Hot Girls In Philippines

[younglivinglife]

So, I never dated average girls in the Philippines—mostly attractive ones I matched with online.

If you don't speak Bisaya or offer very high value, they always come with problems and are never relationship-worthy.

• One was attractive but not model-like—more in the top 20% of Filipinas. She had a kid at 18 and is now 20 or 21. She was a single mom, and I always caught her in lies. After we broke up but still talked, she kept lying about going on trips alone. She claimed she didn’t sleep with a guy who approached her, but she was always dishonest. In the end, she even said I wasn’t good in bed. I told her that most guys don’t take her seriously (since, as a single mom, she’s at most an attractive vacation girlfriend who gets dumped when guys return to their home country). She ended up dating an older guy and is really in love. The man is twice her age but sends her money and provides for her in an LDR. He hasn’t met her kid yet, and I’m not sure how he’ll react or if he’ll be willing to raise another man’s child.

• The second attractive girl secretly hid from me that she was a Muslim. I always wondered why she hid me from her family, but I later found out that her dad was a strict Muslim (while her mom wasn’t). Hiding things from her dad was a red flag for me.

• The third girl was really good-looking, but in the end, I found out she was a gold digger. She had a princess mindset. When I jokingly mentioned a business-class flight ticket, she said she wouldn’t spend it on that but would rather use the money for vacations and other things. Other than her looks, she was just working in a small store, acting entitled.

I’m in my mid-20s, by the way, and the girls I approached in public already had Filipino boyfriends. Money was never the issue, nor were my looks.

Would speaking Bisaya improve my situation, then or now?

All of these girls were way better looking than most Filipinas. I understand that if you go there to date average-looking girls, dating is ten times easier—especially if you’re not using online dating. I matched all these girls online, so that must be the issue.

 

[Marco Pumpo]

it seems to be a global problem these days. if you date above average, the difficulty doesn't rise linearly but exponentially. it's because beauty is not distributed equally but most women are around average.

beautiful women have a lot more competitors surrounding them gassing up their egos. not many manage to stay humble, so most of their attitudes and personalities are ruined.

in my experience being able to speak their language helps to deepen the relationship with them and make them fall in love with you rather than attracting them in the first place.

 

[younglivinglife]

it seems to be a global problem these days. if you date above average, the difficulty doesn't rise linearly but exponentially. it's because beauty is not distributed equally but most women are around average.

beautiful women have a lot more competitors surrounding them gassing up their egos. not many manage to stay humble, so most of their attitudes and personalities are ruined.

in my experience being able to speak their language helps to deepen the relationship with them and make them fall in love with you rather than attracting them in the first place.

It's really unfortunate, since in Philippines, its same looks for bit less work. Its westernization that really made an issue.

I understand dating girls you need to be more good looking, but acting like that is an issue

 

[14passport]

It seems to be more of a you problem. Why do you only focus on the few girls outside of your league?

Those will usually have a much higher % of being trouble, single moms, unemployed, gold diggers...

so either focus on the normal girls for ltr or you are gonna need a boost in looks

 

[younglivinglife]

It seems to be more of a you problem. Why do you only focus on the few girls outside of your league?

Those will usually have a much higher % of being trouble, single moms, unemployed, gold diggers...

so either focus on the normal girls for ltr or you are gonna need a boost in looks

I honestly think I mog them that's the thing

If I went to 5 star resturant in Europe. And I'd pay 5 star prices
But when I go to Philippines 5 star resturant, I don't want to pay 5 star prices. Maybe 1 or 2 max.

Now obviously in relationship but it's very easy to mog Filipinas. It's just msot with dating apps act so entitled only cause of looks and simps.

 

[14passport]

I honestly think I mog them that's the thing

If I went to 5 star resturant in Europe. And I'd pay 5 star prices
But when I go to Philippines 5 star resturant, I don't want to pay 5 star prices. Maybe 1 or 2 max.

Now obviously in relationship but it's very easy to mog Filipinas. It's just msot with dating apps act so entitled only cause of looks and simps.

