i feel like i’ll never get a chinese girlfriend

AlexBrown84

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seriously

the current meta that’s worked for me the past few years goes completely out the door here

i’ll have to go back to the drawing board and brainstorm something new
 
you used to do cold approach? what personally changed for you

I heard through a chinese friend that most chinese guys just jerk off to genshin impact these days and so most online spaces are effectively dead in china with zero potential for any growth.

I was somewhat underwhelmed by my china experience this year. I'd like to make it work better too, but I am just not sure how. the brainrot seems pretty advanced.

I have good results through hellotalk, but the same amount of effort in korea will yield similar results, and sugarbabies in korea are not really that much more expensive than china anyway.

personally my long term plan for the moment is to bounce back and forth between korea and indonesia. I like the benefits of both countries, whereas china is just somewhere in the middle between them without providing the extraordinary advantages of either.
 
you used to do cold approach? what personally changed for you

I heard through a chinese friend that most chinese guys just jerk off to genshin impact these days and so most online spaces are effectively dead in china with zero potential for any growth.

I was somewhat underwhelmed by my china experience this year. I'd like to make it work better too, but I am just not sure how. the brainrot seems pretty advanced.

I have good results through hellotalk, but the same amount of effort in korea will yield similar results, and sugarbabies in korea are not really that much more expensive than china anyway.

personally my long term plan for the moment is to bounce back and forth between korea and indonesia. I like the benefits of both countries, whereas china is just somewhere in the middle between them without providing the extraordinary advantages of either.
How can you afford living in indonesia and korea, do you live off parents or can you make money online? I need to geomaxx long-term asap so any answer would be welcome.
 
sorry not gonna give away personal information online. but yearlong rental units in korea can be had for 400 dollars a month or less. overall, if you have any income at all, I would say it's viable.
 
sorry not gonna give away personal information online. but yearlong rental units in korea can be had for 400 dollars a month or less. overall, if you have any income at all, I would say it's viable.
I understand, but I mean if you change location often, you are either making money online or living off of some asset/parents, so you would not doxx yourself by revealing that like 100% of geomaxxers are doing one of those if they are long term and nomads lol. And 400 dollars a month is nice but you can only stay 3 months in korea if you do not want to do visa runs which is a legal grey area
 
you used to do cold approach? what personally changed for you

I heard through a chinese friend that most chinese guys just jerk off to genshin impact these days and so most online spaces are effectively dead in china with zero potential for any growth.

I was somewhat underwhelmed by my china experience this year. I'd like to make it work better too, but I am just not sure how. the brainrot seems pretty advanced.

I have good results through hellotalk, but the same amount of effort in korea will yield similar results, and sugarbabies in korea are not really that much more expensive than china anyway.

personally my long term plan for the moment is to bounce back and forth between korea and indonesia. I like the benefits of both countries, whereas china is just somewhere in the middle between them without providing the extraordinary advantages of either.
You seem to have been geomaxxing for a long time in Asia as a digital nomad…
Could you share with us your stats like age, race, looks level, etc and what quality of girls you usually get in various countries?
 
somewhat younger than biggunsar, white, probably htn.

I used to do very well in china. attractive women and many of them. I am doing a lot less well lately. china tolerates age gaps, but there are the other problems I mentioned. thailand girls are often willing to meet immediately. the downside is thailand is flooded with foreigners and it makes them pickier than their pay grade, they are not attractive on average and they are fat. korea is hard, you have to put in actual effort and it wont pay off half the time. few people are on apps, you need to speak korean. that said, at least its not third world. you basically run into zero problems day to day, so it is liveable.

vietnam is in a pretty good spot right now if you ever want to go, go now. it's only going to get harder like every other place. probably similar to the experience of many others, I easily get the best quality in indonesia. that said the girls are much less good looking on average, but at least they're not as fat as thais or filipinas.

I used to rate china at the top, followed by indonesia, vietnam, and korea. I'd say my favorite countries at the moment are indonesia and korea.
 
somewhat younger than biggunsar, white, probably htn.

I used to do very well in china. attractive women and many of them. I am doing a lot less well lately. china tolerates age gaps, but there are the other problems I mentioned. thailand girls are often willing to meet immediately. the downside is thailand is flooded with foreigners and it makes them pickier than their pay grade, they are not attractive on average and they are fat. korea is hard, you have to put in actual effort and it wont pay off half the time. few people are on apps, you need to speak korean. that said, at least its not third world. you basically run into zero problems day to day, so it is liveable.

vietnam is in a pretty good spot right now if you ever want to go, go now. it's only going to get harder like every other place. probably similar to the experience of many others, I easily get the best quality in indonesia. that said the girls are much less good looking on average, but at least they're not as fat as thais or filipinas.

I used to rate china at the top, followed by indonesia, vietnam, and korea. I'd say my favorite countries at the moment are indonesia and korea.
Do you have any experience with Japan and the non-mainland Sinosphere (Taiwan, Macau, Hong Kong, Singapore) along with any other parts of Asia, like Mongolia or Central Asia?
If so, how have they changed over the years in your experience and are any of them still good you think?
Also, did you primarily rely on OLD in mainland China with both dating and language exchange apps or did you usually cold approach only, and which got you greater results on average?
And what cities do you have experience in as well?
 
what traits make Chinese girls good for girlfriends? I would rank them near the bottom of the girlfriend rankings in Asia
 
the only thing on my plate the next few months are coping with books, surgeries, and transmutation of my soul

a metamorphosis

a training arc

new heights for me to reach

i will ascend
 
lower blepharoplasty, soof lift, and then phenol peel

and then i’ll reevaluate if im fit enough to play this season again
i wish i could ascend that easily. you're lucky that you don't need bimax. it's so much heavier than all of these. but at least it probably carries the biggest ascension potential.

the phenol peel looks a bit scary though. you may have a red face for months.
 
i wish i could ascend that easily. you're lucky that you don't need bimax. it's so much heavier than all of these. but at least it probably carries the biggest ascension potential.

the phenol peel looks a bit scary though. you may have a red face for months.
dude if your 40+ you should be getting a face lift before anything
 
lower blepharoplasty, soof lift, and then phenol peel

and then i’ll reevaluate if im fit enough to play this season again
dude youre way too young for this. doing it now can void the potential to do it in the future. you really shouldnt be doing that man
 

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