Advice Best places for me to geomax (about me and proposed itinerary inside)?

[Sun]

Hello I'm new here, would appreciate serious help!

About me:

1. kissless virgin
2. late 20s
3. ethnically Chinese but born in US
4. 5'6"
5. Average looking for an Asian
6. High inhib (shitty parents/childhood, chronically online, nonexistent dating as an Asian manlet in the West)

Got laid off from work, so I want to use this NEET time to geomax and finally ascend. I've never traveled to SEA or even solo. I'm worried that being unemployed too long will make it hard to get a new job when I return to US, so I'm thinking to limit the trip to 2 months. My definition of success is going on many dates with legal young girls that quickly lead to sex. Ideally many girls message me on online dating there, and no escorts.

My current rough plan, in order. Will be departing from and returning to New York.

1. Singapore, mostly because I see flights from NY to SEA will stop at Singapore anyway. I probably won't be able to geomax here, so won't really try. Will be a normie tourist. (staying < 7 days)
2. Bangkok, Thailand. I get the impression that Thailand is great for geomaxing. (30-60 days)
3. Manila, Philippines. Similar impression as Thailand. (30 days. If Thailand isn't successful, I'll cut that short and go to PH early.)
4. Tokyo, Japan. Same as Singapore: Japan is on the way home and I'll be a normie tourist. (< 7 days)

Would appreciate any helpful thoughts and recommendations, especially best specific areas and tips for me to geomax given my background. Not really considering outside of Asia.

Questions:

1. I noticed English is an official language of Philippines, but not of Thailand. Should I prioritize Philippines and visit it before Thailand?

 

[Aphex]

Good choices, it seems like most people can ascend in Thailand and the Philippines. I'd say your plan is pretty good. What did you do for work?

 

[Sun]

Good choices, it seems like most people can ascend in Thailand and the Philippines. I'd say your plan is pretty good. What did you do for work?

Thanks! Have you geomaxed? I work in software.

 

[Aphex]

Thanks! Have you geomaxed? I work in software.

No I haven't, I traveled before but without the intent of sex reasons. Nice job btw

 

[fatchadlitecel]

In terms of dating in Thailand, I think you'll need to create an attractive identity in your bio which mentions working remotely in Thailand or something. I got carried by my eyes when I went there. Among young women who aren't escorts their standards are probably higher than Philippines. You might also need to use boosts to get attention. That and/or use other apps. Thai friendly is sort of a sugar daddy app for Thais and Foreigners.

There's a large Chinese diaspora in Bangkok (I assume it's mostly Southern Chinese), idk if that will help or harm you. You can get around with English because every menu has a picture next to it and most things are printed in both Thai and English but they are not very conversationally fluent. Only basic stuff.

The best place for dating is Bangkok, Pattaya and Phuket dating apps are all escorts. Maybe look into going to Chang Mai or Hua Hin or any other smaller town you can get a bus to from Ekamai station.

I know you said no escorts but if you show up and get nothing it's not a bad option. Really there wasn't much difference between the hookups I had and the working girls I took back to my hotel. Thailand is good if you are high inhibition and looking to be de-virginized because they will physically grab you and pull you in if you walk by enough girl bars. If you're okay with losing your virginity this way I would recommend you go to Pattaya to do it because they have on average younger and more attractive bar girls there. The most attractive go go bars girls are still in Bangkok though at Nana Plaza or Soi Cowboy but you'll pay a major premium to take them to a hotel.

Basically, bar girls are where you just sit down and have a drink, buy a girl a drink and she goes out of her way to entertain & flirt with you. You can play games together, drink, etc. and then take her back to your hotel after a while or there are love hotels which are basically $10-20/hr hotel rooms.

If you're dead set against escorts then you may have better dating luck in the Philippines, Thais have higher standards. Try using Tinder premium and setting your location to these places before you go to see how much interest you get in each place. I don't know much about Manilla but from what I've heard that's probably also the best for dating due to all the people but it's not the nicest place to live overall.

 

[ElBastardo]

English language is not a problem in Thailand, even if it isn't official. English is required in all Thai schools so educated people speak it to some degree or another. I wouldn't worry about not being able to speak Thai. Any person working in a service industry or whatnot speaks English.