Why do you think you mog them? Just because you have more money than them? That's the kind of women you dont want to attract

For everyone else you need to be attractive enough

 

[mashed potatoe]

i only date average women in Asia, way less of a headache

 

[younglivinglife]

Why do you think you mog them? Just because you have more money than them? That's the kind of women you dont want to attract

For everyone else you need to be attractive enough

Bassicaly everything. I am 5.5 and they are max a 6. Heightmog, I'm In foreign country

Not just money but 5.5 is way better in PHP than Europe etc. Shows by looks I dated

 

[14passport]

Bassicaly everything. I am 5.5 and they are max a 6. Heightmog, I'm In foreign country

Not just money but 5.5 is way better in PHP than Europe etc. Shows by looks I dated

You say in the post you only date attractive girls and these girls are way better looking than the average there. How can they be a 6, surely they are 7s and 8s if thats the case.

If the few top girls you can attract are like this, i dont know what it is but there's something off that is preventing you from getting the good ones. Doesnt matter if you think you mog them or not, only thing that matters are your results. So either your dating app profile sucks, you are being a simp, you lack sex appeal or something else.

You can only attract broken 6s in one of the biggest cities in the world, hungry for white dick and your only competition is white sexpats.

 

[younglivinglife]

You say in the post you only date attractive girls and these girls are way better looking than the average there. How can they be a 6, surely they are 7s and 8s if thats the case.

If the few top girls you can attract are like this, i dont know what it is but there's something off that is preventing you from getting the good ones. Doesnt matter if you think you mog them or not, only thing that matters are your results. So either your dating app profile sucks, you are being a simp, you lack sex appeal or something else.

You can only attract broken 6s in one of the biggest cities in the world, hungry for white dick and your only competition is white sexpats.

Its cause I havent approached enough and speak Bisaya. Just dating apps. They are 6.5 and 7s. 8 is like 1 in 1000

 

[predeterminism]

So, I never dated average girls in the Philippine

Good job

One was attractive but not model-like—more in the top 20% of Filipinas. She had a kid at 18 and is now 20 or 21. She was a single mom, and I always caught her in lies. After we broke up but still talked, she kept lying about going on trips alone. She claimed she didn’t sleep with a guy who approached her, but she was always dishonest. In the end, she even said I wasn’t good in bed. I told her that most guys don’t take her seriously (since, as a single mom, she’s at most an attractive vacation girlfriend who gets dumped when guys return to their home country). She ended up dating an older guy and is really in love. The man is twice her age but sends her money and provides for her in an LDR. He hasn’t met her kid yet, and I’m not sure how he’ll react or if he’ll be willing to raise another man’s child

You should not date single moms at all in asia unless ur like 35+ . At least 30

The second attractive girl secretly hid from me that she was a Muslim. I always wondered why she hid me from her family, but I later found out that her dad was a strict Muslim (while her mom wasn’t). Hiding things from her dad was a red flag for me.

Who gives a shit tbh just convert for the jokes and story

The third girl was really good-looking, but in the end, I found out she was a gold digger. She had a princess mindset. When I jokingly mentioned a business-class flight ticket, she said she wouldn’t spend it on that but would rather use the money for vacations and other things. Other than her looks, she was just working in a small store, acting entitled.

Yeah it really fucking annoys me qhen a girl is some dead end job 200usd per month monkey nigger and thinks she's a 10. No idea why they act like this

I’m in my mid-20s, by the way, and the girls I approached in public already had Filipino boyfriends. Money was never the issue, nor were my looks

Autism. Girls say 'I have a boyfriend' if theyre not interested but don't want to be mean. Something is off about you, either face, hair, autism (I think this one), fashion and that's why ur not having good success despite being white. Also I think u may be too tall

Would speaking Bisaya improve my situation, then or now?

No you're being autistic. It's super embarrassing to speak filipino as a young white guy , since they all speak English.

