Working while geomaxxing?

[Hymen Connoisseur]

would it be a bad idea to work as a bartender while geomaxxing?
I'm a Russiancel but I grew up in western Europe. I'm thinking of unironically moving to my uncle's basement there and working at a bar or club. I really need help unautisming myself and I think this would be good for me.
What do you guys think?
Any barmancel geomaxxers willing to share their experiences?
I knew a guy who worked at a bar in Spain and stayed there for months. Might ask him about it.

 

[Rance]

I worked at several bars and clubs while living as a student in Japan. I would avoid making it a central part of your plan or identity

It is a wonderful remedy for breaking social retardation. I am not non-NT but I still had social anxiety. At my first gig I dreaded going into work, my hands were shaking serving drinks, was self-conscious, etc. Soon enough I built awesome connections with my co-workers and realized there's no special sauce to any of this and everyone is a little weird in their own ways. Working in nightlife is good for bombarding yourself with social energy and getting used to being surrounded by good looking people with good game. Soon enough you realize all these people have their own problems too and lack something within. When you are on the staff you are the king. It's good.

Logistical advice would be to avoid working at high-volume bars. My first gig was working at a nomihoudai (all you can drink) DJ bar and it was a nightmare because I was serving drinks non-stop to a never-ending line of wristbands who just wanted another gin tonic. Instead try to work at a quieter bar where you can chat to people whom you serve drinks to

 

[Hymen Connoisseur]

I worked at several bars and clubs while living as a student in Japan. I would avoid making it a central part of your plan or identity

It is a wonderful remedy for breaking social retardation. I am not non-NT but I still had social anxiety. At my first gig I dreaded going into work, my hands were shaking serving drinks, was self-conscious, etc. Soon enough I built awesome connections with my co-workers and realized there's no special sauce to any of this and everyone is a little weird in their own ways. Working in nightlife is good for bombarding yourself with social energy and getting used to being surrounded by good looking people with good game. Soon enough you realize all these people have their own problems too and lack something within. When you are on the staff you are the king. It's good.

Logistical advice would be to avoid working at high-volume bars. My first gig was working at a nomihoudai (all you can drink) DJ bar and it was a nightmare because I was serving drinks non-stop to a never-ending line of wristbands who just wanted another gin tonic. Instead try to work at a quieter bar where you can chat to people whom you serve drinks to

Appreciate the response. I really feel like I tried it all but no matter what I do i'm an assburger retard. Going the typical route of finishing uni and getting a 9 - 5 office job with STEMspergs will basically doom me into being a 40yo virgin and my inevitable, eventual suicide. I need to really get out there and be with normal, fun, social people.
Did you have any training for mixing drinks and all that shit or did they teach you on the job?

Btw did you slay at all through your job? I heard that bartenders also get pussy easily if they meet the minimum looks requirement.

 

[Rance]

Appreciate the response. I really feel like I tried it all but no matter what I do i'm an assburger retard. Going the typical route of finishing uni and getting a 9 - 5 office job with STEMspergs will basically doom me into being a 40yo virgin and my inevitable, eventual suicide. I need to really get out there and be with normal, fun, social people.
Did you have any training for mixing drinks and all that shit or did they teach you on the job?

Btw did you slay at all through your job? I heard that bartenders also get pussy easily if they meet the minimum looks requirement.

They will train you. Usually this means starting you on a quiet night a little before it opens. If you're still garbage at mixing the drinks they'll let you just be a barback until you get it down. It's not as hard as it looks and the only thing you have to get used to is the pour heads on top of the liquor bottles and the soda machines which can be finicky. Just go in with some basic knowledge of mixed drinks, like a margarita is tequila + lime juice + triple sec.

Being a bartender is a status boost and girls will want to talk to you more. Gives you a free and easy "in" to talk to anybody you want. Like if you were throwing a house party, you can chat to anyone you want because it's your house, right? As opposed to going to Chad's frat party where you don't know anybody. The difference is big.

I slayed quite a bit as a bartender but most of the success came from the connections I made through the staff, not actually working the bar. So after the bar closed up we would all go to another venue, like a VIP area of a club or a private club. Owner would parade me around in front of girls and be like "look at this new white boy on the staff he wants to talk to you" etc. So I guess my success here was more of a geomaxxing thing than a bartending thing. There were some exceptions, I think I went on 3 dates with girls whose numbers I got from talking to them at my bar.

Thinking about it more, there are many parallels between being a bartender and being a member of a fraternity in college. If you are interested in girls who work nightlife then saying "yeah I'm a bartender at X bar" is the best icebreaker in the world. Instant trust + attraction boost. Just like if you are in a fraternity at an American university and talk to a girl who is in a sorority, she might ignore you until she hears the magic frat word and all of a sudden you're one of the cool ones.

finishing uni and getting a 9 - 5 office job with STEMspergs will basically doom me into being a 40yo virgin and my inevitable, eventual suicide

STEM guys are largely social retards but are also some of the coolest people I've ever met. I've discussed here before that the magic recipe is being a little bit non-NT but not so much that you're useless. A huge proportion of cool and successful geomaxxers I've met work in IT.

 

[Hymen Connoisseur]

They will train you. Usually this means starting you on a quiet night a little before it opens. If you're still garbage at mixing the drinks they'll let you just be a barback until you get it down. It's not as hard as it looks and the only thing you have to get used to is the pour heads on top of the liquor bottles and the soda machines which can be finicky. Just go in with some basic knowledge of mixed drinks, like a margarita is tequila + lime juice + triple sec.