 

[Sun]

In terms of dating in Thailand, I think you'll need to create an attractive identity in your bio which mentions working remotely in Thailand or something.

My actual situation is that I was let go by my employer and given severancebux. Tired of working and life in general so want to NEET for a while in ascend. If foids ask about my job, what should I say?

You might also need to use boosts to get attention. That and/or use other apps. Thai friendly is sort of a sugar daddy app for Thais and Foreigners.

Yeah I need to test out Tinder and Thai Friendly to confirm that it's easy there before I commit. Heard Thai Friendly is good as it's specifically Thai girls (including normal wageslaves and students) looking for expats. Any other good apps? I can pay for dinner and 4-star hotel (only $40/night JFL) since I have enough funds to float me for a bit, and Western wages mog SEA wages.

There's a large Chinese diaspora in Bangkok (I assume it's mostly Southern Chinese), idk if that will help or harm you.

I guess it's good only in the sense that I'd have less chance of being singled out and murdered. But I prob won't have any chance to geomax with those foids, and the guys will be my competition. I can speak pre-school level Chinese and can't read.

You can get around with English because every menu has a picture next to it and most things are printed in both Thai and English but they are not very conversationally fluent. Only basic stuff.

That's making me think Philippines is better because I want to only use English, though what ElBastardo said makes me feel better about Thailand's English proficiency. I just need enough English there to get around and fuck normal girls.

The best place for dating is Bangkok, Pattaya and Phuket dating apps are all escorts. Maybe look into going to Chang Mai or Hua Hin or any other smaller town you can get a bus to from Ekamai station.

Since it's my first time in SEA and prioritize geomaxing over sightseeing, I'll try to stay in Bangkok for the whole 30-60 days. If things are terrible I'll move around in the city or go to Philippines early. Are the smaller Thai towns good enough for geomaxing? Like Chiang Mai looks a bit too sleepy and rural.

I know you said no escorts but if you show up and get nothing it's not a bad option. Really there wasn't much difference between the hookups I had and the working girls I took back to my hotel. Thailand is good if you are high inhibition and looking to be de-virginized because they will physically grab you and pull you in if you walk by enough girl bars. If you're okay with losing your virginity this way I would recommend you go to Pattaya to do it because they have on average younger and more attractive bar girls there. The most attractive go go bars girls are still in Bangkok though at Nana Plaza or Soi Cowboy but you'll pay a major premium to take them to a hotel.

I have the classic incel fantasy of the classic young love that I missed out on. So I really want to lose my virginity to a normal girl around 18. But if I'm super unsuccessful, I would be okay with escorts that are young and cute. I don't like escorts because I want to realize the incel fantasy, germs/STDs, and I'm scared of accidentally doing a ladyboy.

Basically, bar girls are where you just sit down and have a drink, buy a girl a drink and she goes out of her way to entertain & flirt with you. You can play games together, drink, etc. and then take her back to your hotel after a while or there are love hotels which are basically $10-20/hr hotel rooms.

How much to fuck a bar girl? Are they the same as the obvious escorts soliciting on the street?

If you're dead set against escorts then you may have better dating luck in the Philippines, Thais have higher standards. Try using Tinder premium and setting your location to these places before you go to see how much interest you get in each place. I don't know much about Manilla but from what I've heard that's probably also the best for dating due to all the people but it's not the nicest place to live overall.

As of now I'll probably still go Bangkok then Manila. My main goal is geomaxing and fucking normal girls, so it's fine if the place isn't nice as long as I don't die.

I really appreciate your advice! How does my itinerary look overall?

 

[fatchadlitecel]

My actual situation is that I was let go by my employer and given severancebux. Tired of working and life in general so want to NEET for a while in ascend. If foids ask about my job, what should I say?


Yeah I need to test out Tinder and Thai Friendly to confirm that it's easy there before I commit. Heard Thai Friendly is good as it's specifically Thai girls (including normal wageslaves and students) looking for expats. Any other good apps? I can pay for dinner and 4-star hotel (only $40/night JFL) since I have enough funds to float me for a bit, and Western wages mog SEA wages.

