jimmyjoebob
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- Dec 30, 2023
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I just got back from my first proper "geomaxing" trip where I visited the Philippines and Taiwan and I've realized that geomaxing doesn't align with my goals. To be fair, I probably should've spent more time there since my results might've been different, but I've noticed some fundamental issues with geomaxing as a whole. Maybe I just have different goals than the rest of you but the types of girls I actually want are impossible to get in the short term (and I'm talking about personality/values, not physical attractiveness).
Anyways, you guys probably only care about my results so here's a recap.
I was originally planning to stay in the Philippines the entire time, specifically Cebu, but after a few days I realized how bad the country was and ended up going to Taiwan for the rest of the trip. Maybe I just have high standards, but the food in the Philippines was genuinely disgusting. Granted, I was mostly eating fast food like McDonald’s and Jollibee since international chains gave me some level of food safety assurance. I guess if all you care about is easy access to girls, then it could work, but for me the juice just isn’t worth the squeeze.
Dating apps were honestly a joke in how easy they were. I made my account after arriving and got several hundred likes per day. Since I registered the account with a local SIM, I bought Tinder Gold for a little over 100 PHP, which is less than two dollars. I didn’t want to waste time swiping, so that let me see who liked me and filter out 90 percent or so who weren’t attractive enough. I’m probably younger than most of you, so the only girls who liked me were between 18 and 22 due to my age filter. I probably would’ve gotten more results if I had set my age older, but tbh this was already plenty.
The first problem I ran into was that there were two types of girls on Tinder. There were the “good” girls, or at least those who put on that front, and the obvious hoes. And yeah, I know that on some level all girls are hoes, but I mean the ones with tattoos, drinking pics, and all that who are just more overt about it. The cleaner-looking girls who I actually wanted were a lot more hesitant to meet up after finding out I was a tourist. I know I could’ve lied or tried harder, but I can’t straight up lie, so I just ended up meeting the ones who were down to link that night after a few messages/exchanging insta.
That first night I met up with a girl and we went to a Middle Eastern restaurant since I was starving, but of course the food was terrible. I don’t know what I was thinking getting Middle Eastern food in the Philippines. I could only eat a few bites. We went to a park and talked for a bit. She told me she moved to the city for university and that her dorm had a midnight curfew. Apparently in the Philippines, families are super conservative, especially with daughters, and they keep a close eye on them even after they turn 18. Yeah, clearly none of that mattered now. I invited her back to my Airbnb and she mentioned that security might ask for her ID. She only had her student ID, which she said should still be valid until some law changes in 2029, but security didn’t care. I was a little concerned she might be underage, but her Instagram clearly showed she was a university student. I'm think the guard was just trying to cuck me since he kept making eye contact and smirking, which pissed me off. Eventually I just grabbed her arm and walked past him, and he didn’t say anything. That night kind of wrecked my sleep schedule since we didn’t sleep until early morning, but it was worth it. The sex was good and she fell asleep in my arms, which was cute.
The next day I went out to see some tourist spots, but the air quality and traffic were so bad that I honestly regretted leaving my Airbnb. That night, I was messaging a new girl who wanted to meet after like two texts, which was already a red flag, but she was hot so I agreed. We planned to meet at a rooftop bar near where I was staying. On the way there, I started getting cold feet. I had looked through her Instagram earlier and noticed all her followers were foreign guys. I have no illusions about the type of girls you meet on a hookup-focused dating app, but I couldn’t stop thinking about STDs or other risks. I ended up bailing without telling her, which was kind of messed up since she had already booked a ride. But I had to prioritize myself. I could’ve met another girl that night, but I just wasn’t feeling it. So I ended up having a depressing McDonald’s dinner alone.
The next day was my last full day in Cebu before heading to Taipei, so I wanted to make the most of it. I figured I had to try real local food at least once, so I went to Jollibee. I decided to walk instead of getting a car, which was dumb because I ended up going through a slum. The poverty was pretty eye-opening. People were staring at me like I was some exotic animal. It was one of those moments where you just feel like you don’t belong. I’m tall even by American standards, so I felt like a different species towering over everyone. When I got to Jollibee, the food wasn’t actually that bad. Maybe it was starting to grow on me. After that it was way too hot to be outside, so I just chilled in my air-conditioned Airbnb.
