Vent I need your help guys. Girlfriend situation

[Exutoire]

I have been with my girlfriend for 5 months. She is from China, I will come live with her soon while continuing my studies. She is HTB, very rich, smart and very conservative.
She loves me immensely and I love her too. However I feel I start to be a cuck more and more. I am getting more and more blue pilled.
She is extremely possessive, while we are far away, constantly ringing my phone, putting me in horrible situations because if I don’t answer her she will go absolutely crazy. For example when I welcome friends at my home she will keep calling me, and I awkwardly have to deal with it and look like an absolute cuck.

She is so possessive and jealous, I feel like I am losing freedom. I feel like I am developing anxiety because of this shit too.

On the other side, I don’t think I can find a girl who is more loving, sexier and as serious as her. She really sacrifices herself a lot for me too.

So what do you guys think ? I need advice from you experienced guys since it’s my first girl, I don’t want to get trapped but losing her would really hit hard.

 

[Mafumofu]

Brag thread

 

[AlexBrown84]

dm me pics of her

but you gotta put that hoe in her place.

She loves me immensely and I love her too. However I feel I start to be a cuck more and more. I am getting more and more blue pilled.

you shouldn’t try to repress your anima. if you do it right, being around ur gf can help you become balanced

on the flip side for her, she’s acting more masculine for her because of repressed emotions, mostly masculine in nature. probably feelings of inferioirty and acting out against you as a coping mechanism

why don’t you come to my clinic here in china? it wouldn’t be more than a few hours train ride from where you’re at.i’ve recently opened up one now that i’m officially a licensed psychologist

i’ll give you a few free sessions as you’re a member of the geomaxia society

 

[Xavist]

I have been with my girlfriend for 5 months. She is from China, I will come live with her soon while continuing my studies. She is HTB, very rich, smart and very conservative.
She loves me immensely and I love her too. However I feel I start to be a cuck more and more. I am getting more and more blue pilled.
She is extremely possessive, while we are far away, constantly ringing my phone, putting me in horrible situations because if I don’t answer her she will go absolutely crazy. For example when I welcome friends at my home she will keep calling me, and I awkwardly have to deal with it and look like an absolute cuck.

She is so possessive and jealous, I feel like I am losing freedom. I feel like I am developing anxiety because of this shit too.

On the other side, I don’t think I can find a girl who is more loving, sexier and as serious as her. She really sacrifices herself a lot for me too.

So what do you guys think ? I need advice from you experienced guys since it’s my first girl, I don’t want to get trapped but losing her would really hit hard.

Just let her keep you as a white monkey boy toy lol

 

[Exutoire]

dm me pics of her

but you gotta put that hoe in her place.


you shouldn’t try to repress your anima. if you do it right, being around ur gf can help you become balanced

on the flip side for her, she’s acting more masculine for her because of repressed emotions, mostly masculine in nature. probably feelings of inferioirty and acting out against you as a coping mechanism

why don’t you come to my clinic here in china? it wouldn’t be more than a few hours train ride from where you’re at.i’ve recently opened up one now that i’m officially a licensed psychologist

i’ll give you a few free sessions as you’re a member of the geomaxia society

Wonderful

 

[Exutoire]

Just let her keep you as a white monkey boy toy lol

It ain’t that though.

 

[Xavist]

It ain’t that though.

But she mogs you so I think she wants to keep you as an exotic pet or something jfl

 

[Exutoire]

But she mogs you so I think she wants to keep you as an exotic pet or something jfl

I doubt it

 

[Xavist]

I doubt it

Why is she so obsessed with you do you think?

 

[Exutoire]

Why is she so obsessed with you do you think?

Tall and white is of course part of the equation but she knows many foreign models so it’s not only looks.
I think I filled a kind of fantasy. Like pure, European guy fantasy. For some reason she is obsessed with purity. If I had a lot of lays she would hate it. The fact that I was incel paradoxically helped me there.
It’s really strange.

 

[AlexBrown84]

Tall and white is of course part of the equation but she knows many foreign models so it’s not only looks.
I think I filled a kind of fantasy. Like pure, European guy fantasy. For some reason she is obsessed with purity. If I had a lot of lays she would hate it. The fact that I was incel paradoxically helped me there.
It’s really strange.

do you make her cum

do you use condom

 

[Exutoire]

do you make her cum

do you use condom

Yes, no

 

[AlexBrown84]

Yes, no

did you go raw first time you fucked her?

 

[Exutoire]

did you go raw first time you fucked her?

Yes

 

[Xavist]

Yes

Did you film it too?

 

[Orientalist]

Did you film it too?

I was in the corner recording

 

[Rance]

Same old story, the longer you wait to put down your boundaries the harder it will be to control the relationship. You settled down with the first girl who was willing to date you. We all told you that this would happen. It's not that you made the wrong choice, but that the consequences of settling before playing are coming home to roost. You're feeling anxious because your mind is telling you that this is your sole shot at love, which is not the case, but you believe it because you haven't experienced any different.

You need to de-center your mind from her and demonstrate, both to her and to yourself, that you have other things going on that demand your attention and emotional resources. This can be done from a place of love. It's never an argument. It's always from the position of "I'm living a cool life, and you're an important part of that, so let me do my work and trust that it'll make us both happy".

Relevant quote from a post I made (from https://geomax.me/threads/hot-girls-in-philippines.7331/post-81847)

If you are not willing or able to multi-date, you should at least be doing a "diet" version of it by having good looking female friends, being a little mysterious about where you're hanging out, and ideally building a strong presence on social media. "I would never cheat on you, I love you" ... but I could!

 

[Someone]

If she’s the rich girl who is constantly calling you, she’s the cuck. You also get some SMV bonus points in front of your friends.

I’m pretty sure she can help you more than your degree ever will. Universities sell you the dream of a successful career, but in most cases you’re on your own. Just show that you’re studying Chinese and her culture at the same time, and she will likely help you in the future

 

[myeyes]

You need to but that bitch in her place dawg pow pow pow (easier said than done)

 

[Meeks]

She’s showing her true colours, this is classic Chinese girl behaviour.

What reason exactly does she need you to respond right away? Have you asked her?

You’re at a crossroads, you have to nip this in the bud now.

 

[Exutoire]

She’s showing her true colours, this is classic Chinese girl behaviour.

What reason exactly does she need you to respond right away? Have you asked her?

You’re at a crossroads, you have to nip this in the bud now.

Apparently she is extremely possessive. She gets very anxious. She thinks I am cheating.