Dating apps are waste of time

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99% dating apps are biggest waste of time. You are competing with other guys that never spoke with a girl. All my matches so far have lead to nowhere.

So pretty much if you want a hot young girl abroad in Asia realise that she's on app for money or other benefits. If not, you will realise that the ones are wholesome are already far gone from dating apps

Dating for LTR is way easier in home country unless you are from USA or UK

The key is to be authentic and say anything and build a circle in country you are in
 
99% dating apps are biggest waste of time. You are competing with other guys that never spoke with a girl. All my matches so far have lead to nowhere.

So pretty much if you want a hot young girl abroad in Asia realise that she's on app for money or other benefits. If not, you will realise that the ones are wholesome are already far gone from dating apps

Dating for LTR is way easier in home country unless you are from USA or UK

The key is to be authentic and say anything and build a circle in country you are in
Key to dating apps is just be goodlooking. dating apps looks requirements are much higher than real life though because many moggers there who just search for ons
 
99% dating apps are biggest waste of time. You are competing with other guys that never spoke with a girl. All my matches so far have lead to nowhere.

So pretty much if you want a hot young girl abroad in Asia realise that she's on app for money or other benefits. If not, you will realise that the ones are wholesome are already far gone from dating apps

Dating for LTR is way easier in home country unless you are from USA or UK

The key is to be authentic and say anything and build a circle in country you are in
if you are struggling with dating apps it's because of your profile
dating apps are the biggest goldmine if you have a good profile, especially in SEA where you mog 99% of locals and just need to make sure to not look like the average sexpat

anywhere in the world you either are attractive or you pay with your money
no offense but you always run into gold diggers, it seems to be a you problem
 
but you are/were overweight according to your reddit no?

why do you expect young attractive women to be with you if you dont even take good care of yourself?
 
but you are/were overweight according to your reddit no?

why do you expect young attractive women to be with you if you dont even take good care of yourself?
I can say anything on reddit since they have no personal experience or dating experience by 50.

I'm only serious here
 
if you are struggling with dating apps it's because of your profile
dating apps are the biggest goldmine if you have a good profile, especially in SEA where you mog 99% of locals and just need to make sure to not look like the average sexpat

anywhere in the world you either are attractive or you pay with your money
no offense but you always run into gold diggers, it seems to be a you problem
Thats also true but dating apps have mostly golddiggers. It was my problem only dating based on looks. But approaching trumps dating apps in quality
 
Thats also true but dating apps have mostly golddiggers. It was my problem only dating based on looks. But approaching trumps dating apps in quality
not true, there's 10s of thousands of girls that will be happy to go with a foreigner if you are attractive

you get goldiggers because you shoot over your league

if you are so sure your profile is good, send it in DM and i will check it
 
not true, there's 10s of thousands of girls that will be happy to go with a foreigner if you are attractive

you get goldiggers because you shoot over your league

if you are so sure your profile is good, send it in DM and i will check it
I am taking care of myself, Im not dating apps tho over a year if not more now
The thing is in Philippines there were also entitled girls my looksmatch. What was the question exactly, if im overweight?
 
I am taking care of myself, Im not dating apps tho over a year if not more now
The thing is in Philippines there were also entitled girls my looksmatch. What was the question exactly, if im overweight?
yeah cause you said so on reddit and you were hitting the gym
age and weight are not things you can easily overcome even in SEA, and if there's a big gap they want money
 
99% dating apps are biggest waste of time. You are competing with other guys that never spoke with a girl. All my matches so far have lead to nowhere.

So pretty much if you want a hot young girl abroad in Asia realise that she's on app for money or other benefits. If not, you will realise that the ones are wholesome are already far gone from dating apps

Dating for LTR is way easier in home country unless you are from USA or UK

The key is to be authentic and say anything and build a circle in country you are in
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yeah cause you said so on reddit and you were hitting the gym
age and weight are not things you can easily overcome even in SEA, and if there's a big gap they want money
I was super fit when I came to Asia until I ate the food. Now getting back tronger. I am mid 20s, so its only fair i date around my age.