That night, I had plans to meet this girl who was originally from the provinces and had just moved to the city. She might’ve been a minor influencer since she had over 26,000 followers on TikTok. She looked super native but still really attractive, so it was kind of a bucket list thing for me. She had night classes until 8:30, so I ordered some Chinese food on Grab. Of course, right after I placed the order she texted saying she was ready to meet. I couldn’t cancel it, so I told the delivery guy he could have it. He was insanely grateful and kept saying "God bless you sir" and spamming emojis. At least someone enjoyed that meal.
We met at a mall nearby and she kept saying how tall I was and asking if I was a model, which gave me a nice little ego boost. We went back to my place. I tried to teach her how to play cards, but she didn’t get it, so we just watched a horror movie that neither of us paid attention to for long. She was one of the smallest girls I’ve been with, which I thought I’d like since I could literally lift her with one hand. But I think the size difference was too much. She was genuinely too tight at first, but after like an hour of warming her up, we finally fucked. Sex was really good, but she was too sore in the morning. I could’ve gone again but I wasn’t that desperate. I let her cuddle for a bit and then sent her home. I told her we could meet up later, but I was actually heading to the airport. I don’t know why I lied. I just didn’t want to deal with her getting attached.
Anyway, I’m kind of tired of writing this, but Taiwan was way better. It helped that I studied Chinese in high school, so I could understand a bit more. For some reason I only ended up hooking up with two Japanese exchange students, so I still haven’t slept with a Chinese girl. I think my phenotype is just maximized appeal to Japanese girls. I’ve had the most success with them in America, Japan, and now Taiwan.
I ran into the same issue where girls asked if I was a tourist or living there. Seems like the only way to get the high-quality girls is to actually live in that place. That said, I think the girls in Taiwan just seemed cleaner than in the Philippines. They had higher standards and weren’t as sketchy, so it felt better overall. Even though the trip wasn’t perfect, I learned a lot about what I’m really looking for. I’ll probably focus more on East Asian countries in the future since that’s where my preferences lie.
I guess I am in a unique position where I don't actually need to geomax to get girls. I've never had that much trouble back home. I just enjoy traveling and experiencing different places, and I find the girls in those places really attractive. I don’t even expect anyone to read this whole post to be honest. Just wanted to write out my thoughts and reflect a bit.
Anyways, you guys probably only care about my results so here's a recap.
I was originally planning to stay in the Philippines the entire time, specifically Cebu, but after a few days I realized how bad the country was and ended up going to Taiwan for the rest of the trip. Maybe I just have high standards, but the food in the Philippines was genuinely disgusting. Granted, I was mostly eating fast food like McDonald’s and Jollibee since international chains gave me some level of food safety assurance. I guess if all you care about is easy access to girls, then it could work, but for me the juice just isn’t worth the squeeze.
Dating apps were honestly a joke in how easy they were. I made my account after arriving and got several hundred likes per day. Since I registered the account with a local SIM, I bought Tinder Gold for a little over 100 PHP, which is less than two dollars. I didn’t want to waste time swiping, so that let me see who liked me and filter out 90 percent or so who weren’t attractive enough. I’m probably younger than most of you, so the only girls who liked me were between 18 and 22 due to my age filter. I probably would’ve gotten more results if I had set my age older, but tbh this was already plenty.
The first problem I ran into was that there were two types of girls on Tinder. There were the “good” girls, or at least those who put on that front, and the obvious hoes. And yeah, I know that on some level all girls are hoes, but I mean the ones with tattoos, drinking pics, and all that who are just more overt about it. The cleaner-looking girls who I actually wanted were a lot more hesitant to meet up after finding out I was a tourist. I know I could’ve lied or tried harder, but I can’t straight up lie, so I just ended up meeting the ones who were down to link that night after a few messages/exchanging insta.