You're being rejected for ur looks and autism . Not cos u don't speak bisaya lol

 

[younglivinglife]

Good job


You should not date single moms at all in asia unless ur like 35+ . At least 30



Who gives a shit tbh just convert for the jokes and story



Yeah it really fucking annoys me qhen a girl is some dead end job 200usd per month monkey nigger and thinks she's a 10. No idea why they act like this



Autism. Girls say 'I have a boyfriend' if theyre not interested but don't want to be mean. Something is off about you, either face, hair, autism (I think this one), fashion and that's why ur not having good success despite being white. Also I think u may be too tall



No you're being autistic. It's super embarrassing to speak filipino as a young white guy , since they all speak English.

You're being rejected for ur looks and autism . Not cos u don't speak bisaya lol

Its my second time here and im definitly doing much better than last year. But thing is, I have a girlfriend now

 

[biggunsar]

So, I never dated average girls in the Philippines—mostly attractive ones I matched with online.

If you don't speak Bisaya or offer very high value, they always come with problems and are never relationship-worthy.

• One was attractive but not model-like—more in the top 20% of Filipinas. She had a kid at 18 and is now 20 or 21. She was a single mom, and I always caught her in lies. After we broke up but still talked, she kept lying about going on trips alone. She claimed she didn’t sleep with a guy who approached her, but she was always dishonest. In the end, she even said I wasn’t good in bed. I told her that most guys don’t take her seriously (since, as a single mom, she’s at most an attractive vacation girlfriend who gets dumped when guys return to their home country). She ended up dating an older guy and is really in love. The man is twice her age but sends her money and provides for her in an LDR. He hasn’t met her kid yet, and I’m not sure how he’ll react or if he’ll be willing to raise another man’s child.

• The second attractive girl secretly hid from me that she was a Muslim. I always wondered why she hid me from her family, but I later found out that her dad was a strict Muslim (while her mom wasn’t). Hiding things from her dad was a red flag for me.

• The third girl was really good-looking, but in the end, I found out she was a gold digger. She had a princess mindset. When I jokingly mentioned a business-class flight ticket, she said she wouldn’t spend it on that but would rather use the money for vacations and other things. Other than her looks, she was just working in a small store, acting entitled.

I’m in my mid-20s, by the way, and the girls I approached in public already had Filipino boyfriends. Money was never the issue, nor were my looks.

Would speaking Bisaya improve my situation, then or now?

All of these girls were way better looking than most Filipinas. I understand that if you go there to date average-looking girls, dating is ten times easier—especially if you’re not using online dating. I matched all these girls online, so that must be the issue.

my experience. Speaking the native language always gives you access to better women.

Think about it this way "how did some poor bum fuck chick learn english...USUALLY because she's been fucking other english speaking guys". And if she's super fluent, she's super ho!

Now, that rule changes if she is from a wealthy family. My ex spoke fluent english as an indonesian. but she went to the best private schools in the country.

All women lie, and ones with kids are a red fucking flag. Means they "loved" someone at some point enough to have that guys bastard, but she was too stupid to realise she was a hump and dump. So she's going to pass those life lessons onto you (0r try to daddy you).

girls with kids, avoid. I was fucking this super hot girl, i mean, flawless face and pretty as a picture. but she had a kid. she started getting clingy. I outsmarted her by treating her better than the average, then suddenly went one time cheap. She complained. And that is what i was waiting for. Immediately blamed her for her behavior and told her i could not see her any longer.

good luck, life is fun. Its an adventure. but never trust a woman.

 

[Pained4ever]

but never trust a woman.

meanwhile cucks give women access to their bank account jfl

 

[biggunsar]

meanwhile cucks give women access to their bank account jfl

i blame that on western women. Making men so fucking thirsty. They get to asia and its' like heaven for them. And they have no balls, because they have been removed with all the toxic feminism from the west

i was really lucky. I was on my school basketball team since i was 10. All the way up to university. So i got free pussy. lots of it. So. I was never thirsty and never respected women or put them on a pedestal.

Giving a woman your bank account is insano.

 

[Pained4ever]

i blame that on western women. Making men so fucking thirsty. They get to asia and its' like heaven for them. And they have no balls, because they have been removed with all the toxic feminism from the west

i was really lucky. I was on my school basketball team since i was 10. All the way up to university. So i got free pussy. lots of it. So. I was never thirsty and never respected women or put them on a pedestal.

