Reasonable age gaps in Asia
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predeterminism
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If your 28, the maximum you should be dating is 8 year olds
Marco Pumpo
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Exactly, that's why i start at 18
Rance
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As Meeks said it depends on your looks but you'll have to deal with the fact that as your age increases you will slowly bleed into betabuxx territory. More will be expected of you in terms of money, career, life trajectory, and general seriousness.
When I was 24 I could be a layabout alcoholic who pulled benders and partied all the time. Girls would eat it up because I was a kid. As I'm approaching age 27 I feel that slipping away from me a bit. By age 30 it will be weird and off putting.
Then again everything I just said has more to do with your age itself than the age gap.
When I was 24 I could be a layabout alcoholic who pulled benders and partied all the time. Girls would eat it up because I was a kid. As I'm approaching age 27 I feel that slipping away from me a bit. By age 30 it will be weird and off putting.
Then again everything I just said has more to do with your age itself than the age gap.
14passport
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Age gaps in those countries are on average quite similar to the west, contrary to what stupid PPBs would lead you to believe. Regular girls there are not looking for a man thats 10, 15 or 20 years older than them. Most girls date their looksmatch and age match, just as in the west.
Now you being foreigner having more status, money, exotic factor... you can get away with a larger age gap than usual, say 5-10 years, instead of 1-3 years.
predeterminism
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Wow nice first actual reasonable thing you've said
LoneWanderer
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This, particularly if you look a bit younger than your age, and are sufficiently handsome and in good shape. All in all, it really depends on YOU, what you want, and the country in Asia you plan to be in.
If you're looking for a long-term relationship with a woman, and if you would be willing to start a family with her, then I would say an age gap of 6-10 years is the upper limits if you're expecting the woman to have geniune physical desire and not just what you can provide for her. All of this depends on your own age, looks, and her age of course. For example: I'm currently with a Filipina woman that's 27, and I'm 38. We have plans to marry next year, and both want to have a child and start a family. The other Pinay I had short relations with tended to be in the 25-27 age group. Most (not all) of the younger ones were looking for sugar daddy type situations, with the exception of 2 that just wanted to have fun, travel, fuck, and fake romance without the drama and serious stuff.
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TLDR: If you're interested in a long-term partner in SEA, don't go for a woman that's more than 10+ years younger than yourself. And don't go for women under 24 unless you're in your mid-late 20s. Othewise they will more than likely see you as nothing much more than a provider, and at worst an ATM.
BiggChungus
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20 is reasonable. dont be fat
Even in East Asia?
Definitely not. Even 10 year age gap is not realistic. Unless you're Nicholas Cage.
LoneWanderer
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Which unironically isn't much of a problem anyway because many Jap, Korean, and Chinese women tend to still look good well into their 30s. Those countries have very low rates of fat people, and unlike SEA, they tend to have a much higher disposable income for beauty products and other ways of maintaning looks.
14passport
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No unless you want to be in a betabuxx relationship. Nothing wrong with that but be aware of the kind of relationship you are in.
I have yet to see 20 age gap where lots of $$$ wasnt involved.
geneblackman
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If you have more SMV than her then 7-8 years should be the absolute maximum. 0-5 is ideal
naw your good into your 30's until you start hitting 36 to 39. Been there, done that.
okay for reference. I am 45. I am dating anywhere from 18 to 30. I REFUSE to date older.
and i know anywhere 25 below is high chance it's just fucking and nothing serious
but i am okay with that. i was married, i did it once. i really don't want to do it again.
so the lifestyle i have is good for me.
if i don't get free, i pay 25 dollars for her to leave. and im okay with that. i like the point of sleeping alone. I hate when i have a new person in my bed. So i actually like paying instead of picking up at the bar. I NEVER have a good sleep with a stranger in my bed.
at my age of 45 i don't need an ego boost, been there done that. don't care
i just want my needs met aka cumming and relaxing.
and at 25 dollars a pop and she leaves (now dont' get me wrong. im not fucking street walkers. I am fucking highschool girls or uni girls for school fees or books. so its' not every day.) so they stick around for dinner and drinks (around 3 or 4 hours) but the sheer amount of girls that need help, im fucking every day, sometimes 3 times a day.
