternative" lifestyle.
Turning 30 soon, trying to find a decent woman to settle down with. Brutal oldcel

The jew Apps try to press more money out of me. I do get some matches, but not enough to fill my dating pipeline. Mostly asians

What did you do to improve your profile further? Thinking about using AI and photofeeler.com to improve my pics
Might have to give up and start dating in Poland again or a smaller german city
 
there's zero point in using apps to find a girl to settle down with. the ones who are worth it aren't on the apps. i don't know why people keep wasting time on tinder and bumble in 2026 unless they want easy slays in an ethnic country

photofeeler is cucked. you need to meet in person or on social media
 
I am not NT enough to meet girls outside the Apps and don't have hobbies where girls are around. I met my last gf in real life, but I was just lucky and this will probably not happen again in the next 10 years

How do you meet girls outside the Apps? I don't see myself doing cringe cold approach. Maybe I can run some instagram game
 
RealMewer said:
Maybe I can run some instagram game
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this is the only way in 2026. instagram, hellotalk, etc. broads want to "fall in love" but it has to be while they're doomscrolling in bed

what i do irl is pick a few cafes and libraries to frequent then talk to girls i see often
 
RealMewer said:
All woman compete on who can be the most deranged tattooed party whore living an "alternative" lifestyle.
Turning 30 soon, trying to find a decent woman to settle down with. Brutal oldcel

The jew Apps try to press more money out of me. I do get some matches, but not enough to fill my dating pipeline. Mostly asians

What did you do to improve your profile further? Thinking about using AI and photofeeler.com to improve my pics
Might have to give up and start dating in Poland again or a smaller german city
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no shortcut in the west
level in every way you can think of including pic quality, body, style, fashion, lifestyle, money...
 
geneblackman said:
there's zero point in using apps to find a girl to settle down with. the ones who are worth it aren't on the apps. i don't know why people keep wasting time on tinder and bumble in 2026 unless they want easy slays in an ethnic country

photofeeler is cucked. you need to meet in person or on social media
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not true at all, dating apps are #1 (outside of friend circle, university), especially in liberal places like Europe
the problem is you need to have a high enough SMV to get the good women
 
14passport said:
not true at all, dating apps are #1 (outside of friend circle, university), especially in liberal places like Europe
the problem is you need to have a high enough SMV to get the good women
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this doesn't make sense logistically. we know that the gender ratio is incredibly off plus women hardly swipe right to begin with. so either everyone is NT and we're the freaks or it is in fact the number one way to get in a relationship but that still doesn't mean anything because 90% of guys are going sexless anyway
 
geneblackman said:
this doesn't make sense logistically. we know that the gender ratio is incredibly off plus women hardly swipe right to begin with. so either everyone is NT and we're the freaks or it is in fact the number one way to get in a relationship but that still doesn't mean anything because 90% of guys are going sexless anyway
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that's not what I'm debating

its simply dumb to say there are no decent women in there, there's plenty of them if you have a high SMV

dating apps being only for hookups hasnt been a thing for a decade

nowadays theres lots of decent women that use dating apps as their number one way of looking for a relationship
 
14passport said:
that's not what I'm debating

its simply dumb to say there are no decent women in there, there's plenty of them if you have a high SMV

dating apps being only for hookups hasnt been a thing for a decade

nowadays theres lots of decent women that use dating apps as their number one way of looking for a relationship
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ok so the top shelf puss is off limits to the bottom 90% on dating apps what exactly is there to debate here? this is common knowledge by now. but there's no way there are lots of decent women who use dating apps as their main way of looking for a relationship that still happens mainly on social media or irl now unless it's different in europe. in fact as a personal anecdote, even though i've had tons of matches on dating apps in the past the only women i ever actually met up with from online were from instagram and hellotalk

tinder and bumble are losing users everyday in the US with hinge premium subscriptions dropping dramatically within the past year. this is also happening in canada, uk and australia i believe
 
RealMewer said:
All woman compete on who can be the most deranged tattooed party whore living an "alternative" lifestyle.
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feel free to add your findings:

Marco Pumpo

JFL Thread 'Online dating profile fails'

i bump into funny and gross shit sometimes when browsing for matches. especially in berlin.

i would like to share some of it with you. feel free to drop your screenshots as well. only real fails please (not just average women who don't fit your taste).
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geneblackman said:
ok so the top shelf puss is off limits to the bottom 90% on dating apps what exactly is there to debate here? this is common knowledge by now. but there's no way there are lots of decent women who use dating apps as their main way of looking for a relationship that still happens mainly on social media or irl now unless it's different in europe. in fact as a personal anecdote, even though i've had tons of matches on dating apps in the past the only women i ever actually met up with from online were from instagram and hellotalk

tinder and bumble are losing users everyday in the US with hinge premium subscriptions dropping dramatically within the past year. this is also happening in canada, uk and australia i believe
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hellotalk is extremely niche

social media is pretty much dating apps nowadays, with women receiving 100s of DMs, and guys needing top profiles

so yes, I said IRL is first

but then dating apps are heavily used to find relationships
 
If I will be single at 30+, I will travel to Siberia, it's the easiest area in the world to find a good young white girl
 
Quick update: Had a few dates setup from Bumble on the weekend. Of course the german girl flaked on me. I can only seem to mainly attract foreign woman in Berlin.

