Advice Chinamaxxing in 2026 – Need Brutal Advice from Guys Who've Actually Succeeded (Slays or Quality LTRs Only)

[wannaimprove]

Please, only reply if you've got actual experience in China and achieved success – whether that's consistent slays or a solid LTR with a quality girl. No theorycels or "just be white bro" copium, thanks.

Why them ?
For me the most attractive type is east asian , Korea I heard it's brutal ( I watch K-Drama and they seem over the top in hypergamy ,lookism etc ) , Japan also less populous so I want to focus China


Physical stats :

30 year old ( yes I know it's over oldcell)
197cm
120kg bodyweight in decent shape (steroids hgh martial arts etc)
face - I give myself 5/10 but can also post on PM - I dont have any major falios but no striking features
dick advantage - i have overdeveloped penis (nohomo) almost every girl tells me it's the biggest they've seen - I had prostitutes turning me down but also had a lot of positive reactions - I think in China in would be an advantage overall

My issues :

I have been to HK and Thailand ( I dont like Thai women btw at least 90% of them) and I wasn't being given IOIs and women seemed scared of me

I got attention but it was because of my size not the attention am looking for ( first day both taxi driver and hotel reception guy grabbed my biceps - nohomo lol)

I was closer to 130 kg back then I concluded it's too much so I came off gear and decided to soften myself a little bit

What steps did I take :

injecting glutathione to get whiter skin
losing weight to get more definition and look less intimidating
started learning mandarin


My issues :
Lack of social media presence ( is it over)
Introversion
Size too big ??
Dont know how to appeal to them / dress / what's cool over there / what could raise my SMV especially since I am approaching uncle territory

Anybody that achieved success and would be willing to help me ? Can be by posting advice here or on PM

I can go there this year for a few weeks but I would like to go when am in good shape / know some mandarin and go with a plan in order to not waste time there



If somebody got nice east asian girls in europe you can also give me advice but it seems to me that they stick to their own a lot - I got one gf but it was just coincidence that I was introduced to her. She was v cool

 

[Orientalist]

You can Melania Trump maxx with a >180cm northern girl who's used to turning down the manlets all her life

 

[geneblackman]

Korea I heard it's brutal

myth. it's brutal for asian guys but asian women have different standards for whites. japan is worse because of their culture

30 year old ( yes I know it's over oldcell)

not a problem if you aim for 22-35

197cm

not a problem as long as you're lanklet. this will be your strongest point

120kg bodyweight in decent shape (steroids hgh martial arts etc)

get off roids and hgh

face - I give myself 5/10 but can also post on PM - I dont have any major falios but no striking features

this is fine

My issues :

I have been to HK and Thailand ( I dont like Thai women btw at least 90% of them) and I wasn't being given IOIs and women seemed scared of me

IOIs are cope

I got attention but it was because of my size not the attention am looking for ( first day both taxi driver and hotel reception guy grabbed my biceps - nohomo lol)

that means you're too muscular for asia

I was closer to 130 kg back then I concluded it's too much so I came off gear and decided to soften myself a little bit

good

injecting glutathione to get whiter skin

overkill

losing weight to get more definition and look less intimidating

good

started learning mandarin

good

Lack of social media presence ( is it over)

not a problem. just have a wechat, instagram with 50 followers or so and maybe rednote

Introversion

not a major problem as long as you can hold an interesting conversation

Size too big ??

yes

Dont know how to appeal to them / dress / what's cool over there / what could raise my SMV especially since I am approaching uncle territory

avoid shorts, sandals, and shirts with pictures

Anybody that achieved success and would be willing to help me ? Can be by posting advice here or on PM

i slayed a fob chinese in the US and am in a LTR with a taiwanese girl. the bar is really low since a lot of them just want a nice guy to talk to because chinese guys treat them pretty bad. it's actually the same in most of asia and latin america.

If somebody got nice east asian girls in europe you can also give me advice but it seems to me that they stick to their own a lot - I got one gf but it was just coincidence that I was introduced to her. She was v cool

they stick to their own but many would be surprisingly open to outsiders

 

[wannaimprove]

You can Melania Trump maxx with a >180cm northern girl who's used to turning down the manlets all her life

i dont like the phenotype

I had that before ( high E big frame fertile white girl)

 

[wannaimprove]

i slayed a fob chinese in the US and am in a LTR with a taiwanese girl. the bar is really low since a lot of them just want a nice guy to talk to because chinese guys treat them pretty bad. it's actually the same in most of asia and latin america.

they stick to their own but many would be surprisingly open to outsiders

chinese guys treat them bad ?

i heard some girls saying they dont like their type but I was under impression they are just lying to me

I was under impression that their men betabuxx a lot

 

[RetireAndCope]

i slayed a fob chinese in the US and am in a LTR with a taiwanese girl. the bar is really low since a lot of them just want a nice guy to talk to because chinese guys treat them pretty bad. it's actually the same in most of asia and latin america.

 

[14passport]

Physical stats :

30 year old ( yes I know it's over oldcell)
197cm
120kg bodyweight in decent shape (steroids hgh martial arts etc)
face - I give myself 5/10 but can also post on PM - I dont have any major falios but no striking features
dick advantage - i have overdeveloped penis (nohomo) almost every girl tells me it's the biggest they've seen - I had prostitutes turning me down but also had a lot of positive reactions - I think in China in would be an advantage overall

My issues :
Lack of social media presence ( is it over)
Introversion
Size too big ??
Dont know how to appeal to them / dress / what's cool over there / what could raise my SMV especially since I am approaching uncle territory

As others have said in this thread and your previous one, you are way too big and that scares asian women. The physique you want to achieve is something like this, asian women care a lot about physique, but they dont want big muscles, they want lean defined body. Think about a calisthenics or athlete physique, not a bodybuilder:



Forget about dick size, that doesn't matter at all until you get hher to bed. That's not going to give you any halo, and you shouldnt mention it at all unless you want to be reported as a creep.

30 year old, is not that old, especially if you take good care of yourself. You can get prime women easily at that age, just forget about targeting early 20s or younger, as most of them wont have you in their dating app range (if thats what you're using).

For fashion and knowing whats popular is as easy as going to pinterest and typing east asian fashion men

Pinterest

Discover recipes, home ideas, style inspiration and other ideas to try.

www.pinterest.com

keep it simple, black, white, accesories, a few layers in the winter

Last one is obvious but if you are going to use dating apps make sure to have good pics

 

[14passport]

chinese guys treat them bad ?

i heard some girls saying they dont like their type but I was under impression they are just lying to me

I was under impression that their men betabuxx a lot

it's not a lie, progressive chinese women (in China) love foreigners because the difference of mentality
many chinese guys are still stuck in the age of treating women like maids, very nationalistic, controlling, pressure of society, censorship, and a bunch of other reasons...

if a chinese women wants something different, western foreigners are a perfect match

that doesn't mean being a foreigner you can fuck any chinese women, but you will have an advantage with some of them

 

[geneblackman]

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im not even that good looking though or else i would have better results in the west