Giving a woman your bank account is insano.

i hate them too much to put them on a pedestal

 

[biggunsar]

i hate them too much to put them on a pedestal

i think as the older you get, the less "hot" women affect you.

when your in your 20's your still prone to infatuation (that's bad).
cause you lose all rational thought

but when you hit your 30's you start thinking "fuck this, she's pretty but something sucks about her" kinda dealio

i guess i put it like this

as you get older, you enjoy your solitude.
the only way you let a woman into your life, is if she is better than your solitude.
Its why older guys would rather pay than date a girl.
all guys are biologically wired to bust nut. But as you get older, you wanna bust nut and get back to your solitude. I really don't want to have to entertain you, or your stupid ideas "wanna go to the mall".....NOOO. whats the point, I already got my pussy. Only reason i went to malls is to look for new pussy.
or worry about what you want for dinner. Fuck that.
or at least that is what it is like for me.

 

[younglivinglife]

my experience. Speaking the native language always gives you access to better women.

Think about it this way "how did some poor bum fuck chick learn english...USUALLY because she's been fucking other english speaking guys". And if she's super fluent, she's super ho!

Now, that rule changes if she is from a wealthy family. My ex spoke fluent english as an indonesian. but she went to the best private schools in the country.

All women lie, and ones with kids are a red fucking flag. Means they "loved" someone at some point enough to have that guys bastard, but she was too stupid to realise she was a hump and dump. So she's going to pass those life lessons onto you (0r try to daddy you).

girls with kids, avoid. I was fucking this super hot girl, i mean, flawless face and pretty as a picture. but she had a kid. she started getting clingy. I outsmarted her by treating her better than the average, then suddenly went one time cheap. She complained. And that is what i was waiting for. Immediately blamed her for her behavior and told her i could not see her any longer.

good luck, life is fun. Its an adventure. but never trust a woman.

In Philippines most people learn English in school. Doesent matter Bisaya will help increase the attraction


I'm done with girls with kids one of biggest mistakes, I dated a near models but a kid.
They are worst time to date

I'm currently in LTR so far and no bad relationship dating

 

[biggunsar]

In Philippines most people learn English in school. Doesent matter Bisaya will help increase the attraction


I'm done with girls with kids one of biggest mistakes, I dated a near models but a kid.
They are worst time to date

I'm currently in LTR so far and no bad relationship dating

i hate to say it, but girls with kids are just a bad idea. I tried it. Didn't work out. And as some youtube relationship guys online explain it and they are right

that if you break up with teh girl, you also have an emotional attachement to the kid. Which you have ZERO rights as a "step parent"
so its like paying the bank loan on a car you can never really call your own. At anytime the girl in your life can take off with that car or the car can say "fuck you, you dont' own me"

its like marriage. there really is no benefit for you, to do it.

the only benefit i see is the hot girl is more "humble" and "nicer" to the average joe. But that is only because even the hot blond dumb bimbo figures out "damn it's hard to find a guy that's going to love me and my child". and that's when the attitude adjustment comes along

that is the only benefit

otherwise you are instantly in the "adult" zone and forced to be a dad, and its' a responsibility you really didn't make.

I would rather date a 6 out of 10 with a nice body, no kid
than a 11 out of 10 with a child.

 

[Rance]

girls with kids, avoid. I was fucking this super hot girl, i mean, flawless face and pretty as a picture. but she had a kid. she started getting clingy. I outsmarted her by treating her better than the average, then suddenly went one time cheap. She complained. And that is what i was waiting for. Immediately blamed her for her behavior and told her i could not see her any longer.

I had a pretty much identical experience but in my case she all but abandoned her child with her ex-husband and ex-husband's family. Visits them a couple times a year. In her case I think she married an oofy doofy dude and realized "wait I'm hot" and couldn't cope with it. So she travels around Asia boning above-average white dudes with blue eyes to "live life to its fullest" and have a mixed baby when the time is right. Kind of a weird and sad situation because she was stunningly beautiful and wicked smart. Not sure what went wrong.