On Friday I went to a bar with a 23yo chinese girl. Trustfund kid, has been in Berlin for two years to study. I try to escalate and touch her, but she blocks my advances. After the date over WhatsApp I asked why and she says that she is a "face person" and that she didn't like my look. BRUTAL. Chinese are really honest. Apparently she is also a virgin.

On Saturday I meet with a 24yo vietnamese girl. She is pretty cute. Has been here for 7 months, speaks very broken german. I am only her second bumble date in Berlin she left her ex-boyfriend in vietnam to become a nurse assistent in berlin. We meet in a cafe, I take her to a park and another cafe again. Always doing multiple location changes to built comfort and trust faster. We go to my place to watch a movie. She is touching me all the time. I kiss her and we make out, she is ultra wet and very tight. I carry her to my bedroom and we fuck. She gives me a massage afterwards. WE ARE SO BACK

Geomaxing without leaving my home base I guess. Still sad that I can't pull a decent german woman, even when making 100k/year and could offer a decent lifestyle. I am just looking for a LTR to settle down with
 
nomad said:
hinge is still legit in europe imo
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Thanks for the tip. I activated my hinge profile again
geneblackman said:
what i do irl is pick a few cafes and libraries to frequent then talk to girls i see often
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Would never work in germany. I would be seen as a creep if I approach woman in public



Maybe I should pay for a service to optimise my online dating profile further. Any recommendations?
Maybe I should go more for pay to win and spend on boosts for dating apps?

I also flew to Madrid yesterday and will spend some time here. At least I get some matches here. Let's see what comes out of it
 
RealMewer said:
Quick update: Had a few dates setup from Bumble on the weekend. Of course the german girl flaked on me. I can only seem to mainly attract foreign woman in Berlin.

On Friday I went to a bar with a 23yo chinese girl. Trustfund kid, has been in Berlin for two years to study. I try to escalate and touch her, but she blocks my advances. After the date over WhatsApp I asked why and she says that she is a "face person" and that she didn't like my look. BRUTAL. Chinese are really honest. Apparently she is also a virgin.

On Saturday I meet with a 24yo vietnamese girl. She is pretty cute. Has been here for 7 months, speaks very broken german. I am only her second bumble date in Berlin she left her ex-boyfriend in vietnam to become a nurse assistent in berlin. We meet in a cafe, I take her to a park and another cafe again. Always doing multiple location changes to built comfort and trust faster. We go to my place to watch a movie. She is touching me all the time. I kiss her and we make out, she is ultra wet and very tight. I carry her to my bedroom and we fuck. She gives me a massage afterwards. WE ARE SO BACK

Geomaxing without leaving my home base I guess. Still sad that I can't pull a decent german woman, even when making 100k/year and could offer a decent lifestyle. I am just looking for a LTR to settle down with
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what are your stats and what car are you driving
 
I'm french and I got lucky one time with a german girl who was visiting Paris. Met her on a dating app and she was 22 years old. She was one of the most attractive white girl that I've ever fucked.
 
RealMewer said:
I did spend a month in Warsaw in 2023 and did pretty well. The polish woman fuck everyone except their own men
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I have lived in Warsaw for almost a year during covid and although I had some success there, it wasn't all that great. And I don't think that Polish women prefer foreigners instead of polish men. But yeah, maybe it makes things easier to get them to bed.
 
Marco Pumpo said:
clean shaven is failo in berlin.


yes, it's over in berlin if you want to go for german women.
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True, what city do you recommend? I think I did a bit better in Cologne. Maybe smaller cities like Schwerin would be also good. I work remotely, so I could live wherever
 
RealMewer said:
True, what city do you recommend? I think I did a bit better in Cologne. Maybe smaller cities like Schwerin would be also good. I work remotely, so I could live wherever
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nothing to recommend in germany, let me know when you found the place. :LOL:

berlin is probably worse in quality but at least it has quantity and not just boomers like most cities in germany.

you could satusmaxx by becoming a hipster, then you'll probably pull some mentally deranged german chicks but don't expect stacies.
 
RealMewer said:
True, what city do you recommend? I think I did a bit better in Cologne. Maybe smaller cities like Schwerin would be also good. I work remotely, so I could live wherever
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i met two german girls one in stuttgart who was chubby but with a 7/10 face and another one who was 38 yo oldcel but still pretty hot in a small city also in the south so maybe bavaria and austria would be good?
 
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