Best place to meet girls?
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AlexBrown84
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go larp at your old high school
probably join a cheap or free college/university, enroll in classes with the most amount of girls (psychology, marketing, etc) and try to develop your social skills, attend classes, form groups, help people/ask for help for certain topics, etc. if they like you they will eventually add your contact message you, invite you to events, parties, hangouts and there you can meet even more girls and people, its a cycle
lol thats crazy. but yea the approach i said is the most "understandable" and theres no way to be seen as being "out of line" since its something you are all doing (taking classes, same professor, same career, etc) so theres no reason for them to believe you are flirting or anything, if you then wanna slide on them or their friends its up to you but it surely opens you many doors
geneblackman
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Wouldn't this disqualify basement rotters cus you need high level social skills like social group navigation, reading subtle interest cues, subtle flirting and knowing when it's appropriate to make moves for this. You wouldn't just walk up and approach someone in class right, I heard mostly girls approach you there. IDK if people even talk to people from class let alone make friends, also international asians are very insular there
Tree
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>attend college
heck to the no
im not saying attend classes you dont want to, just go there with the sole purpose of engaging in conversations and building your social skills from day one, find openings that are fit to your objectivees (eg: professor says to make groups for a class project... if its everyones first day then everyone will be shy and not have any friends there, so you being a bit more extroverted and social has a HUGE multiplier and will open you a lot of doors initially) later you will need to keep up with the relations you already formed, nurture them and such. but its an excellent way to get to know many girls, then during recess and such they introduce you to their friends who are in the same uni as them, you exchange IGs, etc
this worked for me a lot during my initial uni year and mind you i was a bit introverted but knowing that everyone else was on the same boat as me gave me a huge confidence boost and i ended up making like 4 new friends from just my first class
well i dont know about asians, but worldwide what i said tends to be the case its basic human nature. a basement rotter will be at a disadvantage, but providing you are at least a 5/10 facially, average or above average height, young (18-25), and manage to sustain some conversations you will do good. you do need high level social skills for long term friendship, but on the first day? man everyone is so introverted i felt like a god, i kid you not i talked and got IGs from like 5 different people on my first day at uni, since nobody has a group and everyone is so passive you can easily approach, but you gotta do it fast or as weeks go by you will be seen as kind of an outcast (unless chad of course).
i definitely dont recommend dating a girl from your class since if it doesnt go right you are stuck with her in the same classroom for the rest of the semester, if you dont mind that then sure but i highly suggest being just friends with them so you get to know their friends and people they know and then you can try to approach one of those girls (via IG and such)
