Brutal
Years ago I was talking to a Filipina occasionally, (mostly out of boredom) and objectively she was like a 6/10. She used to hit me up when she was lonely , bored, or horny, but I digress. Anyway, she had some on again, off again relationship with some Aussie mid 30s dude that was raised in Australia, but his parents were from Thailand, if I recall. This man had sent her over the course of 3 years the equivalent of 30k USD and several other expenses of taking her to resorts all over the Philippines.
That's just one story of course, but I do believe that Aussie and Kiwi men are playing on Insane difficulty mode when it comes to dating. Those countries are not only very expensive to live in but also feminist shitholes, with your average woman being below the looks level of her average male counterpart. The saving grace, (or so you would think) is the relatively close proximity to SEA, but... often times the non chads from said countries are so desperate that they right away lead with their wallets, get mixed up with the wrong women, and/or make things worse by inflating Thai women and Pinay's ego by spoiling them so much.
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Even my current girlfriend, had an ex co-worker that she lived with, whom was talking to some early 30s American guy, and within just a month, he moved her out of the staff house, got her single bedroom fully furnished condo, and was paying for the entirety of her rent, and a few utilities. They hadn't even met in person yet. The kicker was that she wasn't even attractive. A 34-year-old chubby single mother of a 17-year-old girl. This is her
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This is what some dudes are betabuxxing over from abroad, and yes- it inflates the ego and expectations of all types of women, because many of them know a friend, cousin, co-worker that had/has a foreign bf/fiance/whatever that has thrown lots of monet at women. They all have it the back of their minds that they will hit the 'jackpot', and this is normalized relations with foreign men.
This is true if you're somewhat handsome, affable, outgoing, and don't go in pressuring her to stay at your place overnight the first time you meet. I'm speaking about the Philippines as I have no experience in Thailand, but there are some women here that just want to date and have fun with a foreign man, without the expectation of it turning into anything serious. Usually these girls will keep you on the downlow because they don't want their social circle and family gossiping about them. lol