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Glen Short from sheridan

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Im so retarded guys i ruined my fucking life at 19
Discovered bpill at 14, went ER dropped out of college after starting to get a multitude of surgeries (i used the rest of the tuition money mym parents saved for me to afford it)

life was good i easily got past 99 on tinder in sea a little lower in EA (like 20 likes on a good day) holy shit fast forward 1 year

My mom fucking calls me angry asking me if i got a girl pregnant i asked her wtf she was talking about and turns out one of those random niggers in the ph i hooked up with GOT PREGNANT and fucking literally tracked my facebook down which i ahve no idea how and messaged EVERYBODY with my last name on my friends list there holy fuck i cant even describe what the last couple of weeks is like for me i genuinely want to fucking die


IM ONLY 19 I DONT DESERVE ANY OF THIS im at home now and have to deal with my parents and everyone i fucking know about this. Im literally breaking sown im 1 shitty argument away from going ER on myself and ending it all WARNING TO EVERYONE DO NOT BE RETARDED REMAIN ANONYMOUS DO NOT SHOW ANYONE ANY OF YOUR IRL SOCIALS AND DO NOT GWT DRUNK WITH ANYONE IF YOURE AUTISTIC/NON NT AND CANT CONTROL WHAT YOUU SAY

im so fucking dead
 
Pained4ever said:
if it's a girl from the philippines, you could just ignore it tbh. they have no real legal recourse. Not exactly ethical, but you can do it.
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Ya ik but my entire family knows about she sent pictures of a random xray (i dont even jnow if its mine( and a pic she took of us in a hotel to EVERYONE in my fb dude
 
Take a deep breath, you're gonna be fine. You need to frame this as a SCAM. If anyone asks you about it you need to confidently explain to them that this is a common fraud in the Philippines (not true btw) and that Filipinas like to take advantage of foreign men by using AI imagery to make it look like they're pregnant, to extort them for money (not true btw). This will turn the sympathy to YOU.

This will work fine with just about anyone except maybe your mom, since it sounds like you've already had an argument with her. You should explain to her that you were stupid and naive, had a chat with one of your male Filipino friends, and he explained to you that she's a scammer.

Legal-related recommendations just in case anything escalates (it almost certainly won't):
  • Do not delete ANY correspondence with the girl, if you have any. It's very important that you retain any communication you've had together
  • Do not reach out to contact her or anyone who knows her
  • It is probably best to not block her, if you have her contact. If she contacts you, retain the messages but ignore them
 
Rance said:
Take a deep breath, you're gonna be fine. You need to frame this as a SCAM. If anyone asks you about it you need to confidently explain to them that this is a common fraud in the Philippines (not true btw) and that Filipinas like to take advantage of foreign men by using AI imagery to make it look like they're pregnant, to extort them for money (not true btw). This will turn the sympathy to YOU.

This will work fine with just about anyone except maybe your mom, since it sounds like you've already had an argument with her. You should explain to her that you were stupid and naive, had a chat with one of your male Filipino friends, and he explained to you that she's a scammer.

Legal-related recommendations just in case anything escalates (it almost certainly won't):
  • Do not delete ANY correspondence with the girl, if you have any. It's very important that you retain any communication you've had together
  • Do not reach out to contact her or anyone who knows her
  • It is probably best to not block her, if you have her contact. If she contacts you, retain the messages but ignore them
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Thank u finally someone with a triple digit iq thank you for this post youve helped me alot. Btw happy new year
 
Rance said:
Take a deep breath, you're gonna be fine. You need to frame this as a SCAM. If anyone asks you about it you need to confidently explain to them that this is a common fraud in the Philippines (not true btw) and that Filipinas like to take advantage of foreign men by using AI imagery to make it look like they're pregnant, to extort them for money (not true btw). This will turn the sympathy to YOU.

This will work fine with just about anyone except maybe your mom, since it sounds like you've already had an argument with her. You should explain to her that you were stupid and naive, had a chat with one of your male Filipino friends, and he explained to you that she's a scammer.

Legal-related recommendations just in case anything escalates (it almost certainly won't):
  • Do not delete ANY correspondence with the girl, if you have any. It's very important that you retain any communication you've had together
  • Do not reach out to contact her or anyone who knows her
  • It is probably best to not block her, if you have her contact. If she contacts you, retain the messages but ignore them
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Ok ill make a facebook story post explaining that im being scammed im gonna have to talk to my mom again later too
 
Glen Short from sheridan said:
Ok ill make a facebook story post explaining that im being scammed im gonna have to talk to my mom again later too
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Nah definitely don't do that dude, you don't need to make any public announcements and you shouldn't. This is for two reasons, 1) Streisand effect. You will probably make a ton of people aware of your situation who didn't even know about it to begin with, and 2) There could be legal ramifications for your claims in the unlikely event that it does escalate. Just reply to people who reach out to you.

