Advice Does solo traveling ruining your chances?

Depends, sometime a wingman is useful as it's better to go to a club or bar with somebody instead of alone. Most girls aren't alone and you can pair up with a couple girls but many wingman you meet (especially in SEA) are extremely low value.

When I was in the Philippines/Thailand years ago I used to meet guys and propose to pick up girls together but these guys had EXTREME low self esteem levels.....to the point they made excuse not to approach pretty much any girl that wasn't unfuckable. They didn't want to go to high end places because they were afraid to meet with educated girls that had been to the West before and had seen Western guys before lol. Or they didn't want to approach girls that were above average for PHILIPPINES standard. They had extreme approach anxiety and the mostly could only meet girls through dating apps. They weren't even ugly, just either very autistic or with extreme low self esteem ruined by too many rejection from Western women.
So sometimes it's better to go at it alone, but if you find the right guys it's great to have night outs together
 
You're going to have to clarify whether you mean solo traveling or solo gaming/going out solo. Two very different things. Most people here are going to be solo travelers and there's nothing wrong with that provided you befriend people in your target country. Going out solo on the other hand sucks but it's still better than going out with idiots
 
Rance said:
You're going to have to clarify whether you mean solo traveling or solo gaming/going out solo. Two very different things. Most people here are going to be solo travelers and there's nothing wrong with that provided you befriend people in your target country. Going out solo on the other hand sucks but it's still better than going out with idiots
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Like going out on the strip cold approaching girls
 
htngeomax said:
Like going out on the strip cold approaching girls
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My friends tried to get me into the "day game" stuff but I never went with them, so I can't say much about it. I would think that going out with a friend and approaching girls separately would be the way to go.

At nighttime there's no contest, groups are way better, you can create a fun atmosphere that girls want to be a part of.
 
Rance said:
My friends tried to get me into the "day game" stuff but I never went with them, so I can't say much about it. I would think that going out with a friend and approaching girls separately would be the way to go.

At nighttime there's no contest, groups are way better, you can create a fun atmosphere that girls want to be a part of.
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Just a shame all of my friends wanna go to nt places like Spain and greece not SEA
 
htngeomax said:
Just a shame all of my friends wanna go to nt places like Spain and greece not SEA
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If you're blond and young in sea, you can instantly make friends with locals just off curiosity alone, as long as you're not in the most tourist infested hellholes.
 
going with friends will actually hurt you, not help. that said, it's way more fun with friends. you worry too much. is that a gen z thing?
 
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