I was falling into her trap but my perversion saved me. She was living with me in my tiny Tokyo apartment but I wanted to fuck other girls. Swung a couple threesomes with her which were amazing but it wasn't enough for me. So I told her to get her own place or get out lol

 

[biggunsar]

I had a pretty much identical experience but in my case she all but abandoned her child with her ex-husband and ex-husband's family. Visits them a couple times a year. In her case I think she married an oofy doofy dude and realized "wait I'm hot" and couldn't cope with it. So she travels around Asia boning above-average white dudes with blue eyes to "live life to its fullest" and have a mixed baby when the time is right. Kind of a weird and sad situation because she was stunningly beautiful and wicked smart. Not sure what went wrong.

I was falling into her trap but my perversion saved me. She was living with me in my tiny Tokyo apartment but I wanted to fuck other girls. Swung a couple threesomes with her which were amazing but it wasn't enough for me. So I told her to get her own place or get out lol

HAHAHA...the pooney is strong in this one

 

[Xavist]

I had a pretty much identical experience but in my case she all but abandoned her child with her ex-husband and ex-husband's family. Visits them a couple times a year. In her case I think she married an oofy doofy dude and realized "wait I'm hot" and couldn't cope with it. So she travels around Asia boning above-average white dudes with blue eyes to "live life to its fullest" and have a mixed baby when the time is right. Kind of a weird and sad situation because she was stunningly beautiful and wicked smart. Not sure what went wrong.

I was falling into her trap but my perversion saved me. She was living with me in my tiny Tokyo apartment but I wanted to fuck other girls. Swung a couple threesomes with her which were amazing but it wasn't enough for me. So I told her to get her own place or get out lol

So that Chinese girl got rich by divorcing her betabuxx?

 

[Rance]

So that Chinese girl got rich by divorcing her betabuxx?

Nah they both come from wealthy families. I think both sets of parents pressured the two of them to get married, almost a quasi-arranged marriage. Not sure about the details though

 

[younglivinglife]

i hate to say it, but girls with kids are just a bad idea. I tried it. Didn't work out. And as some youtube relationship guys online explain it and they are right

that if you break up with teh girl, you also have an emotional attachement to the kid. Which you have ZERO rights as a "step parent"
so its like paying the bank loan on a car you can never really call your own. At anytime the girl in your life can take off with that car or the car can say "fuck you, you dont' own me"

its like marriage. there really is no benefit for you, to do it.

the only benefit i see is the hot girl is more "humble" and "nicer" to the average joe. But that is only because even the hot blond dumb bimbo figures out "damn it's hard to find a guy that's going to love me and my child". and that's when the attitude adjustment comes along

that is the only benefit

otherwise you are instantly in the "adult" zone and forced to be a dad, and its' a responsibility you really didn't make.

I would rather date a 6 out of 10 with a nice body, no kid
than a 11 out of 10 with a child.

If the guy is alive, like the father not paying child support, he can request the kid back at any time. 10 or 5 years the kid won't care

 

[younglivinglife]

i hate to say it, but girls with kids are just a bad idea. I tried it. Didn't work out. And as some youtube relationship guys online explain it and they are right

that if you break up with teh girl, you also have an emotional attachement to the kid. Which you have ZERO rights as a "step parent"
so its like paying the bank loan on a car you can never really call your own. At anytime the girl in your life can take off with that car or the car can say "fuck you, you dont' own me"

its like marriage. there really is no benefit for you, to do it.

the only benefit i see is the hot girl is more "humble" and "nicer" to the average joe. But that is only because even the hot blond dumb bimbo figures out "damn it's hard to find a guy that's going to love me and my child". and that's when the attitude adjustment comes along

that is the only benefit

otherwise you are instantly in the "adult" zone and forced to be a dad, and its' a responsibility you really didn't make.

I would rather date a 6 out of 10 with a nice body, no kid
than a 11 out of 10 with a child.