I assume you are in North America? You should go to bed and take any action when you've calmed down a bit. Have a drink if you can and just chill, try to think of something else
 
Rance said:
Nah definitely don't do that dude, you don't need to make any public announcements and you shouldn't. This is for two reasons, 1) Streisand effect. You will probably make a ton of people aware of your situation who didn't even know about it to begin with, and 2) There could be legal ramifications for your claims in the unlikely event that it does escalate. Just reply to people who reach out to you.

I assume you are in North America? You should go to bed and take any action when you've calmed down a bit. Have a drink if you can and just chill, try to think of something else
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Thanks bro can we dm?
 
Rance said:
Nah definitely don't do that dude, you don't need to make any public announcements and you shouldn't. This is for two reasons, 1) Streisand effect. You will probably make a ton of people aware of your situation who didn't even know about it to begin with, and 2) There could be legal ramifications for your claims in the unlikely event that it does escalate. Just reply to people who reach out to you.

I assume you are in North America? You should go to bed and take any action when you've calmed down a bit. Have a drink if you can and just chill, try to think of something else
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I posted it on my story that its a random scammer using ai, spammed everyone with a message saying its a scammer and i deactivated my fb like 5 hrs later
 
Glen Short from sheridan said:
I posted it on my story that its a random scammer using ai, spammed everyone with a message saying its a scammer and i deactivated my fb like 5 hrs later
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The more important is the kid might be yours if it's really yours and you didn't use a condom, I'd be more worried about that. You can't escape the reality unless she's scamming you
 
younglivinglife said:
The more important is the kid might be yours if it's really yours and you didn't use a condom, I'd be more worried about that. You can't escape the reality unless she's scamming you
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she still has basically no recourse
 
Pained4ever said:
she still has basically no recourse
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Andrew Ryan said:
who cares if it's him
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Yeah, but if I wasn't careful enough to use condoms then you are just a huge asshole. Unless she baby trapped him it's a moral and ethical obligation, especially if you want to raise family in future
Have a millionaire/multimillionaire friend with a girl babytrapping him in PHP,still pays her 700 a month even tho she scammed him?

Why? So the kid won't eat pagpag and rice and will get properly developed
 
younglivinglife said:
Yeah, but if I wasn't careful enough to use condoms then you are just a huge asshole. Unless she baby trapped him it's a moral and ethical obligation, especially if you want to raise family in future
Have a millionaire/multimillionaire friend with a girl babytrapping him in PHP,still pays her 700 a month even tho she scammed him?

Why? So the kid won't eat pagpag and rice and will get properly developed
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that's cuck mentality. real alphas just abandon their kids.
 
younglivinglife said:
Yeah, but if I wasn't careful enough to use condoms then you are just a huge asshole. Unless she baby trapped him it's a moral and ethical obligation, especially if you want to raise family in future
Have a millionaire/multimillionaire friend with a girl babytrapping him in PHP,still pays her 700 a month even tho she scammed him?

Why? So the kid won't eat pagpag and rice and will get properly developed
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i get what you're saying but him being scared is pointless. if he wants to support the kid if its his there's nothing stopping him
 
Pained4ever said:
i get what you're saying but him being scared is pointless. if he wants to support the kid if its his there's nothing stopping him
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If it even is his, because usually girls who scam don't scam months later but instantly asking for doctor fees/other fees
 
Glen Short from sheridan said:
Im so retarded guys i ruined my fucking life at 19
Discovered bpill at 14, went ER dropped out of college after starting to get a multitude of surgeries (i used the rest of the tuition money mym parents saved for me to afford it)

life was good i easily got past 99 on tinder in sea a little lower in EA (like 20 likes on a good day) holy shit fast forward 1 year

My mom fucking calls me angry asking me if i got a girl pregnant i asked her wtf she was talking about and turns out one of those random niggers in the ph i hooked up with GOT PREGNANT and fucking literally tracked my facebook down which i ahve no idea how and messaged EVERYBODY with my last name on my friends list there holy fuck i cant even describe what the last couple of weeks is like for me i genuinely want to fucking die


IM ONLY 19 I DONT DESERVE ANY OF THIS im at home now and have to deal with my parents and everyone i fucking know about this. Im literally breaking sown im 1 shitty argument away from going ER on myself and ending it all WARNING TO EVERYONE DO NOT BE RETARDED REMAIN ANONYMOUS DO NOT SHOW ANYONE ANY OF YOUR IRL SOCIALS AND DO NOT GWT DRUNK WITH ANYONE IF YOURE AUTISTIC/NON NT AND CANT CONTROL WHAT YOUU SAY

im so fucking dead
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Be happy, you're a father now. You've accomplished what human species were programmed for at 19. See the bright side. Your kid will have young daddy ^_^
 
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