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ppl said korean guys get all the hot girls here

since living here for nearly a year yea korean guys are usually the younger foreigners with more style and decent height but always low tier faces no offense

but i literally havent ever seen a SEA girl with korean guy in my entire time here. its always east asians with east asians or SEA with SEA.

but i see hundreds of white guys dating SEA girls.

Also the quality of girls white guys get here is insane. young and even old subhumans

at the beginning i was happy with an average thai girl cos im not even that egotistical and easy to please since i find SEA girls hot.

but after seeing all the other white guys with stunners it made me realize wtf am i doing with average , if even these subhumans get 9/10s.

now i have a definitely much above average looking gf. but shes the one who thinks im the prize

idk where the thing came about saying white guys date low tier girls here. i literally havent seen that once. its always subhuman whites with literal stunners.

i think its just ethnics panic seethe-coping/mateguarding
 
DeathWish188 said:
now i have a definitely much above average looking gf. but shes the one who thinks im the prize

idk where the thing came about saying white guys date low tier girls here. i literally havent seen that once. its always subhuman whites with literal stunners.
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Got photos?
 
DeathWish188 said:
yea man i walk around taking photos of couples to show to my incel forum friends
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I'm just asking because everyone says the opposite. You're the only person who says that foreigners in Thailand get with attractive women. I've seen videos that definitely make it look like as if normie whites are dating subhumans.
 
F_Wilks said:
I'm just asking because everyone says the opposite
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look at who is 'everyone' tho . its all ethnics

im just saying what i see irl from an unbiased perspective. u can believe what u want tho. if anything i guess maybe i should start pushing that myth too to lower competition

take a step into asia and youll see it on your first day
 
DeathWish188 said:
look at who is 'everyone' tho . its all ethnics

im just saying what i see irl from an unbiased perspective. u can believe what u want tho. if anything i guess maybe i should start pushing that myth too to lower competition

take a step into asia and youll see it on your first day
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How do you know it's ethnics? It's hard to tell what someone looks like from behind a screen.

Anyways I'm not saying you're wrong, I'm just saying it's all over the place what people say about Asia, like how attractive the women are, whether or not foreigners can even date them, how much JBW is still a thing, et cetera.

There's a guy on here called Rance who has a bunch of high quality posts about Japan, he honestly makes it sound like a heaven. Then are other people who take a massive shit on the place and make it sound like hell on earth.

If you ask 10 people what they think about it, you'll get 10 different opinions.
 
geneblackman said:
Aznidentity and asianmasculinity redditors are spreading the myth all over the english speaking internet world that asians have massive smv now because of kpop halo
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To be fair the ones that look like kpop idols do have a good niche everywhere, but that's sub 1% of all asians
 
I feel the same about Japan. The disconnect is that YOU and I think of "stunners" as something completely different from other people. You or I look at a beautiful girl on the street and say, "she's a 7.5", but EEmaxxer looks at that girl and says she's a 5. So we're all seeing the same thing, but the reason we disagree is our looks standards are tuned differently
 
Like this image from another thread:

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This kind of pairing is pretty typical for Japan. You and I, we're surprised to see this. I'd rate the girl a 6.5 (maybe even a 7) and the guy a 5. But EEmaxxer and many others on this forum would rate them both 5s, which I just can't wrap my head around, but makes sense to them.

To put it very simply, I am thankful that I fetishize Asian women to some extent
 
Rance said:
Like this image from another thread:

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This kind of pairing is pretty typical for Japan. You and I, we're surprised to see this. I'd rate the girl a 6.5 (maybe even a 7) and the guy a 5. But EEmaxxer and many others on this forum would rate them both 5s, which I just can't wrap my head around, but makes sense to them.

To put it very simply, I am thankful that I fetishize Asian women to some extent
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This girl I would def rate around a ~7. 6.5 at the worst. The dude is a 4 (LTN). If this is for real, major respect to the dude for pulling it off. Frankly this girl mogs all the girls you posted on that chart you made of Japanese girls from those street interviews. The girls you rated 7s were straight up 4s to me on that chart. I’ve never seen this type of pairing IRL in all the time I lived in Asia.
 
Rance said:
Like this image from another thread:

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This kind of pairing is pretty typical for Japan. You and I, we're surprised to see this. I'd rate the girl a 6.5 (maybe even a 7) and the guy a 5. But EEmaxxer and many others on this forum would rate them both 5s, which I just can't wrap my head around, but makes sense to them.