Being a bartender is a status boost and girls will want to talk to you more. Gives you a free and easy "in" to talk to anybody you want. Like if you were throwing a house party, you can chat to anyone you want because it's your house, right? As opposed to going to Chad's frat party where you don't know anybody. The difference is big.

I slayed quite a bit as a bartender but most of the success came from the connections I made through the staff, not actually working the bar. So after the bar closed up we would all go to another venue, like a VIP area of a club or a private club. Owner would parade me around in front of girls and be like "look at this new white boy on the staff he wants to talk to you" etc. So I guess my success here was more of a geomaxxing thing than a bartending thing. There were some exceptions, I think I went on 3 dates with girls whose numbers I got from talking to them at my bar.

Thinking about it more, there are many parallels between being a bartender and being a member of a fraternity in college. If you are interested in girls who work nightlife then saying "yeah I'm a bartender at X bar" is the best icebreaker in the world. Instant trust + attraction boost. Just like if you are in a fraternity at an American university and talk to a girl who is in a sorority, she might ignore you until she hears the magic frat word and all of a sudden you're one of the cool ones.


STEM guys are largely social retards but are also some of the coolest people I've ever met. I've discussed here before that the magic recipe is being a little bit non-NT but not so much that you're useless. A huge proportion of cool and successful geomaxxers I've met work in IT.

Damn bro, really appreciate it. this basically confirmed why I want to do this. It's exactly what I need. An energetic, fast-paced environment with foids. How old were you when you worked as a bartender?
Also i'm thinking of doing a 2 week course where they teach you how to mix drinks and shit, you think that'd be a good idea?
Some guy on 4chan told me it's a waste of money and they'll teach you on the job but I think going in with some experience and a thing to put on my CV would boost my chances.

 

[Rance]

Damn bro, really appreciate it. this basically confirmed why I want to do this. It's exactly what I need. An energetic, fast-paced environment with foids. How old were you when you worked as a bartender?
Also i'm thinking of doing a 2 week course where they teach you how to mix drinks and shit, you think that'd be a good idea?
Some guy on 4chan told me it's a waste of money and they'll teach you on the job but I think going in with some experience and a thing to put on my CV would boost my chances.

Started at 24 in Japan, never really did it beforehand except at house parties

You can do the course if it's not too expensive, will help you feel comfortable and confident going into the job. I doubt it will make much a difference in actually getting the job but it might depend on what kind of bar and what kind of country you're in

 

[Hymen Connoisseur]

Started at 24 in Japan, never really did it beforehand except at house parties

You can do the course if it's not too expensive, will help you feel comfortable and confident going into the job. I doubt it will make much a difference in actually getting the job but it might depend on what kind of bar and what kind of country you're in

Based. I'll be 24 finishing Uni too in May and plan to get into it straight after. I have 0 experience in hospitality at all though, only ever worked in retail and an office for an internship.
So that's why I think it'd be good to do the course. It's not too expensive.

 

[Rance]

Based. I'll be 24 finishing Uni too in May and plan to get into it straight after. I have 0 experience in hospitality at all though, only ever worked in retail and an office for an internship.
So that's why I think it'd be good to do the course. It's not too expensive.

Yeah I never worked a service job either but thinking about it now, bartending is not all that different from working at McDonald's or being a waiter. Same idea and skill set.

 

[younglivinglife]

Just do remote work

 

[Hymen Connoisseur]

Just do remote work

no, that's gay. I don't want to be rotting in my basement in front of a computer.
Also i'll be straight out of college so i'm lucky that my gay office where I did my internship wants me back at all from what I heard, with the way the market is right now. I wouldn't be able to find remote work.

 

[younglivinglife]

no, that's gay. I don't want to be rotting in my basement in front of a computer.
Also i'll be straight out of college so i'm lucky that my gay office where I did my internship wants me back at all from what I heard, with the way the market is right now. I wouldn't be able to find remote work.

Guess you hate being rich then

 

[AlexBrown84]

Guess you hate being rich then

money is for slaves

better to have just enough to geomax so it keeps you hungry

 

[explorer7878]

would it be a bad idea to work as a bartender while geomaxxing?
I'm a Russiancel but I grew up in western Europe. I'm thinking of unironically moving to my uncle's basement there and working at a bar or club. I really need help unautisming myself and I think this would be good for me.
What do you guys think?
Any barmancel geomaxxers willing to share their experiences?
I knew a guy who worked at a bar in Spain and stayed there for months. Might ask him about it.

going from west europe to russia is not geomaxxing

 

[younglivinglife]

money is for slaves

better to have just enough to geomax so it keeps you hungry

That's cope money is tool and asset

 

[Hymen Connoisseur]

Guess you hate being rich then

No, I hate being a fat basement dweller typing all day for a living.

going from west europe to russia is not geomaxxing

it is. It's moving from one geographic location to another for the purpose of getting easier pussy. What would you call it?

 

[explorer7878]

No, I hate being a fat basement dweller typing all day for a living.


it is. It's moving from one geographic location to another for the purpose of getting easier pussy. What would you call it?

but it is not easier to get pussy in Russia, is it?

 

[Hymen Connoisseur]

but it is not easier to get pussy in Russia, is it?

lmao, fucking jeets go geomaxxing in EE. EE women are the simplest form of life, below bacteria.