Former RVF oldhead here. It's genuinely refreshing to see a new generation of neurodivergent adventurers heading out into the world. I spent a decade living this lifestyle and crossed paths with many many fellow geomaxxers along the way. These days I've settled down completely and focus mainly on my tech venture in the Asia Pacific region, but I still wanted to share some insights from what feels like a forgotten era of geomaxxing. This post is mainly for guys who are actually out there making moves and seeing results, not the incel and jeet crowd who weren't going to make it happen regardless.
This lifestyle can genuinely feel like an open world video game where you exist somewhat outside the usual social judgments and even consequences of your actions (as long as you keep things respectful and fairly normal), and you can actually just be present in the moment. Whether that's having a date in a high-end Chinese shopping district, spending an afternoon on a Brazilian beach with some ghetto Larissinha, or enjoying a lazy Sunday in some charming Polish old town with some Erasmus Becky called Ola. There's attractive women everywhere, and the more maxxed out your character build is, the more positive attention you get. You meet strangers from completely different parts of the world, briefly enter their lives, sometimes leave a real impact on them, and then can decide whatever is next: Move on? Keep them around? Have them wait for you?
Once your dating results start compounding eventually, your initial anxiety can rewire itself into full-blown obsession. For this to happen you probably need at least a somewhat decent foundation, or at minimum not be a complete subhuman, but I've watched this way of life completely alter dozens of men's paths. Initially for the better, but then eventually for the worse. Men who had it all: Looks, money, status.
Getting into this is like opening Pandora's box and entering a game that becomes incredibly hard to exit. I've known guys who could cold turkey quit hard substances like cocaine but could never walk away from the geomax game. When they first started out, maybe they had a clear goal: find a beautiful, virgin girl with genuine character who'd make excellent wife material. This is absolutely still possible, and I'm sure plenty of guys here have eventually encountered girls like this. But here's what usually happens instead: the inner demon has already grown too strong, and the game must continue. What started as a tool has become a compulsion. Guys end up screwing up genuinely good opportunities for stable relationships and sustainable lives because they keep bouncing around the world, with their greedy demon convincing them this can last forever.
There's one critical thing working against them: TIME. Results inevitably get worse with age, both in terms of dating market value and financial opportunities. This lifestyle is extremely time-consuming, and many guys eventually start losing money one way or another. That's usually when they begin turning to semi-pros, sugar arrangements, or straight-up mongering. That's the moment when the demons truly start eating them alive. The high must get stronger and stronger, and while the novelty of dating itself has worn off, this is usually where guys end up with sex addictions and all kinds of other weird shit.
Obviously this doesn't happen to everyone, but I've personally seen millionaire Chadlites turn into overweight Bangkok bar sleazebags within a surprisingly short timeframe.
You need to understand that everything carries a cost, including "free pussy". Don't get lost in the sauce.
This lifestyle can genuinely feel like an open world video game where you exist somewhat outside the usual social judgments and even consequences of your actions (as long as you keep things respectful and fairly normal), and you can actually just be present in the moment. Whether that's having a date in a high-end Chinese shopping district, spending an afternoon on a Brazilian beach with some ghetto Larissinha, or enjoying a lazy Sunday in some charming Polish old town with some Erasmus Becky called Ola. There's attractive women everywhere, and the more maxxed out your character build is, the more positive attention you get. You meet strangers from completely different parts of the world, briefly enter their lives, sometimes leave a real impact on them, and then can decide whatever is next: Move on? Keep them around? Have them wait for you?
Once your dating results start compounding eventually, your initial anxiety can rewire itself into full-blown obsession. For this to happen you probably need at least a somewhat decent foundation, or at minimum not be a complete subhuman, but I've watched this way of life completely alter dozens of men's paths. Initially for the better, but then eventually for the worse. Men who had it all: Looks, money, status.
Getting into this is like opening Pandora's box and entering a game that becomes incredibly hard to exit. I've known guys who could cold turkey quit hard substances like cocaine but could never walk away from the geomax game. When they first started out, maybe they had a clear goal: find a beautiful, virgin girl with genuine character who'd make excellent wife material. This is absolutely still possible, and I'm sure plenty of guys here have eventually encountered girls like this. But here's what usually happens instead: the inner demon has already grown too strong, and the game must continue. What started as a tool has become a compulsion. Guys end up screwing up genuinely good opportunities for stable relationships and sustainable lives because they keep bouncing around the world, with their greedy demon convincing them this can last forever.
There's one critical thing working against them: TIME. Results inevitably get worse with age, both in terms of dating market value and financial opportunities. This lifestyle is extremely time-consuming, and many guys eventually start losing money one way or another. That's usually when they begin turning to semi-pros, sugar arrangements, or straight-up mongering. That's the moment when the demons truly start eating them alive. The high must get stronger and stronger, and while the novelty of dating itself has worn off, this is usually where guys end up with sex addictions and all kinds of other weird shit.
Obviously this doesn't happen to everyone, but I've personally seen millionaire Chadlites turn into overweight Bangkok bar sleazebags within a surprisingly short timeframe.
You need to understand that everything carries a cost, including "free pussy". Don't get lost in the sauce.