To put it very simply, I am thankful that I fetishize Asian women to some extent
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I saw this image in another thread, and I almost choked. I know that if I was it that guy's shoes, I'd feel incredibly insecure to the point that it would unavoidably begin affecting my mental health. I'd be going on a diet, hitting the gym, learning skincare, going in for Lasik surgery so I don't need glasses, going to expensive hair salons, taking 47 dietary supplements, starting a small business to increase my salary and social status. Complacency wouldn't exist. I'd be a man on fire.

Also, if she's letting me hit it raw, there's zero chance that I'm not doing so. I'd be nuking her womb on a daily basis. Even if having kids wasn't on my radar, I would definitely consider it I was in that guy's position, simply as a means of locking her down, and keeping her stuck in the house. I'd be guarding my territory like a sociopath.

Also, this man's not really a 5, in all honestly. The looksgap here is higher than that. The mere presence of nearby chads is going to be a concern, unless those chads are "countryboy" chads who worship at the altar of blond women.
 
Rance said:
Like this image from another thread:

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This kind of pairing is pretty typical for Japan. You and I, we're surprised to see this. I'd rate the girl a 6.5 (maybe even a 7) and the guy a 5. But EEmaxxer and many others on this forum would rate them both 5s, which I just can't wrap my head around, but makes sense to them.

To put it very simply, I am thankful that I fetishize Asian women to some extent
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That guy is a total fucking uggo. He's punching way harder than he should be. So its either she edited her photos (which a lot of Asian girls do in a subtle manner) or East Asia is just too easy.
 
EEmaxxer said:
This girl I would def rate around a ~7. 6.5 at the worst. The dude is a 4 (LTN). If this is for real, major respect to the dude for pulling it off. Frankly this girl mogs all the girls you posted on that chart you made of Japanese girls from those street interviews. The girls you rated 7s were straight up 4s to me on that chart. I’ve never seen this type of pairing IRL in all the time I lived in Asia.
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Which asian countries have you lived in?
 
JohnGotti said:
That guy is a total fucking uggo. He's punching way harder than he should be. So its either she edited her photos (which a lot of Asian girls do in a subtle manner) or East Asia is just too easy.
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I'm being a little generous because the photos were taken to be very flattering for her, but very unflattering for him. I almost look like that sometimes when I'm caught unexpectedly from the side with my chin down.

He's just a bit fat, if he lost 15 pounds, fixed his hair, and we got a prepared portrait photo, we'd all be calling him strong MTN
 
F_Wilks said:
I saw this image in another thread, and I almost choked. I know that if I was it that guy's shoes, I'd feel incredibly insecure to the point that it would unavoidably begin affecting my mental health. I'd be going on a diet, hitting the gym, learning skincare, going in for Lasik surgery so I don't need glasses, going to expensive hair salons, taking 47 dietary supplements, starting a small business to increase my salary and social status. Complacency wouldn't exist. I'd be a man on fire.

Also, if she's letting me hit it raw, there's zero chance that I'm not doing so. I'd be nuking her womb on a daily basis. Even if having kids wasn't on my radar, I would definitely consider it I was in that guy's position, simply as a means of locking her down, and keeping her stuck in the house. I'd be guarding my territory like a sociopath.

Also, this man's not really a 5, in all honestly. The looksgap here is higher than that. The mere presence of nearby chads is going to be a concern, unless those chads are "countryboy" chads who worship at the altar of blond women.
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It's nothing to go crazy about, yeah, she's a bit more attractive than the type of girl who will usually fawn over you but if you just focus on volume you'll eventually find a girl who looks like that if your looks level is around that guy's looks level.

JohnGotti said:
That guy is a total fucking uggo. He's punching way harder than he should be. So its either she edited her photos (which a lot of Asian girls do in a subtle manner) or East Asia is just too easy.
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It's not that East Asia is "easy", you still have to put a maniacal amount of work into dating to get the conditions right, but the point is that it's attainable. Shit, I'm probably spending 6+ hours a day doing dating related stuff like dating apps, texting, keeping my room in shape, arranging date logistics, and actually going on the dates. It is not easy at all. The only reason I'm happy go lucky about it now is because I haven't started properly working yet. Once I begin working for 8 hours a day I'm going to be absolutely exhausted day in day out. But I like that, because the rewards are good.
 