Not sure about the apps I just used Tinder and Thai Friendly. Try to find an apartment for a 1 month lease if you know you're going for a month solid, or even just 2 weeks or so. Much cheaper than a hotel. Make sure it has air conditioning and is close to a subway line.

I guess it's good only in the sense that I'd have less chance of being singled out and murdered. But I prob won't have any chance to geomax with those foids, and the guys will be my competition. I can speak pre-school level Chinese and can't read.


That's making me think Philippines is better because I want to only use English, though what ElBastardo said makes me feel better about Thailand's English proficiency. I just need enough English there to get around and fuck normal girls.


Since it's my first time in SEA and prioritize geomaxing over sightseeing, I'll try to stay in Bangkok for the whole 30-60 days. If things are terrible I'll move around in the city or go to Philippines early. Are the smaller Thai towns good enough for geomaxing? Like Chiang Mai looks a bit too sleepy and rural.


I have the classic incel fantasy of the classic young love that I missed out on. So I really want to lose my virginity to a normal girl around 18. But if I'm super unsuccessful, I would be okay with escorts that are young and cute. I don't like escorts because I want to realize the incel fantasy, germs/STDs, and I'm scared of accidentally doing a ladyboy.


How much to fuck a bar girl? Are they the same as the obvious escorts soliciting on the street?

You sit down at bar after being catcalled by women, you buy a drink, you buy a girl you think is cute a drink and talk. She will flirt/try to keep the conversation going. You or her can bring up whether she bar fine's (whether you can take her away from the bar for sex). If she does she will try to sell you on it during the first drink or so. Bar fines and drink prices differ but somewhere under 1000 baht for the drinks and bar fines. You can also pass on her if you don't have good chemistry, try another girl or go to another bar.

The overall experience is similar to street escorts, they're just sitting at a bar cat calling you trying to get your attention. Some came up to me from their bar and grabbed me and said stuff like "I want you to fuck me". So it can be subtle or not subtle at all. The youngest girls I saw were on Soi 6 in Pattaya.

The best experience I had with escorts is when I brought them back to a decent hotel room (either a love hotel or the place I was staying). Massage places/backrooms suck.

As of now I'll probably still go Bangkok then Manila. My main goal is geomaxing and fucking normal girls, so it's fine if the place isn't nice as long as I don't die.

I really appreciate your advice! How does my itinerary look overall?

Idk how Manilla is but Bangkok is fun, I would live there if I could find a decent cheap apartment and get the visa and job situation sorted out. If you're going there longer than a month you might have to deal with some visa issues. Overall Bangkok's advantage is you can go out and do shit without it hurting financially.

 

[Burakumin-Bibba]

i believe in the novelty-pill, try going to a place where not too many of your people exist, because you stand out you may pull certain women who want something different. knowing the language is a big plus, if you have lots of funds try maybe eastern Europe, south America , or africa

 

[Sun]

Try to find an apartment for a 1 month lease if you know you're going for a month solid, or even just 2 weeks or so. Much cheaper than a hotel. Make sure it has air conditioning and is close to a subway line.

I've never been to Thailand, how do I make sure I don't get scammed? What's a good website to look for apartments and how much are they?

 

[Sun]

i believe in the novelty-pill, try going to a place where not too many of your people exist, because you stand out you may pull certain women who want something different. knowing the language is a big plus, if you have lots of funds try maybe eastern Europe, south America , or africa

SEA would already be novelty for me, even though I'm Asian, I rarely traveled out of US, and never to SEA. I'm paranoid about visiting places where people don't look like me, I'll probably get mogged and/or targeted for ransom.

 

[fatchadlitecel]

I've never been to Thailand, how do I make sure I don't get scammed? What's a good website to look for apartments and how much are they?

I was never shortchanged or scammed while I was there.

I asked around while I was there and you can probably find one by looking on air b&b but don’t book it through them. Look to see if there’s a rental company associated with the condo units and then try contacting them directly. That’s what a German guy told me he did there.

He said they’re a few hundred a month