Vent OLD is so brutal

[Reptilian7662]

Dating in Indonesia got my confidence up (great place to geomax btw). When I came back to my home country I returned with me the delusional idea that I could get a girlfriend here. So I went on the dating apps. In Indonesia I could get 100 likes per day, here 1 every 2 days maximum. And only 1 in 4 girls actually responds. And of the ones that respond only a fraction agree to meet up. And of the ones that agree, only 1 has shown up so far, after 6 months of trying. Being 20cm below the average male's height here makes dating online nearly impossible. And being non-nt makes it nearly impossible to get a girlfriend through other methods. It looks like I'm gonna have to start planning my next trip q_q.

 

[Pained4ever]

Dating in Indonesia got my confidence up (great place to geomax btw). When I came back to my home country I returned with me the delusional idea that I could get a girlfriend here. So I went on the dating apps. In Indonesia I could get 100 likes per day, here 1 every 2 days maximum. And only 1 in 4 girls actually responds. And of the ones that respond only a fraction agree to meet up. And of the ones that agree, only 1 has shown up so far, after 6 months of trying. Being 20cm below the average male's height here makes dating online nearly impossible. And being non-nt makes it nearly impossible to get a girlfriend through other methods. It looks like I'm gonna have to start planning my next trip q_q.

How tall are you? 20cm below avg is crazy

 

[Reptilian7662]

I'm 165cm. Actually on a second look it's more like 15cm.

 

[14passport]

you got it tough at 165cm and non nt in the west

only way is to geomaxx, or looksmaxx as much as you can

which cities in Indonesia did you hit?

 

[Reptilian7662]

I went to Jakarta, Bandung, Jogja and Surabaya. But only hit in Jakarta. It was really easy, had multiple girls come straight to my hotel lol, unthinkable in the west. My life goal is now to escape the west, I'll never live a full and happy life where I am.

 

[14passport]

I went to Jakarta, Bandung, Jogja and Surabaya. But only hit in Jakarta. It was really easy, had multiple girls come straight to my hotel lol, unthinkable in the west. My life goal is now to escape the west, I'll never live a full and happy life where I am.

then go for it, grind a few years, invest it and you can live a simple and cheap life in cities like Jakarta

 

[Reptilian7662]

Exactly and in the meantime I'm gonna scout during my PTO. But I'm leaning towards Africa because I find black women much more attractive than Asians. I think because I prefer curvier. What about you? Have you already geomaxxed?

 

[Mafumofu]

Exactly and in the meantime I'm gonna scout during my PTO. But I'm leaning towards Africa because I find black women much more attractive than Asians. I think because I prefer curvier. What about you? Have you already geomaxxed?

Are africans really curvier? The ones in the UK just look like men.

 

[Reptilian7662]

Are africans really curvier? The ones in the UK just look like men.

Everyone says so but I've never been. I'm going to find out later this year though. Maybe someone else on this forum can confirm/deny.

 

[Mafumofu]

Everyone says so but I've never been. I'm going to find out later this year though. Maybe someone else on this forum can confirm/deny.

I keep failing in Asia so maybe I should also take the bestiality pill. Desperate times.

 

[myeyes]

Dating in Indonesia got my confidence up (great place to geomax btw). When I came back to my home country I returned with me the delusional idea that I could get a girlfriend here. So I went on the dating apps. In Indonesia I could get 100 likes per day, here 1 every 2 days maximum. And only 1 in 4 girls actually responds. And of the ones that respond only a fraction agree to meet up. And of the ones that agree, only 1 has shown up so far, after 6 months of trying. Being 20cm below the average male's height here makes dating online nearly impossible. And being non-nt makes it nearly impossible to get a girlfriend through other methods. It looks like I'm gonna have to start planning my next trip q_q.

This was my exact experience 2 years ago, like this could have been written by me. I’m 170cm

For any real manlets (<5’8) in the west, I recommend skipping college, career, etc, and just try to make money online. The west is very anti short men, not just in dating but also just the daily disrespect and all the inconveniences that come with it.

You could struggle for years trying to make it work if you wish, but it’s simply not worth it