EEmaxxer said:
This girl I would def rate around a ~7. 6.5 at the worst. The dude is a 4 (LTN). If this is for real, major respect to the dude for pulling it off. Frankly this girl mogs all the girls you posted on that chart you made of Japanese girls from those street interviews. The girls you rated 7s were straight up 4s to me on that chart. I’ve never seen this type of pairing IRL in all the time I lived in Asia.
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This is in the UK too lmao
 
Rance said:
Like this image from another thread:

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This kind of pairing is pretty typical for Japan. You and I, we're surprised to see this. I'd rate the girl a 6.5 (maybe even a 7) and the guy a 5. But EEmaxxer and many others on this forum would rate them both 5s, which I just can't wrap my head around, but makes sense to them.

To put it very simply, I am thankful that I fetishize Asian women to some extent
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He looks like the type of guy @blatonslatt would cuck
 
EEmaxxer said:
This girl I would def rate around a ~7. 6.5 at the worst. The dude is a 4 (LTN). If this is for real, major respect to the dude for pulling it off. Frankly this girl mogs all the girls you posted on that chart you made of Japanese girls from those street interviews. The girls you rated 7s were straight up 4s to me on that chart. I’ve never seen this type of pairing IRL in all the time I lived in Asia.
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I am now even more confused, the first girl I went on a date with in China looks a lot like this girl, but I rated her a 5.5 to try to adjust my ratings correctly. I think they both have this slight "melted" look. You can see the most clearly in the first and fourth photos between her cheeks and chin, it is clear that her jawline is actually quite flabby but she's masking it with her facial expression, kind of like mewing I guess. I think the third photo is the best looking, but is a total farce and is a combination of good posing and photo manipulation.
 
Rance said:
This kind of pairing is pretty typical for Japan.
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I see couples like this on Hellotalk and it drives me insane because I don't understand it. I remember what you said about Japanese women wanting a Japanese guy in a foreign body, but I mean there has to be a limit to the looks level they're willing to stoop down to no?
 
ExcuseMe said:
am I the only one who thinks this woman's face has been run through a beauty filter? especially with how rampant filters are in East Asia. there's an airbrushed kawaii-fied look to it.
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Believe it or not but that’s quite tame compared to what you’ll run into here in the Middle Kingdom.
 
AlexBrown84 said:
Believe it or not but that’s quite tame compared to what you’ll run into here in the Middle Kingdom.
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after I saw in Napoleon de Geso's Tinder swiping videos in China, I definitely believe you
 
EEmaxxer said:
LOLZ. Lived in Thailand for 2.5 years…and was recently there twice the past 8 months…subhumans (of any race honestly) dating 9s/10s…please. 🤣 Stop the cap 🧢.
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im not capping. even subhuman 60 year olds date 18 year old 9's. let alone the young white guys, they do even better

just cos ur asian so it hurts youre in denial

Rance said:
I feel the same about Japan. The disconnect is that YOU and I think of "stunners" as something completely different from other people. You or I look at a beautiful girl on the street and say, "she's a 7.5", but EEmaxxer looks at that girl and says she's a 5. So we're all seeing the same thing, but the reason we disagree is our looks standards are tuned differently
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its not cos he rates differently its cos hes just a seething ricedick in denial

no wonder he wont step foot back in asia. must make u rage seeing all ur hot women with subhuman white guys
 
ExcuseMe said:
your expressed ideal preference is "4'10 and dark brown". this is not a usual preference for white guys. so your subjective 9 is going to be rated lower by most people.
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this is literally the only midget dark brown one i have even dated here. most the girls i dated were light skinned and fit asian beauty standards more. since theyre the ones more obsessed with white guys

youre just in denial and seething that we got the most top tier women
 
DeathWish188 said:
im not capping. even subhuman 60 year olds date 18 year old 9's. let alone the young white guys, they do even better

just cos ur asian so it hurts youre in denial


its not cos he rates differently its cos hes just a seething ricedick in denial

no wonder he wont step foot back in asia. must make u rage seeing all ur hot women with subhuman white guys
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LOLZ. The cope is too damn high! XD

You know what though, the fact that you think SEA 5s are 9s and 10s is great thing. Good for you. Makes your life hella easier.

In SEA, there are more times where I thought to myself "Damn bro, you came here all the way for that?" (In a dissapointed way) than the other way around. I ain't an unfair person. The vast majority of times, it's more or less a looksmatch at this point nowadays in SEA.
 
Rance said:
Like this image from another thread:

View attachment 11848

This kind of pairing is pretty typical for Japan. You and I, we're surprised to see this. I'd rate the girl a 6.5 (maybe even a 7) and the guy a 5. But EEmaxxer and many others on this forum would rate them both 5s, which I just can't wrap my head around, but makes sense to them.

