Can we please stop with this cold approach autism

[predeterminism]

It's not the 1950s anymore bud

99% of people meet through dating apps/social media

Cold approaching some random girl in the streets who is trying to mind her own business and get along with her day is cringe af

It's like you're a pest and seem desperate af and humiliating yourself.

The problem you have is you are too subhuman or autistic to get dates from dating apps

So you hear old boomers tell you to Cold approach. But the fact you had to resort to cold approach, means you're not high smv enough or you're too autistic, to get success in person too

The last thing girls want is some autistic guy approaching them in the streets. Or some subhuman

Especially the fact you all use scripts. Which is obviously just a severe indicator of autism in the first place.


Even bar/club approaching isn't 100% nt. You should only approach in there if you get severe iois.

Rejections in clubs are humiliating cos everyone can see it and it nukes your smv and social status

Most people go to clubs with friends and meet guys/girls who they met from dating apps there. It's a place for warm leads to become hot leads

Not a place to find Cold leads and turn them into a hot lead(slay)



If u can't get luck on dating apps you're finished. U either gotta maxx everything, get surgery, or go to a shithole like phils.

Don't resort to cold approach autism please.

 

[kamster]

water wet is

 

[14passport]

if you dont have good success on dating apps its unlikely you will have success cold approaching random girls on the street
however, it's a very good way to find high quality girls you wouldn't be able to access on apps, but for that you need to have a decent amount of looks

 

[Rance]

Everybody has a threshold for how "warm" an approach needs to be. Approaching a girl in a grocery store at 2pm on a Tuesday is bad. But approaching a girl on a club dancefloor is okay. What about something in the middle, like if you're both outside a restaurant smoking cigs? Is that okay or not?

The truth is that socially adept people just approach people when it feels right. They get success. Players/Chads/whatever you want to call them don't even think about this stuff, they just see what they want and open it up, and assume they will get positive feedback. To be fair, a large part of this is that people with good looks receive positive feedback their entire life and never fear rejection or looking weird. Because of course everyone wants to talk to Chad.

 

[younglivinglife]

Approaching anyday anytime is a must. I just delete apps and keep off westernized brainrot

 

[predeterminism]

Approaching anyday anytime is a must. I just delete apps and keep off westernized brainrot

good good make sure u dont use apps . yes theyre dead. cant get any girls from them.

 

[Pained4ever]

good good make sure u dont use apps . yes theyre dead. cant get any girls from them.

especially if white. don't bother

 

[younglivinglife]

good good make sure u dont use apps . yes theyre dead. cant get any girls from them.

I think they suck for hot girls and I'm right

 

[14passport]

I think they suck for hot girls and I'm right

not true, there's plenty of good girls up to the looks level of 7s (maybe a few 8s)
the hard thing is being able to match with them

 

[younglivinglife]

not true, there's plenty of good girls up to the looks level of 7s (maybe a few 8s)
the hard thing is being able to match with them

I mean yeah. I actually match with 6.5 and 6 in Philippines and meet.

I can see Hot girls in Europe and never have interaction with them, neither do I want to the way they act

 

[14passport]

I mean yeah. I actually match with 6.5 and 6 in Philippines and meet.

I can see Hot girls in Europe and never have interaction with them, neither do I want to the way they act

yeah that's a different issue

in any case, dating apps are a good tool to have, it's not black and white
do everything you can if you are obsessed with getting the highest quality girls: use dating apps, instagram, approach on the street, meet girls through hobbies... work on improving yourself, it will help you online as well as in person

 

[younglivinglife]

yeah that's a different issue

in any case, dating apps are a good tool to have, it's not black and white
do everything you can if you are obsessed with getting the highest quality girls: use dating apps, instagram, approach on the street, meet girls through hobbies... work on improving yourself, it will help you online as well as in person

I agree. But I noticed the more I'm on dating apps, the more time I waste when I could be doing other stuff
Just my 2 cents

 

[FuckMaxxxer]

Cold approaching some random girl in the streets who is trying to mind her own business and get along with her day is cringe af

Caring what other people think is cringe.

99% of people meet through dating apps/social media

Lie.

Don't resort to cold approach autism please.

It worked for me in past, so I will. All you're doing is just trying to stifle competition with this psyop.


Cold approach def works, just be normal and banter with everyone. That's the way to do it. IRL you can date solid +2 points higher than girls you'd match online. Worth it.

 

[FuckMaxxxer]

Players/Chads/whatever you want to call them don't even think about this stuff, they just see what they want and open it up, and assume they will get positive feedback.

This. Only losers think what's "proper", "cringe" or what's acceptable in society. Real men just see what they want and go for the kill.

Not caring about what society thinks was the first shit test and you failed it, OP.