I always forget I made a post like this already, perhaps a year ago or 6 months however

But as I said It I realised that LTR potential is way stronger for looksmatch in home country. But I feel Asia is more wholesome if you learn the language
Of course noting in Philippines I havent seen a single girl workout but want six pack super fit. Its how they have standards on datings apps
 
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I was super fit when I came to Asia until I ate the food. Now getting back tronger. I am mid 20s, so its only fair i date around my age.

I always forget I made a post like this already, perhaps a year ago or 6 months however

But as I said It I realised that LTR potential is way stronger for looksmatch in home country. But I feel Asia is more wholesome if you learn the language
Of course noting in Philippines I havent seen a single girl workout but want six pack super fit. Its how they have standards on datings apps
I can't think of a bigger meme than learning filipino languages lol. Everyone knows most people there speak English and are practically fluent, that's like the main pro about the Philippines.
But of course, the benefits of even this have been debunked (like other threads by @AlexBrown84) because their IQ is so low it doesn't even matter if they can communicate fluently because nothing they say is significant. Wtf are you doing in the philippines if you're not intending to meet girls who speak fluent English
 
I can't think of a bigger meme than learning filipino languages lol. Everyone knows most people there speak English and are practically fluent, that's like the main pro about the Philippines.
But of course, the benefits of even this have been debunked (like other threads by @AlexBrown84) because their IQ is so low it doesn't even matter if they can communicate fluently because nothing they say is significant. Wtf are you doing in the philippines if you're not intending to meet girls who speak fluent English
You need to learn the language of the place you stay in. Im talking Thai, Viet or Mandarin

Did you travel to Philippines yet?
 
You need to learn the language of the place you stay in. Im talking Thai, Viet or Mandarin

Did you travel to Philippines yet?
Thai and Vietnamese are still jester if you're not sub5 or plan to be in the country for basically the rest of your life
 
You need to learn the language of the place you stay in. Im talking Thai, Viet or Mandarin

Did you travel to Philippines yet?
i do not know what the fuck you are talking about. Manila is easy mode on dating apps, and I could have dates with 6+ every day who were down to fuck very quickly. I only had one case of a girl not down to fuck immediately and I think she was depressed
 
You need to learn the language of the place you stay in. Im talking Thai, Viet or Mandarin

Did you travel to Philippines yet?
don't need to learn the language in places like Bangkok, Shanghai, Beijing. Chinese tier 2 city maybe different but you will still find educated english speakers who are dtf a young foreign guy
 
i do not know what the fuck you are talking about. Manila is easy mode on dating apps, and I could have dates with 6+ every day who were down to fuck very quickly. I only had one case of a girl not down to fuck immediately and I think she was depressed
So you could find a good LTR on dating apps? Which is whole point?
 
don't need to learn the language in places like Bangkok, Shanghai, Beijing. Chinese tier 2 city maybe different but you will still find educated english speakers who are dtf a young foreign guy
It's not if they speak English or not, you are missing the whole point of learning the culture
 
So you could find a good LTR on dating apps? Which is whole point?
the point is having a fun time with a girl laughing together, eating together, having sex together. why would I look for a LTR if I was in Manila only for 2 weeks.
I am certain they would be down for a LTR if one stays there not just for holiday
 
the point is having a fun time with a girl laughing together, eating together, having sex together. why would I look for a LTR if I was in Manila only for 2 weeks.
I am certain they would be down for a LTR if one stays there not just for holiday

We all have different goals I suppose
 
I think dating apps are a good stepping-stone if you meet the right woman. Most chicks are a waste of time, and many of them on the apps are not that attractive. However, the ones that aren't scammers or users, can give help you learn a bit more about the local culture and sort of break the ice and give you something to build on when you approaching hotter women offline, and in a more natural setting.

The good thing about these apps is that you can meet a few decent looking women before you even travel that are almost guaranteed lays shortly after getting off the plane.
 

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