Yeah I met some really hot girls but whatever some didn't even sleep cause waste of time really

Most are just easier to date that's why most foreigners date them

 

[BiggChungus]

I understand the way of thinking of these women who divorce their husbands to a certain extent

imagine you are married to someone who is your looksmatch or slightly below you. even if you like them, even if you REALLY love them, if women are messaging you every day begging you to pound their pussy, immediately, for free, and give you money on top of it, you really think you could hold out? I am sure some guys could, but not many.

this kind of infidelity is not strongly related to how 'good' or 'smart' (hah) a woman is. I think deep down at least 90-95% of all people will have trouble resisting this kind of temptation. not the temptation of dozens of dicks in particular, but the temptation of whatever stupid romantic shit you dreamed of a a young boy/girl actually coming to life. nothing went wrong per say, that's just how humans are built

fwiw, not that anyone asked, but this is why I kind of think it would be best to settle somewhat long term with 3 or so women who know there are other women in the picture. first, if they leave, so what? second, if you DO care about them, the existence of the other women keeps them in line, and possibly faithful, more than anythng you yourself could possibly do or say

in my experience, even though korean and japanese women can be tough to crack at times, they are somewhat open to this arrangement once you prove your value to them. the ones that are not sluts will know that they will have to get used by dozens of guys, or marry an oofy doofy as the alternative, neither of which is necessarily appealing on balance

 

[biggunsar]

I understand the way of thinking of these women who divorce their husbands to a certain extent

imagine you are married to someone who is your looksmatch or slightly below you. even if you like them, even if you REALLY love them, if women are messaging you every day begging you to pound their pussy, immediately, for free, and give you money on top of it, you really think you could hold out? I am sure some guys could, but not many.

this kind of infidelity is not strongly related to how 'good' or 'smart' (hah) a woman is. I think deep down at least 90-95% of all people will have trouble resisting this kind of temptation. not the temptation of dozens of dicks in particular, but the temptation of whatever stupid romantic shit you dreamed of a a young boy/girl actually coming to life. nothing went wrong per say, that's just how humans are built

fwiw, not that anyone asked, but this is why I kind of think it would be best to settle somewhat long term with 3 or so women who know there are other women in the picture. first, if they leave, so what? second, if you DO care about them, the existence of the other women keeps them in line, and possibly faithful, more than anythng you yourself could possibly do or say

in my experience, even though korean and japanese women can be tough to crack at times, they are somewhat open to this arrangement once you prove your value to them. the ones that are not sluts will know that they will have to get used by dozens of guys, or marry an oofy doofy as the alternative, neither of which is necessarily appealing on balance

well the truth is, after 3 years, even 2 years. Relationships get boring. If the relationship was about looks and boning. Well.....boning gets boring. And looks become jaded. So, that is one reason why most couples end up cheating.

and you hit it on the head it's the "romanticness" of it. Oh, he paid attention to me (even notice that is a womans GO TO excuse every fucking time)

in other words, the guy was keening on dicking you down, so he pulled out all the stops. EXACTLY like i used to do for you, but i don't have to do that anymore.

and women get flattered by that, and end up cheating. Women speak "there was no more spark"

well OF COURSE there is no more spark, no amount roll playing, dressing as the french maid is gonna to make it like the first kiss. That's just fact.

 

[Rance]

I understand the way of thinking of these women who divorce their husbands to a certain extent

imagine you are married to someone who is your looksmatch or slightly below you. even if you like them, even if you REALLY love them, if women are messaging you every day begging you to pound their pussy, immediately, for free, and give you money on top of it, you really think you could hold out? I am sure some guys could, but not many.

this kind of infidelity is not strongly related to how 'good' or 'smart' (hah) a woman is. I think deep down at least 90-95% of all people will have trouble resisting this kind of temptation. not the temptation of dozens of dicks in particular, but the temptation of whatever stupid romantic shit you dreamed of a a young boy/girl actually coming to life. nothing went wrong per say, that's just how humans are built

fwiw, not that anyone asked, but this is why I kind of think it would be best to settle somewhat long term with 3 or so women who know there are other women in the picture. first, if they leave, so what? second, if you DO care about them, the existence of the other women keeps them in line, and possibly faithful, more than anythng you yourself could possibly do or say

in my experience, even though korean and japanese women can be tough to crack at times, they are somewhat open to this arrangement once you prove your value to them. the ones that are not sluts will know that they will have to get used by dozens of guys, or marry an oofy doofy as the alternative, neither of which is necessarily appealing on balance

A woman in a monogamous relationship is like a single pillar standing upright, while you are the foundation at the bottom keeping it steady. People can come and push it over. Or maybe the wind will blow a little too strongly one way and it topples. Better make damn sure that the foundation (you) are enough to keep that pillar standing even as the spark of the relationship dims and your looks fade with age.

