wannaimprove
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I was recently in Thailand and I have also dated a Chinese girl from HK as well
I have came to realisation that my phenotype / fashion / appearance is not ideal for those dating markets
I have a big frame and am very tall (198) I am also a steroid user with 18 inch arms and weight over 120kg
Some girls like it (black / brasilian) but it seems like for asians I am too ogre / too intimidating/big
Walking around I dont get stares or catcalls and if I do it's more like - look how big you are and not "you're handsome"
I also often get complements from men like in this meme gymcel reality vs expectations
After my trip to Thailand I have decided I will go to Asia again but next time I vist I would like to look better and appeal to females there more since i have a bit of a yellow fever ( I like Chinese or Thai-Chinese better than Thai btw - pure Thais are not so attractive in my opinion - at least the class and level am being able to attract)
Obiously I wil need to lose weight and lean down to not look just like an average steroid monkey
I will never be able to look like a pretty boy due to my genetics but I want to go from looking like a felon to a good mix of aesthetics and masculinity
I know there are users on this forum that live in either China or Thailand and have more experience with Asian females
I would genuinely appreciate some advice
If you have been living in those countries feel free to shoot a PM to me or comment under this thread in terms of what worked for you
Thanks boyos
I have came to realisation that my phenotype / fashion / appearance is not ideal for those dating markets
I have a big frame and am very tall (198) I am also a steroid user with 18 inch arms and weight over 120kg
Some girls like it (black / brasilian) but it seems like for asians I am too ogre / too intimidating/big
Walking around I dont get stares or catcalls and if I do it's more like - look how big you are and not "you're handsome"
I also often get complements from men like in this meme gymcel reality vs expectations
After my trip to Thailand I have decided I will go to Asia again but next time I vist I would like to look better and appeal to females there more since i have a bit of a yellow fever ( I like Chinese or Thai-Chinese better than Thai btw - pure Thais are not so attractive in my opinion - at least the class and level am being able to attract)
Obiously I wil need to lose weight and lean down to not look just like an average steroid monkey
I will never be able to look like a pretty boy due to my genetics but I want to go from looking like a felon to a good mix of aesthetics and masculinity
I know there are users on this forum that live in either China or Thailand and have more experience with Asian females
I would genuinely appreciate some advice
If you have been living in those countries feel free to shoot a PM to me or comment under this thread in terms of what worked for you
Thanks boyos