Are women overseas generally hyperjudgemental of social status and preselection like western women are?

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In the west, it seems like any young MTB+ is searching like a bloodhound for signs that you are talking to other women and/or have been with other women before (preferably ones that mog her). Most giga NT early bloomers don't have any issues getting over this hurdle since they've been building their IG since middle school, dated MTB+ since middle/high school and have never had issues building strong social circles that facilitate meeting women.

But for late bloomers that lack these foundations, this a massive obstacle that will keep you in LTB purgatory forever unless you somehow break into chad territory or maybe geomaxxing which is why i ask if women overseas care about this stuff as much as western women.

Based on what I've seen from geomax content creators like Casey Red beard, max kesik, patrick red, etc it seems like it does matter but not to the same degree. More emphasis is put on money and lifestyle than preselection it seems when it comes to IG game and cold approaching has higher success in some of these countries which means insularity might not be a huge issue. Am I wrong?
 
In the west, it seems like any young MTB+ is searching like a bloodhound for signs that you are talking to other women and/or have been with other women before (preferably ones that mog her). Most giga NT early bloomers don't have any issues getting over this hurdle since they've been building their IG since middle school, dated MTB+ since middle/high school and have never had issues building strong social circles that facilitate meeting women.
I have never experienced this, and not entirely sure what you mean. All women will hyperselect and make sure you are not a weirdo, and that includes having friends, job, degree, lifestyle... but i have never seen them try to dig your exes or hookups to see if they were hot.

Based on what I've seen from geomax content creators like Casey Red beard, max kesik, patrick red, etc it seems like it does matter but not to the same degree. More emphasis is put on money and lifestyle than preselection it seems when it comes to IG game and cold approaching has higher success in some of these countries which means insularity might not be a huge issue. Am I wrong?
Different countries will optimise for different things. But in general women want social status everywhere. I can't imagine a young woman with a social circle and job, will date a 60yo sexpat and be comfortable showing him in public.
Which is why you rarely see PPBs with high value women, those women would never show up with one of those guys in front of their friends.
 
I have never experienced this, and not entirely sure what you mean. All women will hyperselect and make sure you are not a weirdo, and that includes having friends, job, degree, lifestyle... but i have never seen them try to dig your exes or hookups to see if they were hot.
This is very common among young women in America. Esp MTB+. If ur subchad, playing the IG game and constantly demonstrating social proof and preselection is mandatory. My coworkers IRL and women on social media will always talking about stalking a guys IG, his followers/following, his stories, etc. and they do this to see if his displaying any signals of preselection or a cool lifestyle. its a big deal
 
This is very common among young women in America. Esp MTB+. If ur subchad, playing the IG game and constantly demonstrating social proof and preselection is mandatory. My coworkers IRL and women on social media will always talking about stalking a guys IG, his followers/following, his stories, etc. and they do this to see if his displaying any signals of preselection or a cool lifestyle. its a big deal
yes of course they will do that, its part of the game, if you give them your IG, they will look at everything
if they find red flags you are out

i just dont think it has anything to do with if you fucked hot women before, which you mentioned on your first message
 
Much less so ime. I straight up tell girls I date in SEA that I don't use social media, if they ask me. That has never got me rejected over there. In the west that would often result in a ghosting. Also foreign girls NT radar will be jammed by language and cultural barriers.

You do benefit by showing off an interesting life style, of course, but it will be less reliant on the social proof aspect.
 

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