I think my pair-bonding or whatever is destroyed because I don't think this would bother me at all. Or maybe I've outgrown it because of all the married or taken women I've slept with. So many hookups where the boyfriend is bitching her over text to come home because he's "worried about her" and I'm thinking lmao, yeah you should be worried. In other words, if something like this happened to me, I'd have it coming.
But my stomach would still drop in your situation because I'd feel like I'd need to retaliate to save face. Kind of like if someone calls my mom a whore, I don't really care that they said it because she's far from a whore, but now it's a problem because I don't want to be the guy who had his mom called a whore and did nothing about it. And in your situation you'd be labeled a cuck if you just sat there and watched your ex choke on your friend's dick without slapping him or something.