To put it very simply, I am thankful that I fetishize Asian women to some extent
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Couples like this in Japan aren't common at all. Nerdy guy with cute girl? Sure
But not to these extremes. Guy is clearly below average, easily a 4, and girl is way above average if she looks this good somewhat natural.
 
EEmaxxer said:
LOLZ. The cope is too damn high! XD

You know what though, the fact that you think SEA 5s are 9s and 10s is great thing. Good for you. Makes your life hella easier.

In SEA, there are more times where I thought to myself "Damn bro, you came here all the way for that?" (In a dissapointed way) than the other way around. I ain't an unfair person. The vast majority of times, it's more or less a looksmatch at this point nowadays in SEA.
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Its predeterminism again, don't lose time with him. He lives in his own fantasy.
 
14passport said:
Its predeterminism again, don't lose time with him. He lives in his own fantasy.
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i literally live in asia and go outside everyday with my gf, meanwhile you guys are rotting in your basement in the west. yet apparently you guys know more about whats going on here and i am the one living in a fantasy. sure lol

seethe @14passport @EEmaxxer @Rance how does it feel i made one of ur women pregnant
 
DeathWish188 said:
i literally live in asia and go outside everyday with my gf, meanwhile you guys are rotting in your basement in the west. yet apparently you guys know more about whats going on here and i am the one living in a fantasy. sure lol

seethe @14passport @EEmaxxer @Rance how does it feel i made one of ur women pregnant
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it ain't no fun if the homies can't have none
 
geneblackman said:
Aznidentity and asianmasculinity redditors are spreading the myth all over the english speaking internet world that asians have massive smv now because of kpop halo
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The funny think about the kpop halo is that it doesn't even work, because the average Korean has subhuman tier looks. All the kpop obsessed foids are attracted to an illusion.
 
Mafumofu said:
The funny think about the kpop halo is that it doesn't even work, because the average Korean has subhuman tier looks. All the kpop obsessed foids are attracted to an illusion.
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I disagree, I think it's a repeatable formula. Why does JBW even work? Because of the decades of positive representation of white guys in media as being attractive, high social status, wealthy, sexually desirable, cool, etc. No reason to think that kpop and other Asian male sex appeal influences wouldn't work the same way.

The cope is in the scale, there's no way that kpop and dramas have boosted East Asian guys to the level of JBW. It's much more of a minor thing
 
I’m in Japan and I barely even see any interracial relationships. I think what most white guys experience is being “exotic” or unique for the first time in their lives when they finally leave their majority white counties

As far as white guys (or any guys) dating 9’s/10’s in Thailand, I think we all know that’s a joke. If anything I always think and feel it’s Thai women who are really winning in Thailand, I see them ascending wayy beyond what they should get. These bitches got men flying halfway around the world for them
 
I remember on Reddit ages ago I saw a Tinder experiment in Bangkok of an Italian model and a Korean model and the Korean model got 10x the matches. I cannot find it but it would be interesting to run this experiment again to get a definite answer
 
Meeks said:
As far as white guys (or any guys) dating 9’s/10’s in Thailand, I think we all know that’s a joke. If anything I always think and feel it’s Thai women who are really winning in Thailand, I see them ascending wayy beyond what they should get. These bitches got men flying halfway around the world for them
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you're so far off the mark its crazy. i can tell you never stepped foot outside of cuckmerica.

literally go outside here and every couple you see is a white subhuman with 9s and 10s.

thai women winning? LOL. what's winning about being an 18 year old stunner and dating a 70 old ugly white man(70% of the time), or if they're lucky, a 30-40yo balding ugly white man(29% of the time). or if theyre extremely lucky, a utter subhuman bottom of the barrel young white guy.(1% of the time)

anyone who's actually been to asia would see what i see on the first day.
 
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myeyes said:
I remember on Reddit ages ago I saw a Tinder experiment in Bangkok of an Italian model and a Korean model and the Korean model got 10x the matches. I cannot find it but it would be interesting to run this experiment again to get a definite answer
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yeah i could see that being true, korean models are looksmaxxed to asian beauty standards

italians are very worthless here and looksmaxxed to the opposite of western beauty standards. only white whites are desired here. avg white guy gets more than 10x avg korean guys matches, wouldnt even be close

and reminder i have literally seen 0 korean-SEA couples in my entire 9 months here. oh wait maybe i saw 1 and it was in pattaya a guy blatantly bringing a prostitute in a school girl outfit to his room
 
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