if I am getting free from pick up at a bar or wherever. I need you to be EXACTLY my type. no bullshit from you.
i had one chindo girl, who i went out with. short, big tits. she's a successful business owner. 30. She was so into me, it was almost stalkerish. but i eventually put the breaks on it. Simply because it's too clingly. I really really really am not looking to marry again. I did it once. it's my bucket list, done
and i know anywhere 25 below is high chance it's just fucking and nothing serious
but i am okay with that. i was married, i did it once. i really don't want to do it again.
so the lifestyle i have is good for me.
if i don't get free, i pay 25 dollars for her to leave. and im okay with that. i like the point of sleeping alone. I hate when i have a new person in my bed. So i actually like paying instead of picking up at the bar. I NEVER have a good sleep with a stranger in my bed.
at my age of 45 i don't need an ego boost, been there done that. don't care
i just want my needs met aka cumming and relaxing.
and at 25 dollars a pop and she leaves (now dont' get me wrong. im not fucking street walkers. I am fucking highschool girls or uni girls for school fees or books. so its' not every day.) so they stick around for dinner and drinks (around 3 or 4 hours) but the sheer amount of girls that need help, im fucking every day, sometimes 3 times a day.
if I am getting free from pick up at a bar or wherever. I need you to be EXACTLY my type. no bullshit from you.
i had one chindo girl, who i went out with. short, big tits. she's a successful business owner. 30. She was so into me, it was almost stalkerish. but i eventually put the breaks on it. Simply because it's too clingly. I really really really am not looking to marry again. I did it once. it's my bucket list, done
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14passport
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we are talking about normal relationships not betabuxxing/p4p, if money is involved you can go as big of a gap as you can afford to
dude, i went out with a girl on a bumble date. She was looking for something serious. I paid for the date even though she offered half.
fuck off with the "you paid to get laid" bullshit\
so fuck off. seriously. No matter if it's a date like you think. or a pay for play.
it's the same fucking thing. no matter what the GF is going to expect you to bring her to places. FOR MONEY
unless she's smitten with you (like my bumble date was, to the point it was cringe and stalkery) who the fuck wants that?
when your young ya, okay. but as an older guy. i didn't want it. it's cringe.
BiggChungus
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I asked you before biggunsar, but in indonesia where do you find these girls again?
EVERYWHERE.
dude, 32 mil plus in this city.
that means 16 mil puss is available.
ABC (always be chasin).
and once you get one or two, eventually they will have a friend of a friend.
and i tend to fuck the girls for money from north, west and east (these are poorer girls who need money for books from time to time). And the awesome thing about it. When THEIR friends need money for books or uniforms or whatever school related. They will pass on my number. So i have ALOT of girls in my roster now. Crazy thing. My phone lights up when there is about to be a holiday. Now i know...oh 8 girls contacted me in one day to fuck. must be a holiday coming up LOL
but the girls i for real date are down south. They can speak english.
2 weeks ago i finally installed bumble after a year and a half in indo. just to see
and its exactly as i experienced in other large cities. LOTS of time wasters.
gotta go in for the kill 3 days or less.
and i get an INSANE amount of matches. like every day.
went on two dates so far, and have 3 more lined up. But i cringe at the fucking money im spending. To be quite honest. Would rather spend 1/4 that, and fuck the schoolers.
but one bumble one was i don't hug on the first date bullshit (but complained when i left her early and bugged me for 3 days to see her again) but i said NOPE, not into that highschool girl bullshit vibe. "dont' hug on the first date" get the fuck outta here. oh ya, i remember what set me off. And i told her fuck you. I was traveling to see her in a cab. And we were talking and i approached the subject of "that hand shake instead of a hug was very cold for a first date" and she was like "oh, that was a date"
no you stupid cunt. I took a cab 45 minutes out of my way, went to a mall i have never been to. And even though you offered to pay half of the meal, as a man i stepped up and paid for the entire thing without asking for anything in return. But "oh that was a date" i just said, "you know what. fuck this" im turning the cab around. she tried to appologize, but i was like NOPE, too many flags with you.
second one was prettier, more my jam, but super fucking clingy. Like....INSANELY so. literally gave me the REEE REEE REEE (horror movie sound) vibes. in my second last conversation to her, she admitted she was married twice. .........i don't need to say anymore.