That first night I met up with a girl and we went to a Middle Eastern restaurant since I was starving, but of course the food was terrible. I don’t know what I was thinking getting Middle Eastern food in the Philippines. I could only eat a few bites. We went to a park and talked for a bit. She told me she moved to the city for university and that her dorm had a midnight curfew. Apparently in the Philippines, families are super conservative, especially with daughters, and they keep a close eye on them even after they turn 18. Yeah, clearly none of that mattered now. I invited her back to my Airbnb and she mentioned that security might ask for her ID. She only had her student ID, which she said should still be valid until some law changes in 2029, but security didn’t care. I was a little concerned she might be underage, but her Instagram clearly showed she was a university student. I'm think the guard was just trying to cuck me since he kept making eye contact and smirking, which pissed me off. Eventually I just grabbed her arm and walked past him, and he didn’t say anything. That night kind of wrecked my sleep schedule since we didn’t sleep until early morning, but it was worth it. The sex was good and she fell asleep in my arms, which was cute.
The next day I went out to see some tourist spots, but the air quality and traffic were so bad that I honestly regretted leaving my Airbnb. That night, I was messaging a new girl who wanted to meet after like two texts, which was already a red flag, but she was hot so I agreed. We planned to meet at a rooftop bar near where I was staying. On the way there, I started getting cold feet. I had looked through her Instagram earlier and noticed all her followers were foreign guys. I have no illusions about the type of girls you meet on a hookup-focused dating app, but I couldn’t stop thinking about STDs or other risks. I ended up bailing without telling her, which was kind of messed up since she had already booked a ride. But I had to prioritize myself. I could’ve met another girl that night, but I just wasn’t feeling it. So I ended up having a depressing McDonald’s dinner alone.
The next day was my last full day in Cebu before heading to Taipei, so I wanted to make the most of it. I figured I had to try real local food at least once, so I went to Jollibee. I decided to walk instead of getting a car, which was dumb because I ended up going through a slum. The poverty was pretty eye-opening. People were staring at me like I was some exotic animal. It was one of those moments where you just feel like you don’t belong. I’m tall even by American standards, so I felt like a different species towering over everyone. When I got to Jollibee, the food wasn’t actually that bad. Maybe it was starting to grow on me. After that it was way too hot to be outside, so I just chilled in my air-conditioned Airbnb.
That night, I had plans to meet this girl who was originally from the provinces and had just moved to the city. She might’ve been a minor influencer since she had over 26,000 followers on TikTok. She looked super native but still really attractive, so it was kind of a bucket list thing for me. She had night classes until 8:30, so I ordered some Chinese food on Grab. Of course, right after I placed the order she texted saying she was ready to meet. I couldn’t cancel it, so I told the delivery guy he could have it. He was insanely grateful and kept saying "God bless you sir" and spamming emojis. At least someone enjoyed that meal.
We met at a mall nearby and she kept saying how tall I was and asking if I was a model, which gave me a nice little ego boost. We went back to my place. I tried to teach her how to play cards, but she didn’t get it, so we just watched a horror movie that neither of us paid attention to for long. She was one of the smallest girls I’ve been with, which I thought I’d like since I could literally lift her with one hand. But I think the size difference was too much. She was genuinely too tight at first, but after like an hour of warming her up, we finally fucked. Sex was really good, but she was too sore in the morning. I could’ve gone again but I wasn’t that desperate. I let her cuddle for a bit and then sent her home. I told her we could meet up later, but I was actually heading to the airport. I don’t know why I lied. I just didn’t want to deal with her getting attached.
Anyway, I’m kind of tired of writing this, but Taiwan was way better. It helped that I studied Chinese in high school, so I could understand a bit more. For some reason I only ended up hooking up with two Japanese exchange students, so I still haven’t slept with a Chinese girl. I think my phenotype is just maximized appeal to Japanese girls. I’ve had the most success with them in America, Japan, and now Taiwan.
I ran into the same issue where girls asked if I was a tourist or living there. Seems like the only way to get the high-quality girls is to actually live in that place. That said, I think the girls in Taiwan just seemed cleaner than in the Philippines. They had higher standards and weren’t as sketchy, so it felt better overall. Even though the trip wasn’t perfect, I learned a lot about what I’m really looking for. I’ll probably focus more on East Asian countries in the future since that’s where my preferences lie.
I guess I am in a unique position where I don't actually need to geomax to get girls. I've never had that much trouble back home. I just enjoy traveling and experiencing different places, and I find the girls in those places really attractive. I don’t even expect anyone to read this whole post to be honest. Just wanted to write out my thoughts and reflect a bit.