A multiple-relationship setup is like multiple pillars braced against each other. It creates a structure where the women are keeping each other in formation. You don't have to to act as much of a foundation because the existence of multiple women will generally do the heavy lifting for you. I have been caught texting other girls by my partner several times. Normies would think this leads to reduced affection and a damaged relationship. It NEVER does, rather it ALWAYS strengthens the relationship as she knows she has to chase and work harder to keep my attention. One pillar bolstered the other.

There is also the aspect of the you, the foundation, yourself. If I was in a long-term monogamous relationship and my girl started acting bitchy or unloving, I would go oofy doofy mode in a heartbeat. I literally wouldn't be able to resist, the scarcity instinct would kick in and I would kowtow to her to try to make her feel better. This of course makes her less attracted to me.

In a multiple relationship setup, if my girl started acting bitchy or unloving, I'd have the abundance to shrug it off and just ignore her for a bit. Without fail, she corrects her behavior and apologizes, chasing me harder and fortifying her attraction to me.

The main draw of multi-dating isn't even access to multiple girls, it's that it weirdly makes relationships less dramatic, more stable, and more loving. The big disclaimer here is that you shouldn't be cheating on girls. They should be aware of the setup. Lying is extremely difficult to manage and can often backfire.

If you are not willing or able to multi-date, you should at least be doing a "diet" version of it by having good looking female friends, being a little mysterious about where you're hanging out, and ideally building a strong presence on social media. "I would never cheat on you, I love you" ... but I could!

 

[EEmaxxer]

^^^^

LOLZ. Someone's been sipping the High Value Man Redpill Cool-Aid a little too much. Maybe this can work if the chicks you got on rotation are like a solid point below you and you got some cash to throw around. But if they are like a point above you (hopefully so cause you put in all this work to geomaxx right?)...without REALLY taking care of them...yeah good luck with that. lolz

 

[Rance]

^^^^

LOLZ. Someone's been sipping the High Value Man Redpill Cool-Aid a little too much. Maybe this can work if the chicks you got on rotation are like a solid point below you and you got some cash to throw around. But if they are like a point above you (hopefully so cause you put in all this work to geomaxx right?)...without REALLY taking care of them...yeah good luck with that. lolz

The whole point is that it's easier to date up when you date multiple women than if you're just dating one. I can attest to it

 

[Xavist]

The whole point is that it's easier to date up when you date multiple women than if you're just dating one. I can attest to it

The whole point is that it's easier to date up when you date multiple women than if you're just dating one. I can attest to it

Why do the hotter girls care about you having multiple, less attractive girls on rotation that you can access anytime tho?
They know you’re getting a worse deal with the uglier girls so why wouldn’t they just cut you off and keep chasing guys they deem better than you, like usual?

 

[EEmaxxer]

^^^
Thank you. Exactly.

 

[Rance]

Why do the hotter girls care about you having multiple, less attractive girls on rotation that you can access anytime tho?
They know you’re getting a worse deal with the uglier girls so why wouldn’t they just cut you off and keep chasing guys they deem better than you, like usual?

In every case the more "serious" girls were always less attractive than the ones who wanted more a medium-term relationship style thing so I can't really speak to it

 

[younglivinglife]

The whole point is that it's easier to date up when you date multiple women than if you're just dating one. I can attest to it

I found it more superficial and waste of time since most of these girls are met on apps.

 

[younglivinglife]

In every case the more "serious" girls were always less attractive than the ones who wanted more a medium-term relationship style thing so I can't really speak to it

That's cause hot girls have more options and need more value. That's all but girls want relationship too