The point being that not every instinct applies universally, or we would all have the same personality instead of being evolutionary predisposed towards varying traits. Look at the OCEAN traits and consider how every one of them relates to survival and how every one of them can be harmful in a particular regime or circumstance.
There's no proof of who was on the other end of these profiles. For all we know, it's bots, homosexuals and God knows what else. The data set is worthless and thus can't be used as evidence. You also must prove that they are primarily selecting for physical attractiveness and not SES.
"Errors exist, I don't perfectly know how much error, therefore all this data is worthless" how often do you think this way when you are not motivated towards a conclusion? What proportion of a dating site do you believe can be bots or catfishes without losing it's genuine customer base? Argue a percent number.
Also, if the racial bias of false profiles are made in bulk by people trying to bait people of a particular type (in this case white men) successfully, why the asymmetry between them and white men? If I were making false profiles to scam/catfish/etc western white men, I would not waste bandwidth creating disproportionately many bots simulating SEA and Indian women. The bot argument does not stand up, the incentives do not support the bot behavior you hypothesize, and in fact strongly oppose it. Even if all bot devs were to take the lazy approach and not adjust for ethnic incentives, it would not result in the situation to anticipate.
What is SES?
I get that you could argue that poor girls like money but if you want to argue that I think it is on you to bring a comparison between the success of western white male dating agencies in poor eastern european countries versus similarly impoverished asian countries. I think the evidence is strong enough to suggest that white men are widely respected and desired on the basis of their fundamental value.
Listen to me you deluded white male. You need to get your head out of your arse and realise that you aren't in a position of superiority in Western society. Look around you, the West is being flooded with non white males and they are being lifted up in society by the ruling class. You're in the gutter and you need to confront reality or you can remain in your delusions of grandeur and bring us all down with you.
This is not pertinent to the question we have been discussing, because the nature of mass "society" is neurotic and inconsistent. For what it is worth, if I somehow disagreed with you on this your words might have been very enlightening.
Please do not assume I am white, male, deluded or even that I endorse cross-race fertility. I have not stated these things.