Overcoming LMR (last minute resistance)

[myeyes]

This is something that has helped me a lot so maybe it will help others.

A lot of people say Mystery Method is outdated and bloated but there are some things he invented which are pure genius like this strategy here.

So if you’re getting LMR, like she’s on the bed or couch and she keeps pulling away or stopping you, what you do is kiss her a little, grab her butt a little, finger her over her clothes a little, something that’s making a move, and before she pulls away, this time YOU pull away first, and then go back to watching a movie whatever, talking about random shit, pretending it never happened, then wait longer than she is expecting, like wait double the time you feel comfortable with, then try again, and try to sense if she is pulling you or you’re pulling her, you want her to be pulling you, but if you’re pulling her, repeat etc, until sex or you hit a wall and give up.

This confuses girls and makes you seem different and not desperate, idk about the red pill theory behind it all I know is it’s worked for me many times, sometimes fails though like everything.

Mystery recommends more extreme things like standing up and making a sandwich, clipping your toenails, etc but this is autistic and more people after mystery recommend a mild approach like just continuing on like nothing happened.

If you’re ugly like me I also recommend waiting an abnormally long amount of time after coming back to your place to try the first attempt. Like an hour or longer than what the girl is expecting, seems to increase your chances and give you less resistance

 

[Orientalist]

Mystery recommends more extreme things like standing up and making a sandwich, clipping your toenails, etc but this is autistic and more people after mystery recommend a mild approach like just continuing on like nothing happened.

This is good earlier in the night at preventing resistance later on by keeping her anxiety/uncertainty low

 

[myeyes]

This is good earlier in the night at preventing resistance later on by keeping her anxiety/uncertainty low

True, probably good if you take her back earlier or during the day

 

[Rance]

Right on. Idk if you have seen it but I covered some of these same ideas in another post https://geomax.me/threads/rances-guide-to-escalation-and-emotional-calibration-in-japan.7387/

 

[Orientalist]

True, probably good if you take her back earlier or during the day

Depends tbh. But really I was responding to your whole post; the idea of you clearly being the one who breaks away first for example when you first start making out. If you haven't even done that yet then going full "mystery" or whatever and killing the energy/sexual tension sounds more like a longer-term strategy especially if you're not specifically on a date. High-risk high-reward kind of thing potentially. But this is just tales from the basement anyways.

If you're ugly and you're relying on a girl being wasted to be attracted to you then you can probably ignore some what you said and just try to cut to the chase jfl - the longer term effect of strategies like this for (prematurely) preventing LMR, and asserting yourself as being in control of the energy between the 2 of you prevents getting ghosted later.
I'm all for sex on the first night even when you're trying to LTR a girl, but you really want to be pulling out stuff like this when you realize you might want to start dating this chick, and not have her wondering muh "are you never gonna want to see me again after this" or whatever if you take things too fast.

 

[myeyes]

Depends tbh. But really I was responding to your whole post; the idea of you clearly being the one who breaks away first for example when you first start making out. If you haven't even done that yet then going full "mystery" or whatever and killing the energy/sexual tension sounds more like a longer-term strategy especially if you're not specifically on a date. High-risk high-reward kind of thing potentially. But this is just tales from the basement anyways.

If you're ugly and you're relying on a girl being wasted to be attracted to you then you can probably ignore some what you said and just try to cut to the chase jfl - the longer term effect of strategies like this for (prematurely) preventing LMR, and asserting yourself as being in control of the energy between the 2 of you prevents getting ghosted later.
I'm all for sex on the first night even when you're trying to LTR a girl, but you really want to be pulling out stuff like this when you realize you might want to start dating this chick, and not have her wondering muh "are you never gonna want to see me again after this" or whatever if you take things too fast.

I understand what you mean, but I’ve been rejected on the bed so many times that it’s basically a trauma for me
So I basically do this stuff every time because I don’t really see a downside except for I have to wait an hour or a few hours extra for sex

And I’ve also been friendzoned so much it’s also a trauma for me so I go for sex on the first date almost every time now and I ghost if they don’t sleep with me on the second date. Third dates always end up with me getting fully ghosted or friendzoned, if I don’t get straight to the point I waste a lot of time and money

But this is written from the perspective of someone with bad stats, I presume most people on the forum won’t have to do all this stuff