I'm 21 and still a virgin, the few times I used dating apps here I would be lucky if I received one or two likes a day. Well I decided to get Bumble Premium and changed my location to Manila and I went from being a 5 who doesn't get likes to getting the same amount of likes, matches and convos as my friend who's an 8 gets here in the West. Girls showed genuine interest and often took the initiative. I'm now thinking about going on a vacation to the Philippines (some friends of mine already proposed something like that in the past) so that I can finally get some action and just boost my confidence overall. SEAmaxxing is definetely real, if you're a average-ish guy in the West you'll go from getting no interest from women to literally being considered a top tier male, and even if you're below average / ugly in SEA at least some girls will be attracted to you.
For statistical purposes I've been using Bumble in the Philippines for three days and got around 70 matches, and I've been swiping right only on girls I consider at least fuckable (around 40-50% of them). I used a spotlight once (it was free) and got 21 likes in 30 minutes so if you're visiting there and want to get likes quickly I think it's worth buying a spotlight for 5€. Feel free to ask anything else about me or my experience if you're interested.
For statistical purposes I've been using Bumble in the Philippines for three days and got around 70 matches, and I've been swiping right only on girls I consider at least fuckable (around 40-50% of them). I used a spotlight once (it was free) and got 21 likes in 30 minutes so if you're visiting there and want to get likes quickly I think it's worth buying a spotlight for 5€. Feel free to ask anything else about me or my experience if you're interested.
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